Drawing from the article 13 Things We Can Learn from Couples Who Stay Together No Matter What by Phoebe Mertens, Stan shares practical insights and biblical truths that can help you reflect on your role in your marriage. Whether it’s mastering the art of communication, embracing growth, or prioritizing intimacy, this episode is filled with wisdom for couples seeking healthier, more fulfilling relationships.

13 Things We Can Learn from Couples Who Stay Together No Matter What

Stan also dives into the biblical foundation of mutual submission and humility, emphasizing how a heart focused on serving God and each other can transform a marriage.

Key Topics Discussed

• The 13 principles of lasting relationships, including respect, communication, independence, forgiveness, and intimacy.
• The importance of mutual submission and humility in marriage, as taught in Ephesians 5:21.
• How modern individualism and self-centeredness harm relationships.
• Practical steps to align your marriage with biblical principles.

Episode Highlights

• Unwavering Respect: Why honoring each other’s dignity is essential, even during disagreements.
• Healthy Independence: How personal growth and space can strengthen your relationship.
• Biblical Perspective: Insights on humility, submission, and prioritizing others from Ephesians 5:21 and other scriptures.
• Cultural Reflection: The dangers of individualism in relationships and how to counteract it with biblical values.

Takeaways

• Marriage isn’t about perfection; it’s about building an authentic, Christ-centered relationship.
• A healthy marriage thrives when both partners embrace humility, submission, and selflessness.
• Small, consistent efforts in communication, forgiveness, and intimacy make a big difference.

Resources Mentioned

• Article: 13 Things We Can Learn from Couples Who Stay Together No Matter What by Phoebe Mertens.
• Bible Verses: Ephesians 5:21, Hebrews 13:17, 1 Peter 5:5, James 4:7.

In this episode of Pivotal Decisions, Stan dives into the overwhelming topic of information overload. Quoting Henry David Thoreau’s observation, “Most men lead lives of quiet desperation,” Stan explores how the constant influx of news and updates impacts us and why it’s essential to take control. He examines an article by Dr. Tracy Brower from Forbes titled, “6 Reasons You’re Overwhelmed and How to Handle Information Overload,” breaking down the major factors contributing to our modern-day overwhelm and practical steps we can take to reclaim our peace of mind.

6 Reasons You’re Overwhelmed And How To Handle Information Overload

Key Topics Covered:

1. The Negativity of News
2. Constant Accessibility and Urgency
3. The Complexity and Trustworthiness of Information
4. Isolation in Information Consumption
5. It May Not Be Trustworthy
6. You’re Accessing It Alone

• Set Boundaries: Use app timers and limit your media consumption, especially in the morning.
• Replace Scrolling with Activities: Seek balance by engaging in outdoor activities, reading, or spending time with loved ones.
• Deepen Your Knowledge: Investigate topics that concern you and intentionally expose yourself to diverse viewpoints.
• Nurture Relationships: Building connections with friends can improve mental health and overall wellbeing.
• Get Involved Locally: Volunteering can bring a sense of accomplishment and help you feel positively engaged in your community.

In this episode, host Stan discusses his approach to voting in the 2024 election. He explores how faith and good citizenship come together to influence our political choices. As Stan emphasizes, while no political leader can fix everything, voting is one key way to engage responsibly in our communities and nation.

Key Points Covered:

1. Praying for Guidance
2. Studying the Ballot
3. Reading Party Platforms
4. Evaluating Candidates and Issues Stan lists his guiding principles when evaluating candidates, with emphasis on:
   • Freedom of Religion
   • Character and Integrity
   • Sanctity of Human Life
   • Traditional Family Values
   • National Security
   • Fiscal Responsibility and Government Spending

What is your favorite month of the year? In this episode, Timmy Williamson joins Stan to discuss their favorite and least favorite months of the year. The discussion led them to reflect on how time passes quickly and the importance of using your time wisely.

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In this episode of Pivotal Decisions, Stan tackles a topic that most of us prefer to avoid—planning for your funeral. Drawing from his experiences as a pastor and the many funerals he’s conducted, Stan shares 7 practical and intentional steps to help you prepare for your own funeral or the funeral of a loved one. From writing down funeral plans and selecting a funeral home to making pre-arrangements and crafting a will, this episode offers helpful guidance from a Christian perspective to ease the burden on family members and ensure your wishes are honored.

In this episode of Pivotal Decisions, Stan addresses the difficult and often perplexing questions that arise in the aftermath of natural disasters, like the destruction caused by Hurricane Helena. Drawing from Scripture and Christian theology, Stan offers insight into how believers can process such events from a Biblical worldview. He emphasizes the brokenness of the world due to sin, the limitations of humanity, and the opportunities disasters present for Christians to serve and reflect the love of Christ.

• Pray for those impacted by Hurricane Helena and other natural disasters.
• Consider supporting relief efforts through trusted organizations like SEND Relief or your local church.
• Embrace the opportunity to be the hands and feet of Christ by helping those in need in your community.

In this episode, Stan continues the discussion on the complex and often controversial topic of politics and the church. While some believe the church should avoid political discourse, others argue for its increased involvement. Stan's goal in this series is not to endorse a candidate but to help Christians navigate their role in the political process.

5 Truth Statements:

1. God’s Sovereignty Over History
2. Authority is Established by God
3. God’s Word Transcends Political Platforms
4. Our True Enemy is Not Flesh and Blood
5. Jesus Christ Reigns Supreme

Action Steps for Christians:

1. Pray for Political Leaders Christians are commanded to pray for those in positions of power (1 Timothy 2:1-2). Suggested prayer points include:
   • Wisdom
   • Discernment
   • That leaders become instruments of God
   • Thanksgiving
   • God’s will to be done

How to Pray for Those in Authority - Strategic Renewal

1. Participate in the Political Process Politics is part of a Christian’s witness. Involvement is essential for promoting what is good, right, and Biblical (Jeremiah 29:7). Stan encourages Christians to vote, run for office, and engage with a Biblical worldview.
2. Support Policies that Uphold Biblical Teachings Christians must vote for policies and platforms that align with Scripture, especially on issues like family, gender, and the sanctity of life.
3. Allegiance to Jesus and the Great Commission Above politics, Christians are called to make disciples and love their neighbors. Engagement in politics should complement, not overshadow, this mission.
4. Citizenship in Heaven, Mindset on Earth While Christians live on earth, their citizenship is in heaven. They should engage in politics with the mindset that they are ultimately subjects of God’s kingdom (Philippians 3:20).

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The decisions you make today determine your tomorrow.

In this episode of the Pivotal Decisions Podcast, Stan explores the role of the church in the political arena. Should pastors talk about politics from the pulpit? Does the Bible instruct us on how to vote? Stan takes a balanced, Scripture-centered approach to these questions, discussing the tension between the church’s responsibility to speak on important moral issues while avoiding partisan politics. Drawing on historical examples like Dietrich Bonhoeffer and biblical truths, Stan offers five guiding principles for Christians navigating the political landscape.

Key Takeaways:

1. History is in God’s Hands
2. All Authority is Established by God
3. God’s Word Transcends Political Platforms
4. We Have No Human Enemies
5. Jesus Christ Reigns Over All

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