• 310 \\ Finding Freedom Through Community: Navigating Life's Challenges with the Set Free Sisterhood Community.
    Dec 19 2024

    In this episode, I'm opening up about the real-life challenges I've been navigating this month - from recovering from a virus, to preparing for Christmas and a wedding, to supporting one of my teenagers.

    Through it all, I've learned the power of being present, prioritizing rest, and leaning on my community for support. That's why I'm so passionate about inviting you to join the Support Sisterhood Program and Community starting January 6th.

    In this 7-week program, you'll get the structure and accountability to address your relationship with alcohol, but more importantly, you'll find a sisterhood of women who "get it." We'll share our struggles and victories, pray for each other, and learn how to show up as our most authentic selves.

    I share testimonials from women who have already experienced the transformative power of this community - from finding the strength to stop drinking, to gaining clarity on their values and priorities.

    This isn't about perfection, it's about progress. We'll celebrate the wins and learn from the slip-ups, because that's where the real growth happens.

    If you're ready to remove alcohol from your life so you can see yourself more clearly, I invite you to join us. Head to http://setfreesisterhood.com to sign up today. I can't wait to connect with you in the new year!

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    21 min
  • 309 \\ The Truth About The Pursuit of Happiness: Redefining Joy, Connection, and Contentment.
    Dec 12 2024

    In this episode, I'm diving deep into the topic of happiness and challenging the common misconceptions we often have about what it means to truly thrive and find fulfillment in life.

    Too often, we get caught up in chasing external markers of success - material possessions, validation from others, or the promise of a "happily ever after" moment. But as I've learned through my own journey, lasting joy and contentment come from nurturing meaningful relationships, finding purpose, and cultivating a deep spiritual connection.

    I share personal anecdotes and research-backed insights on why the pursuit of happiness can actually lead us to miss out on the full range of human emotions and experiences that make life rich and meaningful. We discuss:

    • The difference between happiness, joy, and contentment, and why it's important to redefine what we're really seeking

    • The role that emotions play in our journey towards freedom and authenticity

    • Common myths about what brings happiness (material possessions, external validation, instant gratification, etc.)

    • The research-backed factors that truly contribute to overall well-being and fulfillment

    • The vital importance of relationships, purpose, physical/mental health, autonomy, and spiritual connection

    If you've been feeling like the "happiness" you're chasing is elusive or unsatisfying, this episode will provide a fresh perspective and practical steps you can take to cultivate more joy, intimacy, and wholeness in your life.

    I also share an exciting update about the next round of my Support Sisterhood program starting January 6th, and how this community can be a game-changer for those seeking support and accountability on their personal growth journey.

    So grab a pen and paper, and get ready to redefine what it means to truly thrive. Let's dive in!

    JOIN THE JANUARY 2025 SUPPORT SISTERHOOD HERE:

    https://setfreesisterhood.com/support-sisterhood

    Email: michelle@setfreesisterhood.com

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    31 min
  • 308 \\ Navigating Social Events Alcohol-Free: Your Holiday Toolkit.
    Dec 5 2024

    The holiday season is upon us, and with it comes a whirlwind of social events, family gatherings, and plenty of opportunities to be around alcohol. Navigating these situations can feel daunting, but I'm here to equip you with a toolkit to thrive. In this episode, I share real experiences from the women in our Set Free Sisterhood community and the strategies they've used to successfully enjoy social events without compromising their sobriety. We dive into the importance of understanding your personal energy levels, creating a plan of action, and leaning on your support system. You'll learn:

    • How to identify your "energy vampires" and "energy boosters" so you can manage your state before events

    • Practical tips for having a plan - from what you'll drink to who you'll spend time with

    • The power of having a "wingman" to provide accountability and support

    • Ways to shift your mindset and focus on what you find truly fun, rather than feeling obligated

    • The role of inner work and emotional regulation in overcoming triggers

    Whether you're new to sobriety or a seasoned pro, this episode is your guide to making the most of the holiday season while staying true to your values. Grab a pen and paper - you're going to want to take notes! As always, I'm here to support you every step of the way. If you're interested in joining our next Support Sisterhood program starting in January 2025, email me to get on the waitlist.

    It’s michelle@setfreesisterhood.com

    I can't wait to connect with you and see the transformation that's possible when we do this work together.

    Wishing you a joyful, peaceful, and empowered holiday season, my friend.

    Xoxo, Michelle

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    24 min
  • 307 \\ 10 ways to overcome stress and overwhelm this holiday season.
    Nov 25 2024

    My dear friends, this episode is packed with the top tips I've learned for navigating the holiday season with more peace, joy, and freedom. As someone who has transformed my own relationship with the holidays, I'm so passionate about supporting you in doing the same.

    Let's dive in:

    1. Managing Social Pressure Without Alcohol: Learn to confidently say "No, thank you" when offered a drink. I've got your back with practical strategies like bringing your own mocktail or non-alcoholic option to avoid that peer pressure.

    2. Coping with Emotional Triggers: The holidays can bring up a lot of unresolved emotions. I encourage you to journal, reflect, and communicate your feelings to your loved ones. This will help you process those triggers in a healthy way.

    3. Setting Healthy Boundaries: Don't be afraid to ask for help and delegate tasks, my friends. Protecting your time and energy is crucial during this busy season.

    4. Embracing Imperfection: Let go of the need for everything to be Pinterest-perfect. Focus on what truly matters most to you and your family.

    5. Prioritizing Self-Care: Make time for quiet moments, nourishing meals, and restorative rest. Your mental and physical health should be the priority, always.

    6. Rebuilding Alcohol-Free Traditions: Get creative, y'all! Explore new ways to celebrate the holidays that bring you joy, without relying on alcohol.

    7. Staying Present and Navigating Family Dynamics: Practice active listening and choose your words wisely when interacting with loved ones. This will help you stay centered.

    This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to approach the holiday season with more intention and freedom. I'm here to inspire you and provide the practical wisdom you need to create the holiday experience you truly desire.

    Ready to dive deeper? Email me at michelle@setfreesisterhood.com to schedule a 30-minute Zoom call. I'll be your personal guide as you navigate these next few months with more peace and joy.

    Wishing you a blessed holiday season, my friends. I'm here for you.

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    27 min
  • 306 \\ Feeling stuck and lonely in your marriage? Steps on learning to communicate your feelings to reconnect to those you love.
    Nov 21 2024

    Hey there! In this episode, I'm diving deep into the topic of communication and how it can be a game-changer for your relationships.

    I know so many of you are struggling to connect with your spouse, your adult children, or other important people in your life. The disconnect and lack of intimacy can be so painful. But I truly believe that learning to effectively communicate your feelings can transform these relationships.

    I share a simple process for getting clear on your emotions, choosing the right time to have a conversation, and expressing yourself in a way that fosters understanding - not more conflict. It's not always easy, but I promise it's worth it.

    You'll also hear me get vulnerable about my own journey with vulnerability and why it's been so transformative for me. Plus, I emphasize the importance of seeking support, whether that's from a counselor, coach, or trusted friend.

    My hope is that this episode gives you the tools and courage to start having the conversations you've been avoiding. It's time to break the cycle of miscommunication and start rebuilding the intimacy you crave.

    Let me know if you have any other questions! I'm here to support you.

    Blessings, Michelle

    If you need support, please email me michelle@setfreesisterhood.com

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    29 min
  • 305 \\ Breaking Free from Black and White Thinking: Cultivating Curiosity and Flexibility in Life.
    Nov 14 2024

    Hey my beautiful friends!

    In this episode, I'm diving deep into the topic of black and white thinking - that rigid, all-or-nothing mindset that so many of us struggle with. I know it was a huge challenge for me for a long time, and I'm so passionate about helping you break free from it too.

    I'll share my own personal journey of expanding my beliefs and creating new, more empowered ways of thinking. I was raised with a lot of rules and legalism, and it took me years to start seeing the gray areas, the both/ands, and all the possibilities in between the extremes.

    We'll also cover:

    - The latest update on my Facebook account drama (ugh, still can't get back in!) and how I'm staying connected with my community - An inspiring story from one of my coaching clients who's choosing not to drink during a really tough time - Practical strategies to challenge those pesky absolutes like "always" and "never" - The power of brainstorming without limits and getting diverse perspectives - Why taking breaks and reflecting on pros and cons can provide fresh clarity

    Wherever you're feeling stuck in black and white thinking - whether it's in your relationships, your career, or any other area of life - I'm here to help you cultivate more curiosity, openness, and possibility.

    So if you're ready to say goodbye to "this or that" for good, reach out to me at michelle@setfreesisterhood.com. I'd love to chat about how coaching can support you on your journey of personal growth and transformation.

    Sending you so much love, Michelle

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    29 min
  • 304 \\ Gratitude: Why Giving Thanks Helps You Stay Alcohol-Free, Decrease Anxiety, and Get Closer to God.
    Nov 7 2024

    I'm so excited to share the latest episode of my podcast, where we dive deep into the transformative power of gratitude!

    In this episode, I share the science behind how gratitude changes our brain chemistry, boosts our mental and physical health, and strengthens our relationships. But more importantly, I explore the biblical foundation of gratitude and how it can draw us closer to God. Whether you're feeling overwhelmed by the busyness of the holiday season or simply want to cultivate more joy in your everyday life, this episode is for you. I'm inviting you to join me in making gratitude a daily practice - one that has the power to shift our mindsets and bless those around us. So grab a cup of coffee, find a cozy spot, and let's dive in together.

    I can't wait to hear how this episode inspires you to live with more thankfulness.

    If you need support, please email me michelle@setfreesisterhood.com

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    19 min
  • 303 \\ Trick or Treat: Reframing the Alcohol Reward Mindset.
    Oct 31 2024

    Trick or Treat? 🍬 This Halloween, let's talk about the common belief that a glass of wine is our "reward" or "treat" at the end of a long day. I used to fall into this trap myself, thinking I deserved that drink to unwind. But the truth is, alcohol is a trick, not a treat. It may provide a temporary escape, but it doesn't actually help us relax or cope with stress in a healthy way. In my latest podcast episode, I'm debunking this mindset and sharing how we can reframe our relationship with alcohol. It's time to explore new routines and rituals that bring us genuine, lasting fulfillment - without the guilt and negative consequences. If you're ready to break free from the alcohol reward cycle, I'd love to support you.

    My Fall Support Sisterhood group is in full swing, and I'll be launching a new group in the new year.

    Reach out to me at michelle@setfreesisterhood.com to learn more.

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    19 min