Pegging explorations, unexpected orgies, and sex clubs with friends—Jack shares updates about her own life plus their research on the intersection of kink and autism.

00:00 How a formal autism diagnosis helped them realize what they do and don’t understand about neurotypical behaviors

07:04 Enjoying tit-clit-tit flogging + when IS sensory play sexual or nonsexual?

12:38 Flogging tips for beginners

14:18 How a PhD assignment led to an unexpected oral sex orgy

18:34 Open to orgies with friends and why you should NEVER bite a clit without consent

21:50 A field trip to a San Francisco sex club

23:03 Having a threesome with a pregnant woman and her husband who are beautifully in love

28:50 Educational squirting experience with a big double-ended dildo

31:34 Discovering a more recent preference for penetration and staying connected post-threesome

35:45 First time pegging a dude and future harness explorations

40:32 Sleeping with her dentist and a mouth full of pubes

44:53 A sixth sense for what a dick will look like before seeing it

47:30 Navigating a mismatch of sexual rhythms and why they always do a debrief after sex

54:01 Underwater hot tub blowjobs and a partner losing his shorts

56:51 Excited for double penetration, dating more women, and for their sex life to keep getting better and better

1:00:06 How YOU can help research the huge overlap of autism and kink

1:02:52 Realizing that her PhD in human sexuality is only the beginning

Jack’s episode from October 2019 | The Ooey Gooey Game

📈 STATS | 31 genderfluid autistic human, she/they pronouns, single, sex educator, sex researcher, into: sensations, impact play, human sexuality, squirting, sex parties, underwater oral

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Lesbianism, kink dynamics, and her transgender journey—Elizabeth shares stories of self-discovery and how it led to a marriage that embraces submission, pleasure, and mutual growth.

00:00 Experiencing constant crushes and being open to relationships unfolding naturally

04:38 How physical safety allows her to take big emotional risks during sex

06:08 Self-censorship and the value of privacy

13:56 Discovering the rhythms of a stable relationship and exploring submissive fantasies

17:54 The sexual effects of transitioning from testosterone to estrogen

20:16 Early fact-based book learnings and how her masturbation practices have changed

25:08 Experiencing urgent gender feelings and when she stopped following the heteronormative script of p-in-v sex

28:21 Lesbian “Bed death” and how her first time with another queer partner helped her break sexual patterns

32:59 How kink allows her asexual wife to enthusiastically engage in sex

36:25 Why she needed to understand her lesbianism before she transitioned

39:38 How Buffy the Vampire Slayer inspired her gender journey

42:11 Relaxing into the safety of submission: edging, hypnosis, and anal

45:32 Her favorite ways to dirty talk and receive impact play

49:31 Building stability: artistically, socially, and professionally

52:07 Playing with strap-ons and supporting her wife in receiving

54:11 The societal importance of loving and helping men

57:21 Spreading love with genuine curiosity and small acts of kindness that help people feel chosen

📈 STATS | 39 lesbian white trans woman, she/her pronouns, submissive, monogamous, married to partner of four years, into: D/s, impact play, hypnosis, role play, TTRPGs, game design, writing, romance novels

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Radical self-care, a nurturing marriage, and a sex-inclusive love of romance novels—Elizabeth shares how she practices receiving love.

00:00 What she loves about romance novels and the importance of feeling chosen

05:54 Reflections on asexual relationships and knowing what kind of sexual connection she needs

08:36 How her wife’s grand romantic gestures help her feel seen and appreciated

12:55 Discovering the perks of a mutually “selfish” marriage

15:02 Figuring out how to romance her wife with enthusiastic support

19:35 Building trust through consistent, conscientious care and deep gratitude

22:16 Polyamory almost-explorations and why she doesn’t recommend serial monogamy

24:46 How transitioning led to more communicative and emotionally present relationships

27:49 Finding space for solo time to enjoy romance novels, old sci-fi, and TTRPGs

📈 STATS | 39 lesbian white trans woman, she/her pronouns, submissive, monogamous, married to partner of four years, into: D/s, impact play, hypnosis, role play, TTRPGs, game design, writing, romance novels

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