The fun of telling your top NO, surprisingly sensitive nipples, and polyamorous dating while married—Avalon shares how erotica, art, and deep, loving connections have helped her create a life of exploration that keeps her excited.

00:00 Smutty book surprises and understanding compulsive heterosexuality

04:10 Learning about sex from insightful, playful podcasts

07:53 A desire for beautiful, sensual porn

11:42 Exploring her queerness and relationship through nude self portraiture

15:23 Understanding non-monogamous sexual attraction and navigating societal expectations of envy

19:40 Threesomes with her husband and best friend and the joy of being the center of attention

24:57 Reflecting on internal jealousy and creating the right circumstances for physical intimacy

29:53 What she finds hot in fiction vs turn-ons in real life

32:24 Favorite positions and how she hits on her partner

39:00 Embracing overstimulation and the magic of air sucker clit stimulators

42:29 Exploring restraints and where she likes being bitten

49:59 Playful brattiness and subverting gender roles in the bedroom

52:48 Favorite adult toys, a love of edging, and pillow humping preferences

56:58 Reverse harem and overstimulation dreams

59:39 Open to more: sex parties, hot accents, and dating women

1:03:28 Spreading love via clear expectations, RPGs with friends, and thoughtfully connecting with every person she meets

📈 STATS | 32 bisexual white Latina cis woman, she/her pronouns, in an 8 year relationship (married for 2) and actively dating, polyamorous, brat, into: talking about relationships, power dynamics, fluid sexuality, sensory stimulation, long-term connections, and never-ending evolution

🔗 AVALON LINKS | @bellanaris.art

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Sexual fluidity, defying the relationship escalator, and naturally exploring non-monogamy—Avalon shares her explorations and reflections in connection with herself, her partner, and others.

00:00 Learning about self-love through her first romantic relationship

06:14 Sensorial artistic delights and practicing self kindness

13:52 How an eight-year-long committed relationship helps her practice receiving

15:42 The magic of instant chemistry and self awareness of her relational needs

23:31 Expectationless expectations, partnership evolutions, and staying open to exploration

26:00 How having bi partner helped her discover more about her own sexuality

28:00 Swinger parents influence on judgement-free love and open relationships

36:02 Learning how to process and communicate big emotions with a partner

38:10 Navigating social expectations around jealousy, internalized assumptions, and different communication styles

43:09 Knowing herself and noticing the patterns she received from trauma

44:59 A new era of non-monogamy and the roller coaster of dating on apps

50:10 A barroom quickie, a ghost, and setting goals for first dates

56:13 Best friend sexsplorations and learning different sides of herself come out with different partners

1:00:42 Needing an emotional connection for sex and the bests and worsts of online dating

1:04:17 Playful power dynamics and wanting partners to take control

1:09:36 Embracing and understanding her brattiness

📈 STATS | 32 bisexual white Latina cis woman, she/her pronouns, in an 8 year relationship (married for 2) and actively dating, polyamorous, brat, into: talking about relationships, power dynamics, fluid sexuality, sensory stimulation, long-term connections, and never-ending evolution

🔗 AVALON LINKS | @bellanaris.art

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00:00 Feeling love through movement, intimacy, and creating community

02:38 Why Spike loves tall nerds, clumsy weirdos, and lovers who help him learn

05:59 Catholic altar boy guilt and reflecting on shame with partners

08:09 Taking control and inviting audience and partners into play

11:55 Embracing being nasty and a suitcase full of safety

15:45 Discovering sex, reclaiming their body, and post cum clarity

20:13 Survival sex work, living in a cage, and unlocking sexual freedom

26:25 Dominance, secrecy, and tips for topping

31:25 Turned on by dancing for money and attention

34:37 What Spike loves about carnal and casual intimacy

36:54 Highly sensitive nipples and tender sensuality

41:20 Spit, self-flagellation, and casting spells

44:19 Solo toy explorations, strokers, and masturbation climaxes

47:15 Personal and pro partnered play

52:54 Foot play, power dynamics, and leather

58:32 Drag shows, male attention, and trying new things

1:01:11 Loving community, communication, and consent

🔗 SPIKE LINKS | @spikeprinceofcats / @spikesauce7 / OF

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[01:30:12] What makes me go WOO? The moon, croissants, and learning from others

[01:31:30] How learning about others' experiences shapes understanding of connection

[01:33:37] The reality of projections in new relationships and meeting expectations

[01:35:14] My obsession with "lining things up"

[01:37:41] How “lining things up” applies to photography, podcasting, and all creative work

[01:40:19] How I woo me: the importance of alone time

[01:45:06] How to woo me: food, touch, and engagement with creative work

[01:48:55] Building safety and trust in relationships

[01:50:44] Requirements for physical intimacy and love of clear containers

[01:54:22] Evolution from early podcast days to embracing all erotic arts

[01:56:56] Dreams of creating edurotic content and spaces

[02:00:13] Ongoing learnings navigating personal relationships

[02:01:29] Health, safety, and communication practices

[02:05:02] Patterns of boundaries in vanilla vs kinky connections

[02:15:52] Ongoing project: organizing my ultimate bucket list of pleasure exploration

[02:21:56] Vision for Explicit Negotiation edurotic series

[02:32:15] Future goals: redefining sex education and creating safe spaces for deep connection

[02:35:12] Dreams of co-creating a more connected, loving world together

🔗 PEOPLE & RESOURCES MENTIONED

Marc Brackett (Yale researcher, creator of RULER emotional intelligence program) - marcbrackett.com

Lisa Feldman Barrett (Neuroscientist, emotions researcher) - lisafeldmanbarrett.com

Esther Perel (Psychotherapist, relationships expert) - estherperel.com

Brené Brown (Researcher focusing on vulnerability and shame) - brenebrown.com

Andrew Huberman (Stanford neuroscientist, host of Huberman Lab podcast) - hubermanlab.com

Emily Nagoski (Sex educator and researcher, writer on sexuality and stress) - emilynagoski.com

Amelia Nagoski (Choral conductor, co-author on burnout research)

Cherie DeVille (Adult performer, former pod guest) - cheriedeville.com

Ophelia Kaan (Adult performer) - x.com/OpheliaKaan

Tyler Poelle (Acting teacher at Lesly Kahn) - tylerpoelle.com

RESOURCES / BOOKS:

"Come As You Are" by Emily Nagoski

"Come Together" by Emily Nagoski

"Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle" by Emily & Amelia Nagoski

FreeSTDCheck.org

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Inspirations of MeToo and sex ed gaps

Reflections on oversharing, shame, friendship and parasocial relationships

Updates on sexuality labels, erotic artistry and sex work

Formative experiences, masturbation discovery

Understanding rejection and communication

First blowjob experiences, deep throat learning

Evolution of oral sex skills and preferences

BDSM discovery and communication growth

Safety protocols and boundary setting

Protection discussions and body hair preferences

Updated views on hygiene and consent

Relationship styles and touch needs

Professional boundaries and parasocial dynamics

Double penetration hopes and gangbang fantasy sharing

Evolution of fantasies and connection needs

📚 | BOOKS MENTIONED

Show Me by Will McBride and Dr. Helga Fleischhauer-Hardt

Atlas of the Heart by Brené Brown

Hot Sex: How to Do It by Tracey Cox

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A mailbag episode of questions and celebrations, plus Kimberly joins Wyoh for reflections on six years of sex podcast learnings.

00:00 What we’ve learned about human connection

10:04 How we’ve noticed people relate to sex

17:08 What Kimberly has learned about herself

23:48 What Wyoh has learned about herself

31:18 What we’re most excited about for this podcast going forward!

41:30 Q: How do you prepare for anal play?

53:11 Q: How can I invite my boyfriend to initiate sex more?

1:01:39 Q: How do we keep the honeymoon phase?

1:11:08 Q: I am exploring BDSM and power exchange relationships with my partner for the first time—where do I start?

1:19:54 Q: How do I support my wife in feeling empowered and comfortable with her sexuality?

1:24:53 A noodle on three types of love

1:31:02 Vacuum fetish follow-up

1:35:08 A celebration of cum shots and facials

1:38:38 The email that saved the podcast and sweet messages

📚 BOOKS MENTIONED |

Range by David Epstein

Existential Kink by Carolyn Elliott

Anal Pleasure & Health by Jack Morin

Nina Hartley’s Guide to Total Sex by Nina Hartley

Come Together by Emily Nagoski, Ph.D.

Come As Your Are by Emily Nagoski, Ph.D.

Sex Talks by Vanessa and Xander Marin

The Men on My Couch by Dr Brandy Engler and David Rensin

The New Topping Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy

The New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy

Playing Well With by Others by Lee Harrington and Mollena Williams

The Ultimate Guide to Kink by Tristan Taormino

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I tried to get AI to help me organize the 800ish things on my erotic bucket list…it tried. The work in progress continues

00:00 Bucket list overview and embracing the spirit of play

10:42 Intimacy, sluttiness, and kissing

18:48 The hotness of specificity and building tension

20:53 Thigh sex, grinding, and condom masturbation

27:04 Light scratching and discovering how partners pleasure themselves

32:06 Playing with anal, nipples, and fluids

37:53 Oral sex and nonverbal communication

46:10 Rimming and 69ing

48:28 Learnings about mobility and partnered play

51:35 Creating caring sexual spaces

55:09 The configurations of group play

58:21 Bathing and body explorations

1:03:03 Playing with ice cubes, hot stones, silk, and more

1:07:39 Massages, foot worship, and hair care

1:12:37 Tantric breathing, reading erotica, and mirror play

1:18:55 Organizing, AI inaccuracies, and edurotic creation dreams

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BDSM, female Domination and non-monogamy—Miss Butter shares her evolution from Lifestyle Dominant lover to ProDomme while navigating family life.

00:00 Discovering the joys of sex and how she became a virgin again

06:46 Dissolving her own shame parenting a teenage daughter

10:54 Selective penetration and boundaries for different partners

15:03 New partner negotiations and playing safely with toys

22:22 How she loves making client’s dreams come true

24:07 A life-changing strip club make-out session

28:47 What it’s like to be a Domme married to a Dom in a Female-Led Relationship (FLR)

34:55 Finding fellow lifestyle FemmeDommes and creating safety for male submissives

39:44 Priorities in polyamory, community, and playing without her husband

48:40 Studying BDSM formally and expanding play into work as a ProDomme

55:40 Building Lifestyle relationships with clients

59:56 Creating physical fantasy spaces, meeting desires in surprising ways, and intentional healing

1:07:05 Aftercare, favorite toys, and synchronized heartbeats

1:11:06 Parenting while kinky and the positive effect of openness to questions

1:18:00 Coming out as a ProDomme to her kids

1:23:51 How she aspires to create community and spread ethical Dominance

1:29:15 Staying curious and how to find your “real true Domme”

🔗 MISS BUTTER LINKS | supersweetbutter.com

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