Do you struggle to say “I’m sorry” without feeling like you’re admitting defeat? Have you ever avoided apologizing—even when you knew you should—because it felt too vulnerable? In today’s coaching call, Gigi opens up about her challenges with emotional regulation, self-blame, and the fear of being truly seen. Together, we unpack the deep-rooted shame that makes vulnerability feel so uncomfortable and explore how to shift from self-judgment to self-compassion.

You might want to listen if:

• You find it hard to be vulnerable with your loved ones, even when you want to be
• You feel stuck in a cycle of guilt and self-blame, making it difficult to move forward
• You struggle to regulate your emotions and often react more strongly than you’d like
• You were raised in a home where apologizing or expressing emotions wasn’t encouraged
• You want to learn how to trust yourself and create emotional safety in your relationships

FIND OUT MORE!

• Apply for FREE Coaching with Jenn
• Become a Relationship Reboot Member for only $97 a month!
• Join our Community! Speak Honest Facebook Group 🧡
• Schedule your Free 30 min Attachment Assessment with Jenn Today!
• Watch Jenn on the 🔴 TEDx Stage!
• Download your free Workbook: Dance of Attachment
• Visit www.speak-honest.com to learn more
• Follow Jenn on Instagram: @speak_honest
• Like the episode? Please write a review, your words help others find us!

DISCLAIMER: Speak Honest podcast content is informational, not professional or medical advice. Jenn is an ICF relationship coach, not a licensed therapist. Consult health professionals for specific concerns. Client opinions do not reflect Speak Honest’s stance. We aim for accuracy but are not liable for errors or outcomes from this information.

Why do we chase the people who pull away?

Ever find yourself obsessing over someone the second they become unavailable? Or maybe you're in a relationship where you and your partner keep swinging between anxious and avoidant behaviors, never quite landing on solid ground? In this episode, I’m answering listener questions about disorganized attachment, why we crave unavailable people, and what it really takes to build a secure, fulfilling relationship. Get ready for some tough love, eye-opening insights, and—of course—real, actionable steps you can take today.

You might want to listen if:

• You keep attracting (or being attracted to) emotionally unavailable partners
• Your relationship feels like a constant push-and-pull, but you don’t know why
• You wonder if two people with disorganized attachment can actually make it work
• You feel like you sabotage relationships as soon as they get serious
• You want to break these patterns and finally build a relationship that lasts

FIND OUT MORE!

• Apply for FREE Coaching with Jenn
• Become a Relationship Reboot Member for only $97 a month!
• Join our Community! Speak Honest Facebook Group 🧡
• Schedule your Free 30 min Attachment Assessment with Jenn Today!
• Watch Jenn on the 🔴 TEDx Stage!
• Download your free Workbook: Dance of Attachment
• Visit www.speak-honest.com to learn more
• Follow Jenn on Instagram: @speak_honest
• Like the episode? Please write a review, your words help others find us!

DISCLAIMER: Speak Honest podcast content is informational, not professional or medical advice. Jenn is an ICF relationship coach, not a licensed therapist. Consult health professionals for specific concerns. Client opinions do not reflect Speak Honest’s stance. We aim for accuracy but are not liable for errors or outcomes from this information.

Ever put in the effort to feel sexy for your partner, only to feel totally unseen? That’s exactly what happened to Jenna. She got all dressed up, expecting a reaction that never came. Instead, she got a casual “You look cute.” And just like that... BAM—hurt feelings, a major argument, and a downward spiral of insecurity.

But here’s the twist—Jenna and her boyfriend actually started working through it before our session. And in this coaching call, we go even deeper. We unpack covert expectations, the anxious-avoidant cycle, and how to communicate your needs without setting yourself up for disappointment.

You might want to listen if:

• You’ve ever felt rejected or unappreciated in your relationship
• You struggle to communicate your needs without it turning into a fight
• You feel like your partner just doesn’t get it when it comes to emotional connection
• You catch yourself overanalyzing your partner’s reactions and spiraling into self-doubt
• You want to feel more secure, confident, and heard in your relationship

FIND OUT MORE!

• Apply for FREE Coaching with Jenn
• Become a Relationship Reboot Member for only $97 a month!
• Join our Community! Speak Honest Facebook Group 🧡
• Schedule your Free 30 min Attachment Assessment with Jenn Today!
• Watch Jenn on the 🔴 TEDx Stage!
• Download your free Workbook: Dance of Attachment
• Visit www.speak-honest.com to learn more
• Follow Jenn on Instagram: @speak_honest
• Like the episode? Please write a review, your words help others find us!

DISCLAIMER: Speak Honest podcast content is informational, not professional or medical advice. Jenn is an ICF relationship coach, not a licensed therapist. Consult health professionals for specific concerns. Client opinions do not reflect Speak Honest’s stance. We aim for accuracy but are not liable for errors or outcomes from this information.