How do you draw the line with your loved ones without feeling like the bad guy?
In this episode, we dive into one of the toughest parts of family dynamics, setting boundaries. Let’s be real... boundaries with family can feel impossible. From guilt and conflict to emotional attachment, family makes it tricky. But guess what? Boundaries aren’t about shutting people out—they’re about building healthier, stronger relationships.

You might want to listen if:

• You dread family gatherings because you always feel drained afterward.
• You struggle to say “no” without feeling guilty or selfish.
• Your family doesn’t respect your time or space (like ever).
• You’re tired of tiptoeing around to avoid arguments.
• You want practical ways to set limits and stick to them without the drama.

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• Schedule your Attachment Assessment with Jenn Today!
• Watch Jenn on the 🔴 TEDx Stage!
• Interested in being coached on our show? Schedule with Jenn today!
• Discover the Attachment Dance Style of your Relationship: Download Your Free Workbook!
• Visit www.speak-honest.com to learn more
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• Like the episode? Please write a review, your words help others find us!

DISCLAIMER: Speak Honest podcast content is informational, not professional or medical advice. Jenn is an ICF relationship coach, not a licensed therapist. Consult health professionals for specific concerns. Client opinions do not reflect Speak Honest’s stance. We aim for accuracy but are not liable for errors or outcomes from this information.

Have you ever felt like letting go of someone meant losing a piece of yourself?

In this raw and deeply heartfelt episode, I reconnect with Jissell as she bravely opens up about her journey to let go of a long-term relationship that no longer served her. Together, we explore the emotional knots tied to past wounds, the struggle to set boundaries without guilt, and how to embrace self-worth without needing external validation. It’s a vulnerable and inspiring conversation that offers practical tools for healing and growth.

You might want to listen if:

• You feel like letting go of someone means losing a part of yourself.
• Setting boundaries makes you feel selfish or cruel.
• You over give in relationships and neglect your own needs.
• Your inner child holds onto past wounds that impact your current relationships.
• You’re ready to reclaim your worth and start prioritizing yourself.

FIND OUT MORE!

• Join our Community! Speak Honest Facebook Group 🧡
• Schedule your Attachment Assessment with Jenn Today!
• Watch Jenn on the 🔴 TEDx Stage!
• Interested in being coached on our show? Schedule with Jenn today!
• Discover the Attachment Dance Style of your Relationship: Download Your Free Workbook!
• Visit www.speak-honest.com to learn more
• Follow Jenn on Instagram: @speak_honest
• Like the episode? Please write a review, your words help others find us!

DISCLAIMER: Speak Honest podcast content is informational, not professional or medical advice. Jenn is an ICF relationship coach, not a licensed therapist. Consult health professionals for specific concerns. Client opinions do not reflect Speak Honest’s stance. We aim for accuracy but are not liable for errors or outcomes from this information.

How can you create a relationship that feels balanced, safe, and deeply fulfilling? In this episode, we wrap up the Dance of Attachment series by focusing on the ultimate goal: secure attachment. I’ll walk you through the five steps to cultivating a secure relationship rhythm (aka the Secure Waltz) and share practical ways to apply them to your life. Whether you’re navigating past attachment wounds, setting intentions for healthier connections, or learning to honor your needs, this episode is packed with insights to help you embrace security in your relationships.

You might want to listen if:

• You’ve ever felt stuck in cycles of miscommunication or unmet needs.
• You’re unsure how to heal past wounds that impact your current relationships.
• You struggle with identifying and expressing your attachment needs.
• You want practical, actionable tips to improve your communication skills.
• You’re ready to learn how to create the balanced connection you deserve.

FIND OUT MORE!

• Join our Community! Speak Honest Facebook Group 🧡
• Schedule your Attachment Assessment with Jenn Today!
• Watch Jenn on the 🔴 TEDx Stage!
• Interested in being coached on our show? Schedule with Jenn today!
• Discover the Attachment Dance Style of your Relationship: Download Your Free Workbook!
• Visit www.speak-honest.com to learn more
• Follow Jenn on Instagram: @speak_honest
• Like the episode? Please write a review, your words help others find us!

DISCLAIMER: Speak Honest podcast content is informational, not professional or medical advice. Jenn is an ICF relationship coach, not a licensed therapist. Consult health professionals for specific concerns. Client opinions do not reflect Speak Honest’s stance. We aim for accuracy but are not liable for errors or outcomes from this information.

Ever feel torn between wanting closeness and needing space? In this episode of Speak Honest, We dive into the complexities of disorganized attachment, or what I call “The Pendulum Swing Dance.” Through real-life examples and compassionate insights, we will unpack why disorganized attachment leads to a push-pull dynamic in relationships, where closeness feels both desirable and frightening. Discover how this attachment style develops, how it impacts adult relationships, and practical steps for creating stability in your connections.

You might want to listen if:

• You struggle with a constant back-and-forth between craving intimacy and needing distance
• You feel stuck in a cycle of reaching out for connection, only to withdraw again out of fear
• You want to understand how disorganized attachment might be impacting your relationships
• You find emotional intensity and dysregulation a challenge in your romantic connections
• You’re ready to explore ways to heal attachment wounds and create a secure, fulfilling bond

FIND OUT MORE!

• Join our Community! Speak Honest Facebook Group 🧡
• Schedule your Attachment Assessment with Jenn Today!
• Watch Jenn on the 🔴 TEDx Stage!
• Interested in being coached on our show? Schedule with Jenn today!
• Discover the Attachment Dance Style of your Relationship: Download Your Free Workbook!
• Visit www.speak-honest.com to learn more
• Follow Jenn on Instagram: @speak_honest
• Like the episode? Please write a review, your words help others find us!

DISCLAIMER: Speak Honest podcast content is informational, not professional or medical advice. Jenn is an ICF relationship coach, not a licensed therapist. Consult health professionals for specific concerns. Client opinions do not reflect Speak Honest’s stance. We aim for accuracy but are not liable for errors or outcomes from this information.

Ever felt like your partner just needs too much space, or maybe you're the one pulling away when things get too close? In today’s episode of Speak Honest, we’re diving into the fascinating rhythm of avoidant attachment—what I like to call “The Solo Tango.” Avoidant attachment is all about independence, self-reliance, and finding comfort in a little distance. If you're wondering why intimacy might feel overwhelming or how to bring closeness into a relationship without pushing someone too far, this episode is for you! I’ll share insights on the roots of avoidant attachment, what it looks like in real-life relationships, and my favorite scripts for building connection with an avoidant partner without pressure. Let’s explore how to bring a balanced rhythm into your dance of connection.

You might want to listen if:

• You feel distant or disconnected in relationships and want to understand why.
• You’re trying to connect with a partner who seems to avoid emotional depth.
• You want to learn gentle communication strategies for avoidant partners.
• You’re curious about how avoidant attachment develops and affects relationships.
• You’re seeking a compassionate approach to bring closeness without feeling overbearing.

FIND OUT MORE!

• Join our Community! Speak Honest Facebook Group 🧡
• Schedule your Attachment Assessment with Jenn Today!
• Watch Jenn on the 🔴 TEDx Stage!
• Interested in being coached on our show? Schedule with Jenn today!
• Discover the Attachment Dance Style of your Relationship: Download Your Free Workbook!
• Visit www.speak-honest.com to learn more
• Follow Jenn on Instagram: @speak_honest
• Like the episode? Please write a review, your words help others find us!

DISCLAIMER: Speak Honest podcast content is informational, not professional or medical advice. Jenn is an ICF relationship coach, not a licensed therapist. Consult health professionals for specific concerns. Client opinions do not reflect Speak Honest’s stance. We aim for accuracy but are not liable for errors or outcomes from this information.

Do you ever feel like you’re walking a tightrope in your relationships, always seeking reassurance but never quite feeling secure? In this episode of Speak Honest, we’re diving into Anxious Attachment—what I like to call the Salsa of Uncertainty. We’ll explore why it’s so hard to find stability and what steps you can take to bring more calm and balance into your relationships. I’ll share insights, real-life stories, and practical tips to help you move confidently through the rhythm of connection.

You might want to listen if:

• You feel anxious when you don’t get immediate responses from your partner.
• You constantly need reassurance to feel secure in your relationship.
• You find yourself overthinking small interactions and fearing disconnection.
• You crave closeness but worry that the connection could disappear at any moment.
• You want practical strategies to soothe anxiety and build a more secure connection.

FIND OUT MORE!

• Join our Community! Speak Honest Facebook Group 🧡
• Schedule your Attachment Assessment with Jenn Today!
• Watch Jenn on the 🔴 TEDx Stage!
• Interested in being coached on our show? Schedule with Jenn today!
• Discover the Attachment Dance Style of your Relationship: Download Your Free Workbook!
• Visit www.speak-honest.com to learn more
• Follow Jenn on Instagram: @speak_honest
• Like the episode? Please write a review, your words help others find us!

DISCLAIMER: Speak Honest podcast content is informational, not professional or medical advice. Jenn is an ICF relationship coach, not a licensed therapist. Consult health professionals for specific concerns. Client opinions do not reflect Speak Honest’s stance. We aim for accuracy but are not liable for errors or outcomes from this information.

Ever feel like big relationship changes are throwing your emotions all over the place? Whether you're moving in with someone or moving on from a breakup, these transitions can feel like they’re turning your world upside down. In this episode, we break down why these changes feel so intense and how you can not only survive them but actually thrive in the process! 🌟

You might want to listen if:

• You're feeling anxious about moving in with a partner 🏡
• You’re finding it hard to heal after a breakup 💔
• You feel emotionally overwhelmed by big shifts in your relationship 🎢
• You're unsure how to balance your feelings during these life changes ⚖️
• You want to turn these transitions into opportunities for growth and strength 💪

FIND OUT MORE!

• Join our Community! Speak Honest Facebook Group 🧡
• Schedule your Attachment Assessment with Jenn Today!
• Watch Jenn on the 🔴 TEDx Stage!
• Interested in being coached on our show? Schedule with Jenn today!
• Discover the Attachment Dance Style of your Relationship: Download Your Free Workbook!
• Visit www.speak-honest.com to learn more
• Follow Jenn on Instagram: @speak_honest
• Like the episode? Please write a review, your words help others find us!

DISCLAIMER: Speak Honest podcast content is informational, not professional or medical advice. Jenn is an ICF relationship coach, not a licensed therapist. Consult health professionals for specific concerns. Client opinions do not reflect Speak Honest’s stance. We aim for accuracy but are not liable for errors or outcomes from this information.

Have you ever found yourself pushing away the very love and support you've always wanted?

In this episode, I sit down with Carol, a member of the Relationship Reboot Program, as we explore her journey to discovering why she struggles to accept love and compliments from her husband. Together, we uncover the deep-rooted attachment wounds and limiting beliefs that often keep us from embracing the love we deserve. Through Carol’s powerful story, you'll gain valuable insights into your own relationships and learn actionable strategies to shift your mindset and start receiving love more fully.

You might want to listen if:

• You struggle to accept compliments or love from your partner.
• You feel unseen or unheard in your relationships, even when your partner is supportive.
• You tend to take things personally and internalize others' reactions.
• You want to understand how past wounds might be affecting your present relationship.
• You’re ready to do the deep work to heal attachment wounds and improve how you see yourself.

FIND OUT MORE!

• Join our Community! Speak Honest Facebook Group 🧡
• Schedule your Attachment Assessment with Jenn Today!
• Watch Jenn on the 🔴 TEDx Stage!
• Interested in being coached on our show? Schedule with Jenn today!
• Discover the Attachment Dance Style of your Relationship: Download Your Free Workbook!
• Visit www.speak-honest.com to learn more
• Follow Jenn on Instagram: @speak_honest
• Like the episode? Please write a review, your words help others find us!

DISCLAIMER: Speak Honest podcast content is informational, not professional or medical advice. Jenn is an ICF relationship coach, not a licensed therapist. Consult health professionals for specific concerns. Client opinions do not reflect Speak Honest’s stance. We aim for accuracy but are not liable for errors or outcomes from this information.