Have you ever walked into a room and instantly felt heavy, unsettled, or drained—without knowing why?

In this powerful episode, Elaine Starling sits down with intuitive guide and energy mentor K. Margaret Solorio to explore how the unseen energy in your home may be quietly influencing your intuition, creativity, and abundance.

Together, they reveal how energetic clutter builds up just like dust, why your space may be aligned with who you used to be instead of who you’re becoming, and how small, compassionate shifts in your environment can create immediate relief, clarity, and flow.

If you’ve been doing the inner work but still feel stuck, this conversation may unlock the missing piece—your space itself.

Topics Covered

0:00 How your environment impacts energy, mood, and abundance

3:30 Setting Intention as a spiritual GPS for your home

8:50 What energetic clutter really is (and why it’s common)

11:40 Three small changes that create big energetic shifts

14:45 Redefining abundance as relief and flow

17:10 Signs your home may be blocking intuition or creativity

24:35 Aligning your space with who you’re becoming

29:30 One powerful front-door ritual to invite opportunity in

Key Takeaways

1. Your home holds energetic residue just like your body does
2. Clearing space doesn’t require dramatic overhauls
3. Energy—and abundance—flow where there is ease
4. Relief is a powerful indicator of alignment
5. Your space should evolve as you do

Simple Process Shared

Energetic Space Reset

1. Notice how your space feels (no judgment)
2. Clear one small obstacle in five minutes
3. Adjust lighting, nature, or sound to support your nervous system
4. Release objects tied to guilt or obligation
5. Set Intention for your space to support your future self

(Listen for lived examples throughout the episode.)

Questions Answered

1. Why does my space feel heavy even when it’s clean?
2. How does clutter affect intuition and abundance?
3. What’s the fastest way to shift the energy in my home?
4. How do I let go of items without guilt?
5. What’s one action I can take today to invite flow?

Share-Worthy Quotes

“Your space should support who you’re becoming—not anchor who you used to be.”

“Energetic clutter builds up just like dust—and clearing it creates relief.”

“Abundance isn’t about having more; it’s about allowing flow.”

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Resources Mentioned

1. Home Frequency Reset Quiz:
2. https://deliciousease.com/quiz
3. Podcast: Intuitive Wisdom
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Have you ever been excited to share something—a post, a message, a video—only to freeze the moment you're about to hit “publish”? That sudden contraction isn’t a confidence problem or a mindset failure. It’s your nervous system having a temper tantrum, and how you respond determines whether you open to abundance or shut it down completely.

In this powerful New Year’s episode, Elaine Starling reveals how your subconscious uses your body to signal safety or danger, why visibility often feels threatening, and how to shift from contraction into coherence so abundance can flow again. Inspired by Korean parenting techniques, neuroscience, and Divine guidance, Elaine teaches you how to lead your Inner Child with loving presence instead of pressure or perfection.

If you’re ready for 2026 to be your year of expansion, clarity, and courageous self-expression, this Abundance Upgrade will show you how to align your energy, regulate your nervous system, and say YES to the opportunities already waiting for you.

Topics Covered

0:00 – The hidden reason you freeze right before you share your gifts

Why resistance isn’t a mindset issue—it’s a safety signal.

3:20 – The nervous system temper tantrum

How your subconscious controls 95% of your choices and shuts down visibility.

7:05 – The Korean parenting insight that changes everything

Why calm presence—not logic—regulates overwhelm.

10:40 – The 3 breaths + Intention + 78-second alignment ritual

How energetic connection dissolves resistance before you begin.

15:30 – What actually happens when you withhold your gifts

How contraction collapses your electromagnetic field (and abundance with it).

19:45 – Performance vs. Presence

The shift that stops fear from driving the bus.

24:20 – A real-life story: When Divine inspiration meets inner panic

How Elaine navigated a visibility wobble and restored safety.

28:55 – The Re-Centering Loop

A 5-step method to regulate your energy and return to alignment.

36:10 – Protective NO vs. Growth NO

How your body distinguishes danger from expansion.

41:30 – Visibility as Service, not self-promotion

Why sharing your truth answers someone’s prayer.

46:00 – The true Abundance Upgrade

How compassion, steadiness, and Divine partnership expand your receiving field.

Key Takeaways (Skimmable Wins)

1. Your body isn’t sabotaging you—it’s protecting you based on old data.
2. Abundance flows where your nervous system feels safe.
3. Contraction in one area (visibility) closes your ability to receive in all areas.
4. Presence leads the room; fear only leads to shutdown.
5. Sharing your gifts is an act of service—not a performance.
6. “When you open, abundance follows.” — Elaine Starling

The Abundance Upgrade Method (Step-by-Step)

1 – Notice the Contraction

Say:

“Something in me is contracting.”

Naming it reduces the emotional charge.

2 – Pause & Ground

Hand on heart + belly.

Inhale: I...

What if the one thing you keep searching for—love, validation, appreciation—is something you’re unknowingly rejecting every single day?

In this special Christmas episode, Elaine Starling, The Abundance Ambassador, unwraps the most powerful spiritual gift you will ever receive: The Gift of YOU. With deep compassion and grounded spiritual wisdom, Elaine reveals why the love you crave can only be fully received from within…and how every experience in your life is guiding you back to that truth.

Through self-loving practices, relationship insights, Ho’oponopono, somatic guidance, and Divine downloads, Elaine shows how self-love elevates your vibration, transforms your relationships, and aligns you with your highest consciousness.

This is an episode you’ll return to again and again—especially when you forget how loved and Divine you already are.

Topics Covered

0:00 – Why most people unconsciously reject the love they crave

Understanding why external validation never feels like enough.

2:00 – Welcome to The Abundance Journey: The Gift of YOU

Reframing self-love as the foundation of all abundance.

4:40 – The Intention practice + 78-second alignment ritual

Aligning with the power of nourishing self-love.

8:45 – The Divine message: Everything is love—everything guides you to love

How every experience contains a request for love and an opportunity to be love.

13:15 – Why relationships are your greatest spiritual teachers

Relationships as mirrors that reveal where you’ve abandoned yourself.

18:30 – Navigating from fear, comparison, judgment…or Intention

How inner dialogue determines your vibration and your outcomes.

24:50 – The “inner gyroscope” of Divine love

Using your somatic cues to return to alignment again and again.

29:40 – A personal story: Three perspectives of love

A real-life example of how expectations cloud our ability to receive love.

36:10 – Self-love practices that recalibrate your consciousness

Recognition Ritual, Fear vs. Love dialogue, Somatic Yes/No, and the Triple Blessing.

41:20 – The truth bomb: You are the greatest gift you will ever receive

How embracing your Divine worth changes every part of your life.

Key Takeaways

· The only person whose love you truly believe is your own.

Self-love determines your capacity to receive from others and from The Divine.

· Everything is love—and everything is guiding you to love.

Even discomfort is a Divine invitation to return to your center.

· Relationships are mirrors, not measures.

They reveal where you need self-recognition, not where you fall short.

· Alignment is not perfection—it’s willingness.

You wobble, you return, you expand. That is spiritual mastery.

· Self-love transforms your energy, your relationships, your intuition, and your abundance.

Your external world shifts when your internal world softens.

The 3 Core Practices: The Gift of YOU Method

1 – The Recognition Ritual

Look in the mirror daily and say:

“I see you, and I’m really proud of...