What if the one thing you keep searching for—love, validation, appreciation—is something you’re unknowingly rejecting every single day?

In this special Christmas episode, Elaine Starling, The Abundance Ambassador, unwraps the most powerful spiritual gift you will ever receive: The Gift of YOU. With deep compassion and grounded spiritual wisdom, Elaine reveals why the love you crave can only be fully received from within…and how every experience in your life is guiding you back to that truth.

Through self-loving practices, relationship insights, Ho’oponopono, somatic guidance, and Divine downloads, Elaine shows how self-love elevates your vibration, transforms your relationships, and aligns you with your highest consciousness.

This is an episode you’ll return to again and again—especially when you forget how loved and Divine you already are.

Topics Covered

0:00 – Why most people unconsciously reject the love they crave

Understanding why external validation never feels like enough.

2:00 – Welcome to The Abundance Journey: The Gift of YOU

Reframing self-love as the foundation of all abundance.

4:40 – The Intention practice + 78-second alignment ritual

Aligning with the power of nourishing self-love.

8:45 – The Divine message: Everything is love—everything guides you to love

How every experience contains a request for love and an opportunity to be love.

13:15 – Why relationships are your greatest spiritual teachers

Relationships as mirrors that reveal where you’ve abandoned yourself.

18:30 – Navigating from fear, comparison, judgment…or Intention

How inner dialogue determines your vibration and your outcomes.

24:50 – The “inner gyroscope” of Divine love

Using your somatic cues to return to alignment again and again.

29:40 – A personal story: Three perspectives of love

A real-life example of how expectations cloud our ability to receive love.

36:10 – Self-love practices that recalibrate your consciousness

Recognition Ritual, Fear vs. Love dialogue, Somatic Yes/No, and the Triple Blessing.

41:20 – The truth bomb: You are the greatest gift you will ever receive

How embracing your Divine worth changes every part of your life.

Key Takeaways

· The only person whose love you truly believe is your own.

Self-love determines your capacity to receive from others and from The Divine.

· Everything is love—and everything is guiding you to love.

Even discomfort is a Divine invitation to return to your center.

· Relationships are mirrors, not measures.

They reveal where you need self-recognition, not where you fall short.

· Alignment is not perfection—it’s willingness.

You wobble, you return, you expand. That is spiritual mastery.

· Self-love transforms your energy, your relationships, your intuition, and your abundance.

Your external world shifts when your internal world softens.

The 3 Core Practices: The Gift of YOU Method

1 – The Recognition Ritual

Look in the mirror daily and say:

“I see you, and I’m really proud of...

What if everything you’ve been taught about success is backward? In this mind-expanding conversation, New York Times bestselling author and serial entrepreneur Trevor G. Blakeshares how he built and sold multiple companies worth over $400M — while working less than five hours a day.

Trevor reveals the neuroscience and energetics behind his legendary Three Simple Steps, showing why hustle culture sabotages success and how to activate the quantum field for clarity, opportunity, and effortless momentum.

Listeners will learn how to reprogram fear, step into imaginative creation, and leverage the energy of intention to reshape their lives from the inside out.

Topics Covered

0:00 — Can everything you’ve been taught about success be wrong?

Why hustle culture fails and what actually creates exponential results.

2:23 — The power of energetic connection

Science meets spirituality: the Higgs field, quantum entanglement, and Divine partnership.

7:40 — Why connection time is more important than work time

Trevor's origin of the five-hour workday and the 3-hour connection ritual.

9:16 — Understanding the universal energy field

How science describes what spirituality has taught for millennia.

12:58 — Trevor’s journey from “adventurer” to multimillion-dollar entrepreneur

How a single moment—and a CEO’s doubt—ignited his entrepreneurial path.

20:40 — Science + spirituality = practical magic

Why Trevor teaches actionable tools instead of feel-good theory.

23:00 — Defining abundance

Trevor’s beautifully simple answer: waking up excited every day.

24:05 — Money as energy (“money”)

Reframing wealth, releasing resentment, and improving your relationship with money.

28:39 — The power of letting go

Fear is natural—but not a compass. How to release it and reprogram your reality.

30:44 — Rewiring the Reticular Activation System

How your inner “Google algorithm” creates self-fulfilling outcomes.

36:15 — Why imagining your future activates it now

Creating a full sensory experience and collapsing time.

43:03 — Why presence + gratitude bend time

Elaine’s framework for merging action with Divine alignment.

45:24 — Trevor’s free gift: the first chapters of Three Simple Steps

Why these chapters alone change lives.

46:06 — How to support Trevor

His “Grocery Store Challenge” to elevate collective resonance.

Key Takeaways (Skimmable Wins)

· Hustle is outdated—connection creates results.

Trevor works <5 hours/day because 3 hours go to energetic alignment.

· You don’t manifest what you want; you manifest what you feel.

Your emotional state programs your Reticular Activation System.

· Visualization is not enough.

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What if the parts of your story you’re most afraid to share are the exact places where your power lives?

In this raw, courageous, and transformative conversation, empowerment coach and “Becoming is Messy” podcast host Meghann Dawson reveals how our “messy middle” moments—trauma, shame, identity collapse, and the secrets we bury—are actually the gateways to healing, alignment, and true abundance.

This episode helps listeners:

• Stop hiding the hard parts of their past

• Reconnect with their inner voice and reclaim emotional freedom

• Transform trauma into wisdom, purpose, and personal power

• Understand how healing yourself energetically heals your world

If you’ve ever felt broken, ashamed, or afraid to be truly seen—this episode is a must-listen.

Topics Covered

0:00 — The Parts You're Hiding Are Your Power

Why nearly 70% of people silence their authentic self—and why it hurts your soul.

2:46 — Aligning Energetically: I AM / CONSCIOUSNESS Breath + 78-Second Intention

How to create instant coherence with The Divine.

9:44 — Wounds to Wisdom: When the Light Shines Through the Cracks

Elaine’s intuitive vision during the Intention ritual.

10:59 — Meghann’s Story: Trauma, Identity Collapse & the Curveballs of Becoming

Losing her grandfather, discovering her father wasn’t her biological father, and the shattering that followed.

14:47 — Why Life Gives Us “Opportunities to Go Out of Alignment”

Elaine’s near-death download about duality, love, and the purpose of humans.

18:54 — Abundance Defined: Personal Freedom

Meghann’s powerful definition—and what it means to live it.

20:30 — Hiding, Coping & the Shame Spiral

Addiction, secrecy, and what happens when we believe our wounds make us unlovable.

24:12 — The Imperfect Level Up: Meghann’s 7-Step Healing Framework

Letting your inner voice lead, exploring childhood, valuing the messy lessons, embracing magic, and more.

31:44 — You Are Perfect Because of Your Imperfections

Elaine’s Divine message during her stroke.

33:01 — Polyvagal Theory, Nervous System Healing & “Hiring the Heavens”

Practical tools for emotional and physical healing.

41:59 — Baby Steps for Real Transformation

Stillness, music, confession, forgiveness, and raising your vibration.

48:26 — Why “Becoming Is Messy” Is a Blessing

How sharing your truth creates connection, compassion, and freedom.

Key Takeaways (Skimmable Wins)

· Your “messy middle” is not your shame—it is your initiation into authentic power.

· Secrets create suffering; safe sharing creates liberation and connection.

· Healing is lifelong and imperfect—and that’s exactly how it works.

· Trauma doesn’t define you; it refines you into who you were designed to be.

· Forgiveness and nervous system regulation are the gateway to...