Épisodes

  • Held in Grief: The Power of Being Witnessed
    Nov 3 2024

    Join Sadie in this heartfelt episode as she recounts her transformative experience at The Wild Woman Retreat led by Kirsty Gallagher, where 43 women gathered for deep connection, healing, and personal growth. Sadie shares her powerful moment of releasing grief and being held in a circle of sisterhood—a moment that reinforced her dedication to supporting others through grief.

    Explore the profound lessons on the importance of community, connection, and the sacred act of being witnessed in your grief. Sadie discusses why safe spaces are essential for emotional release and shares insights into how her experiences have confirmed the need for her retreats, The Grief Retreat. These retreats will offer a space for women to honour their grief, connect with others, and find strength and comfort together.

    Key takeaways from the episode:

    • The healing power of sisterhood and collective support
    • The importance of safe spaces for grief and emotional release
    • The transformative effect of being witnessed and held in your pain
    • The journey from grief to growth and finding renewed hope

    For those searching for healing and understanding, Sadie’s story is a powerful reminder that grief can be shared and processed in community. The Grief Retreats create an environment where women can feel seen, heard, and supported, nurturing a path to healing and empowerment.

    Keywords: grief, grief retreat, healing community, sisterhood, emotional release, personal growth, collective support, grief healing, safe space, women’s retreat, grief support, healing journey, grief and connection, empowerment through grief.


    The first Grief Retreat is being held on 21st November and sold out very quickly so Sadie has created a waitlist. If you are interest in attending a future Grief Retreat click the link so you will be amongst the first to hear of upcoming events and be able to book a place before it is opened up on her other platforms. Heres the link......


    https://sadie-rowbottom.mykajabi.com/waitlist-for-retreat-details


    If you would like to be part of a community space where you will be amongst others who understand your grief you can join The Grief Lounge community space on facebook herehttps://www.facebook.com/groups/thegrieflounge/


    The track I shared is called The Power is Here Now by Alexia Chellun https://open.spotify.com/track/3pP8pyWvQX6vbrpEcRYgqa?si=80DvnLxOQQuK8sGVLNsFpQ

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    28 min
  • Honouring Love and Loss: A Memorial Tattoo as a Ritual of Commitment
    Oct 25 2024

    In this moving episode of The Grief Lounge, Sadie shares her experience of marking her 20th wedding anniversary without her husband, Chris, by getting a memorial tattoo. For the first time, she chose to honour their marriage with a hand-poked tattoo—something she had never considered before Chris's illness. This moment felt like a renewal of their love and commitment, symbolising a bond that continues even after loss.

    Sadie opens up about her decision to travel to Wales for the tattoo and how the experience helped her process her grief while reflecting on their life together. She explores how memorial and remembrance tattoos can serve as powerful rituals in grief, offering healing and connection to loved ones who are no longer physically present.

    Listeners will hear about the significance of marking anniversaries in grief and how these deeply personal symbols can help honour the past while creating moments of reflection and meaning in the present.

    This episode is a heartfelt journey for anyone who has considered memorial tattoos or is looking for ways to remember a loved one. Sadie’s story offers comfort and inspiration, demonstrating how we can create lasting tributes while navigating life after loss.


    Join The Grief Lounge community Group here www.facebook.com/groups/thegrieflounge/


    Find me on instagram @the_grief_lounge_uk

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    21 min
  • EFT/Tapping for Grief: A tool to help you through Grief.
    Oct 18 2024

    In this episode of The Grief Lounge, Sadie shares her deeply personal journey through grief and how she discovered the transformative power of Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT). With years of lived experience navigating her own loss, combined with her knowledge and practice as a certified EFT practitioner, Sadie offers a unique perspective on how EFT can support individuals in processing grief.

    Sadie explains the science behind EFT, how tapping on meridian points helps release stored emotional energy, and how it can ease the physical and emotional toll grief places on the body. She also highlights the tangible benefits she has seen in her clients' journeys, showing how EFT is a powerful, non-invasive tool for emotional regulation and relief from anxiety during grief.

    In addition, Sadie introduces her affordable EFT for Grief program—a step-by-step guide designed for those grieving who want to gently move through their emotions. For just £11, this program provides practical EFT techniques to help you find moments of light, even in the heaviest times. Whether you’re seeking relief from grief, anxiety, or emotional overwhelm, this episode provides insight into how EFT can be a meaningful support system for your healing journey.


    Join The Grief Lounge here ⁠www.facebook.com/groups/thegrieflounge/⁠


    You can purchase EFT/Tapping for Grief inside The Grief Lounge, which also give you access to the FREE bonus session. Or alternatively purchase th programme here ⁠https://sadie-rowbottom.mykajabi.com/eft-for-grief

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    39 min
  • One Year Without Him: Raw Truths About Grief, Loss, and How to Keep Going
    Sep 20 2024

    In this episode of The Grief Lounge, Sadie returns to share her unfiltered reflections on surviving the first year after losing her person. This is not a polished, feel-good story, but an honest, raw account of what it really feels like to navigate the hardest days of grief. Sadie opens up about the things that helped her move forward and the well-meaning advice that didn’t—offering a perspective that will resonate with anyone who feels lost in their grief.

    Sadie talks about the emotional weight of keeping her partner's memory alive for her children, how difficult it is to face anniversaries and milestones, and the struggle to protect your energy when everyone has an opinion on how you should grieve. She shares the realities of grief no one talks about—the exhaustion, the inconsistency, the need for boundaries, and how hard it can be to let others in when you’re just trying to get through the day.

    If you’re grieving, or trying to support someone who is, this episode will help you feel seen. Sadie speaks directly to the heart of anyone feeling isolated and overwhelmed, offering hope that while the pain doesn’t disappear, there are ways to take small, meaningful steps forward. In her vulnerability, she creates a space for others to feel understood and held, showing that grief is not something to fix but to navigate—one day at a time.


    keywordsgrief, loss, support, healing, memories, consistency, boundaries, community, spirituality, self-careSound Bites

    • "This year has been the most difficult year of my life."
    • "Consistency is really key."
    • "I want to keep his memory alive for the kids."

    Chapters

    00:00Reflections on Grief and Loss

    05:30Keeping Memories Alive: Talking About the Deceased

    11:06Significant Dates and Their Impact

    16:47Support from Strangers and Community

    21:51Spirituality and Self-Responsibility in Grief

    24:22Finding Focus and Purpose in Grief

    39:24Lessons Learned from Grief


    Find Me. www.thrgriefcoachuk.com


    @the_grief_coach_uk. Instagram



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    46 min
  • Grief Season: Carving Out Time for Intentional Grieving & Healing
    Aug 3 2024

    In this heartfelt episode of The Grief Lounge, Sadie shares her deeply personal experience with grief and the ongoing challenges of navigating her grief season. Reflecting on the first anniversary of her husband's death, she discusses the traumatic events of the past few years that continue to impact her and her children. Sadie talks about the concept of intentional grieving, highlighting the importance of actively engaging with the pain rather than avoiding it. She explains how writing and journalling have been cathartic tools in her healing journey, allowing her to express and process her emotions. Music and memories of loved ones have also played a significant role in providing comfort and connection. Sadie addresses the societal pressure to move on quickly from grief and emphasises the necessity of creating space for one's pain and seeking support from understanding communities. This episode is a powerful reminder that healing takes time and that embracing grief can lead to profound personal growth.

    Keywords: grief, grief season, trauma, intentional grieving, writing, music, pain, healing, support, community


    You can find me on my website www.thegriefcoachuk.com


    On Instagram @thegriefcoach_uk


    or in the Facebook community https://www.facebook.com/groups/thegrieflounge/


    Thank you for listening.


    Sadie x

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    25 min
  • What's the worst that could happen: Rachel Hart’s Grief Journey
    Jul 20 2024

    In this episode of The Grief Lounge, I sit down with Rachel Hart, who shares her powerful story of navigating immense loss and finding love again. Rachel opens up about losing her father, mother, and husband at a young age, including the heartbreaking experience of her husband's death by suicide. We discuss the emotional challenges that followed, the weight of being labeled as 'strong', and the conflicting feelings when a parent remarries. Rachel emphasises the importance of allowing oneself to grieve, seeking support, and understanding that even in the darkest times, things can change. She also delves into her journey with spirituality, her belief in signs and synchronicities, and the bittersweet experience of starting a family without her parents. Join us as Rachel talks about finding love again, the importance of recording memories, and the need to consistently show up for those who are grieving. This heartfelt conversation is filled with insights, hope, and the reassurance that growth and happiness are possible after profound loss.


    You can connect with Rachel at @lovelossdiscoballs


    Here are some links that Rachel would like to share to help anyone who needs support


    https://uksobs.com/ (Survivors of bereavement by suicide)


    https://www.thecalmzone.net/ (Campaign against living miserably)



    If you would like to connect with others who are also grieving the loss of their person please come and join us at @thegrieflounge on facebook


    you can find me on instagram here @thegriefcoach_uk


    If you would like to work with me you can go to my website for more information www.thegriefcoachuk.com


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    1 h et 17 min
  • Grief and Young Minds: Professional Guidance with Sarah Mann Shaw
    Jul 12 2024

    In this conversation, Sadie interviews Sarah Mann Shaw, a drama therapist and psychotherapist, about working with children and young people who are experiencing grief and loss. Sarah explains that drama therapy is a unique form of psychotherapy that uses play, metaphor, and creative expression to explore and process internal emotions. She emphasises the importance of the therapeutic relationship and empowering young people to make choices in therapy. Sarah also discusses the different ways grief can manifest in children and young people, including the impact of neurodiversity and adoption. She offers insights on supporting children through grief rituals and the ebb and flow of the grieving process. This insightful conversation is essential listening for anyone seeking to understand and support grieving children.


    Keywordsgrief, loss, children, young people, therapy, drama therapy, psychotherapy, therapeutic relationship, neurodiversity, adoption, rituals, ebb and flowTakeaways

    • Drama therapy is a unique form of psychotherapy that uses play, metaphor, and creative expression to explore and process internal emotions.
    • The therapeutic relationship is crucial in supporting children and young people through grief and loss.
    • Grief can manifest in different ways in children and young people, and it is important to consider factors such as neurodiversity and adoption.
    • Supporting children through grief rituals and acknowledging the ebb and flow of the grieving process can be helpful.
    • Parents and caregivers should be attuned to their child's nonverbal cues and apologise when they make mistakes in supporting their child's grief.


    00:34 Introduction and Overview of Drama Therapy and Psychotherapy

    04:49 Grief and Loss Beyond Death: Separation, Adoption, Foster Care

    06:41 The Impact and Internalization of Loss

    08:59 Working with Grief in Children and Young People

    11:43 Building Therapeutic Relationships with Children and Young People

    13:03 An Embodied Approach to Grief and Loss

    18:56 The Unique Challenges of Neurodiverse Individuals

    20:52 The Impact of Adoption on Grief and Loss

    25:42 The Lack of Support and Understanding in Society

    27:37 Supporting Grieving Children in Schools

    29:04 The Importance of Rituals and Mourning in Communities

    30:00 Supporting Children through Rituals and Memory Boxes

    33:55 Parenting and Supporting Grieving Children

    36:37 Effective Communication about Grief and Loss

    38:43 Continued Support and Understanding for Grieving Children

    42:28 Seeking Professional Help for Grieving Children


    Please come and join The Grief Lounge Community on Facebook here www.facebook.com/groups/thegrieflounge/


    You can also find me on Instagram here @thegriefcoach_uk


    If you would like to know more about this weeks incredible guest Sarah Mann Shaw you can find her herehttp://www.sarahmannshaw.co.uk/

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    49 min
  • Climbing Mountains: Finding Strength and Joy in Grief
    Jun 28 2024

    Summary

    In this episode of The Grief Lounge, Sadie reflects on her recent climb of Scafell Pike and the striking parallels between this physical challenge and the emotional journey of grief. She shares how grief can feel like an insurmountable mountain, often leaving us unprepared and overwhelmed. Sadie underscores the importance of seeking professional help and support, just as she relied on guides for her climb. She talks about the value of taking one step at a time, focusing on the progress made, and trusting oneself in the face of adversity. Sadie encourages listeners to believe in their own capabilities and to seek out moments of joy amidst the sorrow.

    grief, challenge, mountain, climb, support, journey, personal, professional help, trust, capabilities, joy

    • Grief is a personal journey, much like climbing an immense mountain.
    • Professional help and support are essential for navigating grief.
    • Focus on taking one step at a time and celebrate the progress you've made.
    • Trust in your own abilities and believe in yourself.
    • Even in grief, it's possible to find moments of joy.
    • "We are thrown into grief, a challenge we are not trained for."
    • "Focus on how far I've come as opposed to how far I've got to go."
    • "Navigating grief without professional help is like climbing a mountain without a guide."

    00:00 - Celebrating the Achievement of Climbing a Mountain
    02:54 - The Symbolism of Mountains and Grief
    06:16 - Focusing on Progress and Self-Belief
    08:50 - The Importance of Professional Help and Support
    12:37 - Personal Growth and Overcoming Challenges
    19:03 - Discovering Personal Capabilities and Potential
    23:28 - Closing Remarks and Looking Forward


    Join the community page on Facebook here www.facebook.com/groups/thegrieflounge/


    you can find me on instagram here @thegriefcoach_uk

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    24 min