• Ep. 433 Two Loops Every Leader experiences And How to Break Free - Part 1 of a 7-Part Series
    May 5 2026
    Anxiety and leadership often go hand in hand, whether a mom, an entrepreneur, or a corporate executive. If you are a leader, you have most likely experienced the fact that anxiety and leadership go hand-in-hand. The Dual Leadership Model™ is designed to help Christian women leaders and others break through anxiety-driven behaviors to lead with calm, confidence, and consistency. Christian Women Leaders You are capable. Driven. Accomplished. You lead a team, run a business, raise a family, or do all three at once. People look to you. You show up. You deliver. And yet, something feels off. Do you find yourself snapping at the people closest to you and then feeling a wave of shame? Maybe you lie awake running through every decision you made that day, wondering if you did enough. Perhaps you say yes when every part of you wants to say no — and then resent it later. Are you are exhausted in a way that sleep does not fix. Here is what no one is telling you: it is not a time management problem. It is not a discipline problem. And it is not a character flaw. It is a loop. And you have been stuck in it longer than you know. High-Achiever Celebration of Anxiety and Leadership What Is the Dual Leadership Loop Model™? The Dual Leadership Loop Model™ is built on a simple but profound truth: at any given moment, you are leading from one of two loops. Loop One: The Anxiety Response Loop The anxiety-driven behaviors at the center of the anxiety response loop: Perfectionism People-pleasing Need for control Defensiveness and overreacting Avoidance Imposter syndrome Comparison Loop Two: The Calm, Confident, and Consistent Leadership Loop The Calm, Confident, Consistent Leadership Loop produces: Clarity and confidence Steady, consistent decision-making Healthy, honest relationships Resilience without rigidity Sustainable growth without burnout The kind of leadership others want to follow The Neuroscience Behind the Anxiety Response Loop The Combination of Neuroscience and Faith For those of us who follow Christ, there is a layer to this that goes deeper than neuroscience. Five Shifts That Will Change How You Lead Anxiety-driven behaviors are your nervous system's way of trying to protect you. They are not character flaws — they are survival adaptations. You are not flawed. Anxiety is biological — not a personal failure. You did not choose it, but you can learn to work with it. Anxiety does not define you. Your identity is not your nervous system response. You are not stuck. You can choose a different response right now. Striving is not sustainable. Regulated leadership is. What to Expect in This Series Over the next six episodes, we are going to walk through each anxiety-driven behavior in the loop — people-pleasing, perfectionism, need for control, imposter syndrome, comparison, defensiveness, and avoidance. We will explore where each one comes from, what it is costing you, what the research says, and most importantly, how to move out of it. This is not a series about trying harder. It is a series about leading differently, better, and safer. Your Next Step as Christian Women Leaders Before the next episode, I want you to do one thing: pay attention and notice what is happening for you. Read the full show notes and access the reflection questions.
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    34 min
  • Ep. 432 Who are you trying to change? with Amanda Hayhurst
    Apr 28 2026
    Pray for Your Husband: A Path to Relationship Transformation Embracing the power of prayer in relationships can facilitate profound personal and spiritual growth. The Transition from Controlling to Surrendering Learning to shift your perspective from control to surrender is crucial in relationship dynamics. How Prayer Leads to Personal Peace When you pray for your husband it can bring about an unexpected peace within yourself. Establishing Consistent Prayer Habits Developing a routine of prayer is essential for significant transformation. The Power of Community in Prayer Community plays a substantial role in supporting individual faith journeys. Surrendering to the will of God Trusting in the Lord's will is essential in navigating the uncertainties of relationships. Recognizing the Holy Spirit's Role Understanding the role of the Holy Spirit. The Importance of Reflection Through Journaling Documenting your faith and prayer journey. Addressing Codependency Through Prayer Prayer can also shed light on codependent behaviors within relationships. Embracing Your Own Growth While the initial motivation might be to pray for your husband's transformation. The Mystery of Divine Intervention Lastly, accept the mysterious nature of divine intervention. Website for Amanda Hayhurst Additional Resources: A Healthy Marriage, a Healthy Family Links for You, Me, and Anxiety: Parent Book Teen Book Schedule a free consultation discovery call with Robyn. Download the free eBook: Alleviate Anxiety by Developing Healthy Habits for a Healthy Mind Read the full show notes and access all links.
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    42 min
  • Ep. 431 Strategies you need to alleviate burnout with Dr. Ioana Popa
    Apr 21 2026
    As Christian women in leadership, it is important to alleviate burnout. When you do, you open the door for peace of mind, healthier relationships, and a closer relationship to Christ. Christian women in leadership who experience anxiety often feel the need for control, perfectionism, people-pleasing, and even avoidance. These can lead to burnout. For overall health and wellness, it is crucial to alleviate burnout. Faith and Leadership: A Seamless Integration Faith isn't just for Sundays. It's about integrating your beliefs into every aspect of your life, especially in leadership roles at work and home. Understanding the Dynamics of Burnout Burnout doesn't happen overnight. It develops subtly, starting with chronic stress and progressing if not managed properly. I Aligning Body, Mind, and Spirit To alleviate burnout, it's crucial to align your body, mind, and spirit. Building Capacity and Setting Boundaries Capacity isn't just resilience; it involves setting boundaries and understanding personal limits. Co-Creation with God Faith is a powerful tool for increasing capacity. Navigating Secular Environments with Faith In secular work environments, openly expressing faith might be challenging. However, actions often speak louder than words. The Role of Community and Support Systems No one should face burnout alone. Harnessing the Power of the Holy Spirit Let the Holy Spirit guide you in your leadership journey. Practical Tools for Daily Renewal Incorporate daily practices that nourish your soul and prevent burnout. A Compassionate Approach to Leadership Incorporating Christian values into leadership roles doesn't just benefit you; it positively impacts your team and community. Website for Dr. Ioana Popa Renewal Template Read the full show notes and access all links. Additional Resources Do You Believe Your Self-Talk? Healing Starts Beyond the Brain. How to Set Boundaries. Every Relationship Needs Them. Why Are You People-Pleasing? Adopting the Holy Pause to Stop Overreacting Links for You, Me, and Anxiety: Parent Book Teen Book Additional Resources Schedule a free consultation discovery call with Robyn. Download the free eBook: Alleviate Anxiety by Developing Healthy Habits for a Healthy Mind
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    40 min
  • Why I Became Catholic: From Protestant Doubt to a Deeper Walk with Jesus
    Apr 14 2026
    There are several reasons why I became Catholic. And even more reasons why becoming Catholic was the best decision I made for myself and my family. I was NEVER going to become Catholic One of the biggest fights my husband and I ever had was over faith when we were dating. It almost ended our relationship. I was intrigued by becoming Catholic During college, several of my friends were Catholic. The Newman Center for the hospital complex and for college students at Washington University was across the street. There was not a Lutheran church within walking distance, and I didn't want to go alone. I also wanted to sleep in on Sunday morning or work. So, I went to the Saturday evening Catholic mass with my friends. Faith that floundered Throughout college, my faith was hot and cold. Then I met my husband. The biggest fight The lack of what we needed When my husband was asked to move to the East Coast for his job, we had to start the church search all over again. It was years of searching. Then, football saved the day. Then, a God wink. About a week into playing for the CYO team, we were told that our son had to be in CCD to play. This was a new rule. Several of the kids in the league had to join CCD or leave the league. I am a challenger by nature. If you are on my email list, you already know that part of my identity is being a challenger. And I set out to challenge the deacon teaching the RCIA classes. What I learned about becoming Catholic Why I became Catholic By becoming Catholic, I grew closer to Jesus. A relationship that I had not previously developed. My trust grew. I discovered the Holy Spirit and developed a new understanding of grace and mercy. The eucharist became a lifeline of forgiveness, for myself and for me to be able to forgive others. I healed from past traumas and grew in my ability to share my faith with others. Even after 15 years in the Catholic church, I feel like a young Catholic. There is more I could say about why I became Catholic, but the reality is that it has been a life-changing journey, a healing journey, and an opportunity for our family to grow together in our faith and become stronger because of it. No judgement I hope that this has clarified a few items about the Catholic faith. If you want to learn more, please share your questions with me. If I don't have the answers, I will get them for you. I can also recommend an incredible resource, Lisa Brenninkmeyer, founder of Walking with Purpose and a fellow convert, and Jeff Cavins, a convert and Catholic educator and evangelist. It is important for me to emphasize that I believe Jesus Christ is my Lord and Savior, that the Bible is the inerrant word of God, and that it does not change with time or science. In fact, I believe that science is just now catching up with Scripture, and that when we lean into Scripture, our lives are changed and God opens doors we could never have imagined. It's when we lean into Scripture and have a relationship with the triune God that we heal from past wounds and traumas and can break through anxiety-driven behaviors and live in the purpose God has for us. His redemption is how we are delivered from perfectionism, the need to control, fear, and people-pleasing. What a blessing! Read the full show notes and access all links. Video on Eucharist by Greg Pratt.
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    47 min
  • Ep. 429 Rethinking alcohol in an alcohol focused society with Ericka Andersen
    Apr 7 2026
    The conversation around alcohol consumption has evolved as many begin to question its place in daily life. Rethinking alcohol goes beyond mere abstention; it's about understanding its role and effects on our physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being. As society often normalizes drinking, it's crucial to explore how alcohol impacts individuals differently, and why some may choose a path of sobriety for deeper, more personal reasons. Alcohol and Spiritual Conflict Alcohol is often touted as a social lubricant or a way to unwind, but its effects are far from benign. For many, alcohol creates a conflict between personal values and societal norms. Engaging in a faith-driven lifestyle while consuming alcohol can lead to an internal struggle. This struggle is especially pronounced in those seeking spiritual growth, as alcohol can hinder one's connection to their faith. Alcohol can cloud the mind and prevent one from leaning into the Lord and hearing the Holy Spirit. The Intersection of Anxiety and Addiction Understanding the link between anxiety and alcohol is essential in the rethinking alcohol conversation. Breaking the Stereotypes of Alcoholism Rethinking alcohol also means challenging the stereotype of what an alcoholic looks like. Exploring Personal Journeys Personal stories of sobriety illustrate the complex relationship many have with alcohol. Embracing Faith in Recovery Faith can play a transformative role in the journey to sobriety. Many find that their spiritual beliefs provide comfort and strength, helping them overcome the hurdles of addiction. Society's Role in Supporting Change Encouraging societal change in how we view alcohol can have lasting impacts. Website for Ericka Andersen Buy Ericka's book: Freely Sober Additional resources: Addiction and Parenting: Truths Every Parent Needs to Know Narcissism 101:Truths You Need to Know Download the free eBook: Alleviate Anxiety by Developing Healthy Habits for a Healthy Mind Links for You, Me, and Anxiety: Parent Book Teen Book Schedule a free consultation discovery call with Robyn. Read the full show notes and access all links.
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    49 min
  • Ep. 428 Your body is speaking to you. Are you listening? with Brook Sheehan
    Mar 31 2026
    The body talks. It may shout or whisper, but God created it to communicate its needs and your needs physically, mentally, spiritually, and emotionally. How can you know if your body is speaking to you? You must have awareness and listen. Then you must pause to hear as the body speaks to you. God miraculously created you to have a sense of awareness and connection between mind, body, and spirit. It is your choice to listen and embrace the gifts given to you. The Miraculous Connection Between Body and Mind Our body is a remarkable creation, intricately designed to communicate with us. This relationship between the physical and the spiritual aspects is profound. Understanding how your body talks is key to health and wellness. For many, recognizing the nuances of this dialogue can be transformative. Recognizing Your Body's Signals Many of us have grown up in environments disconnected from bodily awareness. The Journey to Reconnection Some may go straight from complete disconnection to an obsessed awareness of the body. The Power of Chiropractic and Natural Health Chiropractic care offers a pathway to this reconnection. Strategies for Tuning Into Your Body Our bodies crave what they need. Sometimes, a lack of progress in healing or weight loss can mean the body has become resistant to current practices. Stewarding Our Physical Selves Like any valuable resource, our bodies require stewardship. The Role of Emotions and Spirituality Your body does not exist in isolation. Understanding the Whispering Signals The warnings our bodies give, such as sneezing or slight joint pain, often indicate underlying issues. Responding Rather Than Reacting In moments of stress or when facing health challenges, pausing rather than reacting can be powerful. Listening to Your Body: A Lifelong Practice Becoming attuned to your body is a journey, one that involves continuous learning and adjustment. Your Body, Your Partner in Well-being This journey is unique for each individual. Your body is a wise entity designed for resilience and healing. Website for Dr. Brook Sheehan Additional Resources Adopt the Holy Pause to Stop Overreacting. How Gratitude Reduces Anxiety Bible verse quoted: Psalm 100:3 Schedule a free consultation discovery call with Robyn. Links for You, Me, and Anxiety: Parent Book Teen Book Read the full show notes and access all links.
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    51 min
  • Ep. 427 Discovering your identity in Christ is a profound journey that can lead to an extraordinary purpose in life with Kimberly Joy
    Mar 24 2026
    Discovering your identity in Christ is a profound journey that can lead to an extraordinary purpose in life. Embracing your identity in Christ is not merely about adopting labels or roles, but understanding a deeper essence that aligns with God's vision for you. Your identity in Christ will lead to your purpose and to an extraordinary life. To truly be extraordinary, aligning your identity with your God-assigned purpose is essential. Exploring Your Identity in Christ Living Out Your God-Given Identity When you live in alignment with your God-assigned identity, your actions, decisions, and life pursuits flow naturally from this core understanding. The Power of Community in Identity Discovery Community plays a vital role in discovering and living out your identity in Christ. Overcoming Barriers to Identity To fully embrace your identity in Christ, it is crucial to release past identities rooted in fear, guilt, and shame. Embracing Your Extraordinary Purpose Every believer is called to impact the world significantly. The Eternal Perspective Our earthly journey is just a small part of a larger eternal story. Scripture verses referenced throughout the conversation with Kimberly Joy: Psalm 3:3 - "Thou Lord, our shield about me and the lifter of my head." Second Samuel - Reference to God calling David from shepherding to make him king over Israel. Jeremiah 29:11 - Reference to God having a plan and a blueprint. 2 Chronicles 25 - Reference to King Johoiachin being favored, released, and given a seat at the king's table. Hebrews 12:1-2 - While not directly quoted, the concept of "fixing our eyes on Jesus" aligns with biblical teaching. Psalm 139:16 - A reference to God having a book in which our days are written, suggesting a predestined purpose. Website for Kimberly Joy Additional Resources What Does the Bible Say About Your Identity? The Need to Forgive Because Unforgiveness Increases Anxiety Why Are You People-Pleasing Gratitude Reduces Anxiety Adopt the Holy Pause to Stop Overreacting Links for You, Me, and Anxiety: Parent Book Teen Book Schedule a free consultation discovery call with Robyn. Download the free eBook: Alleviate Anxiety by Developing Healthy Habits for a Healthy Mind Read the full show notes and access all links.
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    57 min
  • Ep. 426 He calls me Daughter - Healing from Deep-Rooted Father Wounds with Rachelle Starr
    Mar 17 2026
    Father wounds result in nervous system dysregulation, anxiety, and long-term love-seeking behaviors. Anxiety and father wounds often go hand in hand. Many women experience emotional chaos because of unrecognized father wounds. The Need for Acceptance and Love In the depths of our hearts, each of us carries the need for acceptance and love from our earthly fathers. Understanding Father Wounds Father wounds stem from the absence of a nurturing, supportive father figure. Restoring through Redemption and Grace Redemption involves reclaiming what was lost. Embracing a New Identity Discover a new identity in Christ. The journey from wounds to healing culminates in living as redeemed daughters of God. About Rachelle Starr Rachelle Starr is the founder of Scarlet Hope and Freedom Signal. Rachelle's book, Outrageous Obedience About He Calls Me Daughter He Calls Me Daughter is for women who have felt unseen, unsupported, or unsure of their worth—and who long for love that feels safe. Fathers Play a Crucial Role in Healthy Development The film highlights how fathers play a crucial role in guiding children with biblical values. Tickets for He Calls Me Daughter at Fathom Entertainment. For more information, visit hecallsmedaughter.org. Read the full show notes and access all links. Links for You, Me, and Anxiety: Parent Book Teen Book Additional Resources Schedule a free consultation discovery call with Robyn. Download the free eBook: Alleviate Anxiety by Developing Healthy Habits for a Healthy Mind
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