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  • EP293: Giving, Receiving, and the Beauty of Balance
    May 7 2026
    I was recently reminded how hard it can be for some of us to receive, especially when we are used to being the giver. A young woman I love shared a story about borrowing a dress from her cousin, only to have her cousin offer it to her as a gift. Her first instinct was to say no because it felt like too much, but I could see so clearly that the dress was meant for her, and that accepting it would also allow her cousin the joy of giving. That conversation brought me back to a lesson that I had to learn in my own life. For many years, I felt most comfortable showing up for others, supporting them, and being of service. What I did not realize at the time was that receiving is its own kind of practice. When we resist help, generosity, or thoughtful gifts, we may be blocking someone else from stepping into their own giving energy. This episode is about the natural ebb and flow between giving and receiving, and how different seasons of life ask different things of us. As I move through this big transition, I can feel how much easier it becomes when I'm willing to say yes to the people who want to help. On today's Wise Walk, we are looking at what it means to receive with grace and let support come in without guilt, resistance, or the need to explain it away. At this moment in time, do you feel that you have mastered the flow of giving and receiving?Do you feel weighted in one identity more than the other?Is there an opportunity for you to create more balance between giving and receiving?If you are in a phase of life where you feel like you are receiving all the time, can you look for opportunities to give?If you have been a giver for most of your life, where can you open yourself up to receive more?How can you practice being gracious and simply saying thank you when gifts of giving come your way?What is something in your life that someone gifted you, but you resisted receiving?What was going on in your mind or heart that made you feel it was inappropriate to receive that gift?As you surface that awareness within yourself, are there ways you can look at the situation differently?As you reflect, do you feel that resisting the gift was the right decision because it was not meant for you to receive?Are you resisting because you do not feel worthy?Can you recognize that receiving with grace empowers others to step into their role as givers?Where can you eliminate the stress of feeling like a gift is too much?Are you assigning a monetary value or emotional weight to a gift that the giver is not assigning to it?How can you receive a gift in the way it was intended and allow the giver to give in the way they intended?Is there an item, gesture, or gift in your life that you can cherish not just for what it is, but for the lesson it represents?What gift symbolizes a phase in your life where you witnessed your own growth?How can a gift remind you that you are more than what you have been allowing yourself to be?What else can you invite into your life by showing up and saying yes? As we move through our own ebbs and flows, may we keep finding small ways to give, receive, and acknowledge each other right where we are. Please reach out, share what's on your heart, support whoever you can, and stay open to receiving support too. I'm sending good energy your way, and I look forward to connecting with you again on next Thursday's Wise Walk. In this episode: [03:56] When you grow up being a giver, you can neglect learning to be a receiver.[05:37] The importance of knowing that you are worth a gift.[07:13] By not receiving the gifts we are denying the giver the satisfaction of sharing that gift.[09:14] We are all better when we balance out the ebb and flow of receiving and giving. [10:14] It's beautiful to know that you are worthy of giving and receiving. [13:01] I love the awareness of creating this ebb and flow of giving and receiving in my life. [14:17] Our life and our needs are going to always ebb and flow. The more we can help out and receive when we need help, the better the ebb and flow of life. [15:23] I decided to graciously accept help that will set me up for success with my new home. [16:39] I've gone through so many moments where I give. It feels good, but this is my moment to receive. [17:35] Honor where you are in the ebbs and flows of life. Memorable Quotes: "Receiving with grace is a beautiful thing when you know that you are deserving to receive as well as to give." - Mary Tess"You are empowering others to be givers when you receive with grace, when you receive with love, with kindness." - Mary Tess"Honor where you are, wherever it is, and know that this cycle of giving and receiving will continue on." - Mary Tess Links and Resources: Mary Tess RooneyEmailHeart Value Facebook | LinkedIn | Twitter | Instagram
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    20 min
  • EP292: Living as Part of an Ecosystem
    Apr 30 2026
    I am getting closer to closing on my future home, and I feel like I'm being invited into something much bigger than a property transaction. The sellers have cared for this land with so much love, intention, and respect that it feels less like I am buying a home and more like I am being trusted with a living ecosystem. They have tended to the land, the home, the animals, the bees, the hummingbirds, the deer, and all the little systems that help everything move in concert with one another. It has me thinking about how temporary ownership really is. We do not take our homes, our cars, our belongings, or our land with us when we leave this earth. What we do carry are the memories, the lessons, the awareness, and the energy we create while those things are in our care. I felt this deeply when I sold my camper van, Great Bear. She held so many beautiful memories for me and my dogs, but when I was no longer using her in the way she deserved, it felt right to pass her on to someone who could love her, use her, and create new memories of her own. That same idea is showing up again as I prepare to become the next steward of this home and land. I feel grateful for what has been created before me, and I feel responsible for continuing that flow of care in whatever way I can. On today's Wise Walk, we are exploring what it means to see ourselves as stewards of the spaces, belongings, and living systems in our care, and how honoring that responsibility can create a more beautiful exchange with the world around us. Where in your life do you feel part of an ecosystem and not separate from it?Can you feel how your energy flows to everything and everyone around you?Are you able to offer peace, belonging, and empowerment through the energy you share?Are you also able to receive that same peace, belonging, and empowerment from others?Since everything we own is temporary, what is your relationship with your belongings?How can you be a caring steward of the things you are responsible for?Which belongings still bring you joy?Which belongings have become unused in your life?Where could you release something so someone else can love, use, and appreciate it?Can you honor the memories you created with something, even when it is time to let it go?How is that belonging part of a larger ecosystem that continues beyond you?Where can something you once loved continue to live on in someone else's life?What feeling are you creating through the way you care for yourself, your neighbors, and your belongings?What feeling will you leave behind when you move into your next chapter?Where can you own your responsibility as a guardian and steward of what is in your care?Can you trust when it is time to let go and let something continue its purpose with someone else? I truly hope that you feel supported and nurtured by all the living energies that are surrounding you and that you are appreciating the memories that you're creating while those elements are in your life. I would love to hear what living systems are a part of your life and how they are acting as sanctuaries for you, or what different elements surprised you about this episode and what you took away, so please feel free to reach out and share. I look forward to next Thursday's Wise Walk, In this episode: [05:15] In 2018, I made the decision to be a camper van owner. After selling her, I still get to carry the memories from when the van was still mine.[06:29] When we are stewards of something, but not using it, that creates a missed opportunity for someone else to use it and love it.[07:31] I know the van gets to live on and create new memories with the amazing new owner. [08:27] Nurturing and respecting things we've experienced and nurtured reinforces this positive flow of energy. [10:09] Even though I don't still own the van, I can still cherish everything we've experienced in it. I feel this also applies to my purchase of this new property as I become the new steward of the land. [12:14] I am also the benefactor of how they have guarded and empowered this land and this ecosystem. I feel empowered to continue what the previous owners have started.[15:04] I cared for and loved my past house in the same diligent and meticulous way. [17:27] If we all do the right thing for each other, we won't have a fear of being taken advantage of.[18:38] The legacy of us taking care of our homes and our things lives on and we get to be beautiful guardians and stewards of that thing. [19:25] I feel like everything I've done in my past has led me to find these beautiful sellers. [20:02] I look forward to sharing future memories with these sellers. Memorable Quotes: "Everything that we own is temporary, but the memories, lessons, awareness, and energy we create get to live on." - Mary Tess"Being a steward means honoring what is in our care while also trusting when it is time to let it go." - Mary Tess"When we do the right thing for our homes, our belongings, and each other, we help create a world...
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    23 min
  • EP291: What's Your Ironman-like Life Event?
    Apr 23 2026
    Thank you, Striders. The response to last week's episode really moved me. The shoutouts and questions that came in reminded me of why these conversations matter so much. Last week we talked about the things in life we are constantly training for, and I used the example of my dogs, because raising them into their best selves has always been an ongoing process of patience and intention. The other example I shared was my nephew Logan, who is competing in an Ironman this weekend. Watching him prepare for this has been something else entirely. An Ironman is a 2.4 mile swim, followed by a 112 mile bike ride, then a full marathon on top of that. He will likely be out there for twelve hours or more. He did not arrive at this start line overnight. He got there through small, steady, intentional steps, building his mileage, learning how to transition between each leg of the race, figuring out how to fuel his body, his mind, and his heart along the way. The training was never just physical. It was about showing up consistently, managing setbacks, honoring short and long term goals, and knowing what he needed in order to keep going when things got hard. Your excitement about last week's episode inspired me to take this idea even further. So many of us are doing something similar every single day, just without the race bib. On today's Wise Walk, we are slowing down to ask ourselves what our Ironman-like event really is, and what we are doing to prepare our body, mind, and heart to go the full distance. What is your Ironman-like event that you have your sights set on, and how are you mentally preparing to take small steps through the planning, the wins, the setbacks, and the short-, medium-, and long-term goals?How are you managing your time and stress as you prepare for this event, knowing that stress is part of taking on something meaningful?How are you fueling your body, your heart, and your mind so you can stay resilient and keep moving forward when challenges arise?As you reflect on this event, how are you rallying support, what are you asking for, who are you asking, and are you clearly expressing why this matters to you?Where can you plan and prepare with focus, discipline, and commitment so you are set up for success, and where might you need to make sacrifices?What needs to come off your plate right now, and what are you trying to juggle that may be draining your energy before, during, or after this event?How are you planning to recover so you can feel aligned and supported once the event is complete?How can you pace yourself with everything you have going on so you finish strong and set yourself up to take on what comes next? I would love to hear what you're preparing for and how you're fueling yourself through it, before, during, and after. Reach out, I'm cheering you on. Don't forget to rally your support so you can set yourself up for success. I'll see you next Thursday for another Wise Walk, and until then, please remember to prioritize fun as you read the signs, direct your path, and get your Stride on. In this episode: [04:29] One of the Ironman type events I'm taking on is moving. I found a home. I am mentally, emotionally, physically preparing myself for the big moving event. [05:50] I also want to prepare for the heaviness of unpacking. My sister Heather is going to be there for me. One of the things we can do when training for an Ironman event is rally support. [07:49] One of my loved ones, who will be cheering Logan on, has diabetes. She has been trying to master keeping her blood sugar in check while traveling. She's taking on her own major Ironman challenge.[09:42] We have Ironman-like events in our lives everyday, because it is overcoming hardship. [11:27] I need to prepare for my move by keeping myself mentally and physically strong. Core strength is critical. [12:56] I also cancelled some things that I've signed up for. I won't be settled, so I needed to cancel. [15:09] Logan has an awesome community that he trains with. He was given the advice to take his time, and to stop and remove the discomfort when it surfaces. [17:18] I'm going to try and slow down during this major move.[18:51] Logan also received the advice that you can go further if you go slower.[19:08] Pace yourself to avoid burnout. It requires an intentional focus and pace. Memorable Quotes: "You don't arrive at your biggest moments overnight. You build toward them, one small, intentional step at a time." - Mary Tess"Whatever you're facing right now might not look like an Ironman to anyone else, but if it stretches you, it counts." - Mary Tess"Pacing yourself is not falling behind. It's how you make sure you actually finish strong." - Mary Tess Links and Resources: Mary Tess RooneyEmailHeart Value Facebook | LinkedIn | Twitter | Instagram
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    23 min
  • EP290: Growing Into Your Vision & Future Self
    Apr 16 2026
    My dear friend's son, Doston, just got a German Shepherd puppy. She is small, curious, and already testing boundaries in all the ways puppies do. It is that early stage where behavior is still forming, and it would be easy to overlook the habits that are starting to take shape. I admire how Doston reached out and asked me for advice on how to train her. How to set things up so she grows into a well-behaved, confident dog. That kind of awareness matters. It is easy to get caught up in the moment and assume things will work themselves out, but they do not. Puppies grow quickly, and the behaviors that seem minor in their youth become much more significant over time. When I think about my own dogs today, calm and easy to manage in different environments, I know that outcome came from consistent effort and a clear vision of who I wanted them to become. That idea has stayed with me, because it extends far beyond dogs. The way we show up today directly influences the person we become over time. It is easy to feel stuck or feel that change is hard and it is too late to shift direction, but I do not see it that way. On today's Wise Walk, we are taking a closer look at the future version of ourselves that we want to grow into and what it means to begin training for that version now. Who do you want to become, and is there a future version of yourself you can see or feel within you that you are ready to begin training for now?What qualities and experiences define that version of you, and what small steps can you take to begin moving in that direction and embodying those shifts today?Are your current actions aligned with the version of yourself you want to become?What elements in your environment can you control to better set yourself up for success?What steps, however small, do you know you need to take to move forward and begin acting as if you are already becoming that person?Are you staying true to those actions because you know they are right for you, regardless of what others may think?Can you hold space for your growth and commit to it, even if it feels uncomfortable or unfamiliar?Is there a past version of yourself you miss or want to reconnect with, and what from that version can you bring into your present and future?What small steps are you willing to take right now to grow into that person?What distractions or barriers can you remove to better support your progress?What actions can you take each day to stay aligned with the version of yourself you are ready to step into? Each of us has the ability to create the life we are meant for. It starts with staying true to who we are today, while also honoring the version of ourselves we are growing into, and taking actions that align along the way. I would love to hear what resonated with you, so feel free to reach out and share what you are taking with you from today's episode. I look forward to being with you again next Thursday for another Wise Walk. In this episode: [03:54] I had a simple but clear vision for my life with my dogs. It took a lot of work training them to be comfortable with travel and being a car dog. [05:08] I had to start with small steps like driving down the street.[06:01] Now the car is the happy place for both of my dogs.[07:03] I had to see the vision, set us up for success, and control distractions. Controlling the environment can set us all up for success. [08:10] I was mindful to condition my puppies to set them up for success. I started the training at a young age, so they could grow into the version I saw for them.[10:41] All of my actions were aligned with my vision for them.[12:09] One of the visions for my future self is hiking at higher elevations. I'm going to have to work up to that. I have a training plan for my big hike in July.[15:19] I'm so proud of my nephew who has the vision to train and do an ironman competition. That's a 2.4 mile swim, 112 bike ride, and a 26.2 mile marathon. [17:11] I'm going to show up and support my nieces and nephews when I can. Memorable Quotes: "Growth happens when your actions start to align with the version of yourself you can already see." - Mary Tess"If you can see that future version of yourself, then you can start acting in alignment with it today." - Mary Tess"The question is not whether change is possible. The question is whether you are ready to begin." - Mary Tess Links and Resources: Mary Tess RooneyEmailHeart Value Facebook | LinkedIn | Twitter | Instagram
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    20 min
  • EP289: Messages We Are Meant to Receive
    Apr 9 2026
    There are moments when something finds you at just the right time. A quote, a phrase, a random text from someone you love, and it lands in a way that you weren't prepared for. That happened to me this week. A loved one sent me a quote and I couldn't stop thinking about it: "Healing is when you stop telling the story that broke you, and you start telling the story that rebuilt you." Simple words, but they opened up a lot. About the stories we carry, the ones we share with others, the ones we replay in our own heads — and what those stories actually say about where we are. Because the way we tell our story? It doesn't lie. It reflects where we genuinely are in our healing, not where we wish we were or think we should be. On today's Wise Walk, we're slowing down to explore that shift from the story that broke you to the one that rebuilt you. We're getting curious about the messages we receive and what they might be pointing us toward. Because in that curiosity, there's room for real reflection, a little more compassion for ourselves, and genuine gratitude for how far we've actually come. When a message or quote stops you in your tracks and connects on a deep level, do you take time to get curious about why it resonates?Do you reflect on why a particular word, phrase, or sentiment has an impact on you at that moment?Do you consider how it has shown up in your past, how it applies right now, and how it might support you moving forward?What are the stories you are telling right now, to yourself and to others?As you tell that story, do you notice an emotional charge, a sense of still feeling hurt, disappointed, or broken?Are you handling yourself with compassion and giving yourself grace as you acknowledge where you still are in your healing?Are you on the road to healing, and how can you move toward telling your story from a rebuilt perspective?Or are you telling a story that was once heavy, but in this moment you realize just how far you have come?Can you give yourself credit for rebuilding and for allowing yourself to heal from whatever that experience was?What is a message, quote, or phrase you heard on a podcast or radio that deeply connected with you?What is it about that phrase that strikes a chord and where do you see it showing up in your own life?Can you hold compassion for who you were in the past, who you are today, and who you hope to become?Can you give yourself gratitude for prioritizing your healing and for growing into the next version of yourself? This whole community is stronger together when we can honestly acknowledge where we've been and celebrate the rebuilding that followed. As always, I would love to hear what you took away from today's episode, so feel free to reach out. I look forward to joining you next Thursday. Until then, prioritize fun, read the signs, direct your path, and get your Stride On. In this episode: [02:32] "Healing is when you stop telling the story that broke you, and you start telling the story that rebuilt you."[03:42] When we're in the thick of going through an emotional crisis, we think about how this could be happening to me or why is this happening or what did I do wrong? We tell the story from the emotional state and place of the victim.[05:05] I love how the stories we tell are a great framework for whether we've healed from our emotional crisis. [08:05] An emotionally charged story that always comes to mind for me is my divorce. It was a difficult, challenging, and complex experience. [09:02] The healing process of my divorce took a long time, because there were so many different facets. [10:06] When I received the quote, I realized that I have come a long way when it comes to my divorce experience. I am grateful for that.[11:17] When you receive a message that deeply resonates with you, take the time to reflect on why that strikes a chord within you.[13:23] Messages we receive are also an opportunity to have conversations with those that we love. [14:11] You can also discover why these quotes resonate with those you love. [16:40] How your loved ones reflect on the quote can tell you if they've healed. You can also see their growth through their reflections. [17:21] When you receive messages, get curious about how they may apply in your life or of those you love. [18:03] When healing occurs, the way we tell the story changes. Memorable Quotes: "Any time we have growth or a shift, we should give gratitude for just how far we've come." - Mary Tess"We can't get someone to rebuild themselves. We just have to be compassionate listeners." - Mary Tess"When we go through something very challenging and difficult, there could be many layers of disappointment or hurt or brokenness that need to heal. We need to give ourselves compassion in that moment to heal and rebuild." - Mary Tess Links and Resources: Mary Tess RooneyEmailHeart Value Facebook | LinkedIn | Twitter | Instagram
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    19 min
  • EP288: Adaptive Resilience: Finding Strength in the Setback
    Apr 2 2026
    Getting knocked off your feet has a way of bringing everything into focus. Whether it's a physical setback or something deeper on an emotional level, those moments where you feel depleted can leave you wondering how long it's going to take to feel like yourself again. I was recently in that place, recovering from a stomach virus that completely drained my energy, and it got me thinking about what it really means to rebuild not just physically, but in all areas of life. As I started to feel better, I couldn't help but notice how the body naturally adapts, creating strength and protection behind the scenes. It made me realize that we have that same ability in our emotional and energetic lives, too. We've all been through hard things before, and somewhere along the way, we've built the resilience to move through them again. This episode is about recognizing that process and learning how to trust that as you rebuild, you can come back even stronger. On today's Wise Walk, we slow down and explore what resilience really looks like in our own lives and how we recognize those low moments. Also, how we support ourselves through them and draw on our own history to remind ourselves that this too shall pass. When you hit those low points, where you feel depleted or stuck, what memories can you tap into that remind you you've been resilient before and that this too will pass?As you reflect on an area of your life that needs attention right now, can you recognize what's really going on and begin to reframe it into a growth moment instead of a setback?As you move through this experience, are you allowing yourself to reach out for support or permit yourself to take things off your plate?What can you let go of right now that isn't serving you so you can feel lighter and begin to rebuild from a stronger place?Where can you acknowledge the strength and skills you're gaining through this experience and remind yourself that you're stronger than this moment?How do you remind yourself that this is temporary and that you've made it through hard things before?What does resilience look like for you right now, not in theory, but in how you're actually showing up each day?Are you giving yourself enough self-compassion as you move through this, or are you expecting too much from yourself?Where might you be holding on to something that's keeping you stuck instead of allowing yourself to move forward?Who in your life truly understands what you're going through, and are you leaning into that support?What would it look like to trust that you are already rebuilding, even if it doesn't feel like it yet?How can you ground yourself in this moment so you feel a little steadier as you move through it?What is one small step you can take today that supports your healing or your progress? As we evolve, we begin to embrace this mindset of adaptive resilience. Whatever you're going through right now, know that you have it within you. You can recognize it, reframe it, reach out for help, rid yourself of what isn't serving you, and rebuild. I'd love to hear what you're navigating right now, and how you're leaning into your natural resilience. Reach out, share your story, and know that you're not alone. I look forward to next Thursday's Wise Walk. In this episode: [03:12] Our bodies are so miraculous. They have this high-functioning ability to adapt, even though we don't always know how to support it.[04:10] As we fight an illness, our bodies adapt. They create antibodies that clear infections and store memory cells to fight future infections and attacks.[05:04] Our bodies are constantly learning, growing, and adapting to our environment. Our memory cells are on autopilot, constantly supporting us in the background.[06:55] We also rebuild on an emotional level. Our emotions and energy have a natural growth mindset.[08:12] Whatever we are managing at this moment will pass. I came up with five elements that will help us restore and overcome physically and emotionally. [09:12] I'm looking forward to establishing a home base and creating nesting roots.[10:06] 1. We have to recognize when we are in that moment of not feeling our best. What are the threats? How can we reframe this? What am I supposed to learn? [11:01] 3. Reach out and ask for help. You don't have to do it alone.[12:22] 4. Rid yourself of anything that is not supporting you. [13:25] 5. Rebuild and become stronger than before. [14:05] If I get sick again, my memory cells will be able to recognize, reframe, reach out, rid, and rebuild. [15:13] One thing that has helped me when feeling ungrounded while searching for our home is to reach out to people who can support me. [17:09] I also know that I need to rid myself of influences that will make me feel worse about my situation.[18:06] This experience will help me rebuild in a stronger framework.[20:22] On an emotional and energetic level, where can we apply these five elements so that we can move through periods of transition and being ...
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    24 min
  • EP287: Storytelling as Medicine
    Mar 26 2026
    I just got back from the most beautiful weekend workshop called Celtic Medicine Storytelling, and I have to tell you, I didn't fully know what I was walking into when I signed up. What I walked away with has been sitting with me ever since. The whole purpose of the course was to honor the oral tradition of storytelling and to explore it through a Celtic lens, because the Irish, the Welsh, the English, they have always loved a good story. And honestly, who doesn't? There is something so timeless and so human about gathering together and sharing a story. What really struck me was how the instructors used folktales that we all grew up with, like the Tortoise and the Hare, or the Ugly Duckling, or Red Riding Hood as examples of how stories can actually serve as medicine for the soul. We all know these stories, maybe just vaguely, tucked somewhere in the back of our memory. But when you stop and really think about them, those morals run deep. Slow and steady wins the race. Never judge based on appearance. Stay true to yourself. These weren't just bedtime stories. They were quietly shaping the way we see the world, the way we treat others, and honestly, the way we treat ourselves. This got me thinking about the stories we carry with us, the ones that made an impression on us as kids and the ones we now have the opportunity to pass on. Whether you're a parent or a grandparent, an aunt or uncle or maybe just someone who has a young person in your life that you love and want to influence, give the gift of sharing these stories. In helping that next generation feel connected to something so much bigger than themselves. On today's Wise Walk, we're going to slow down and explore how the stories we tell can truly become medicine for our lives. When you reflect back on your childhood, what were some of the folktales or stories that really impacted you?What ones stuck with you, and what ones do you want to share with the younger generation in your life?How did those stories influence you, and how do they make an impression on you now as you reflect back?What are the ways you are continuing to honor this oral tradition of storytelling, maybe sharing stories from your own life in a folk style way so that others feel the moral is relatable and tangible?How are you using stories in your life to support you?How are you taking a folktale you heard and relating to the moral of that story, applying it in your life, or giving yourself some grace because you connect with it on some level?Where can you stop judging yourself for being different or unique, and how can you give yourself the patience and the grace and the space to become the hero in your own story?Over the next several days, can you listen to whatever stories come your way with this perspective of how you can feed the story that someone is sharing, noticing what resonates and how you relate?Can you also feed yourself with that awareness in a way that supports your own growth, your own ability to be kind to yourself, and to just be at peace with whatever surfaces?When was the last time you told a story about how you struggled, what you gained, and how you got to the other side?Whatever is going on in your life right now, how can you hone the craft of your oral storytelling and share your stories with vulnerability, carving out the essential details so your listener stays engaged?How can you speak from your heart, allow awareness to surface, and then welcome the listener to feed the story back to you?What are the stories you want to continue to share because they are so resonant that you could apply them at various phases of your life and give yourself the grace and acceptance that you deserve? Stories are medicine. That is truly the gift I took away from this experience, and I hope it feels just as resonant for you wherever you are and however your day is unfolding. I want you to know that you are medicine for me too. When you share your feedback, when you share what surfaced for you after an episode, you are feeding this story that we are all building together. I would love to hear what you took away from today and what is coming up for you in your own life. Until next Thursday, I look forward to our next Wise Walk together. In this episode: [03:48] I've always been athletic, but I haven't always been the fastest. I really connected with the story of the tortoise and the hare.[05:15] Accepting that I'm not always the fastest one has given me peace.[07:17] At the Celtic Medicine Storytelling workshop, they would tell Celtic stories and then ask us to share how we related to the stories. Feeding the story.[08:18] I love how when we hear stories during different phases of our lives, we relate on different levels. [09:00] We're constantly trying to engage with others.[11:19] I also had an opportunity to share a personal story in a folk style way. There was a moral and contrast or climax.[13:34] We were also to honor the tradition of oral story telling. The oral ...
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    25 min
  • EP286: Rooted in Patience
    Mar 19 2026
    As we approach springtime, I can already feel that anticipation and anxiety. This idea of okay, let's get ready to rush, let's get ready to move fast. This wanting, this desire to move out of the waiting place. Because winter kind of feels like a waiting place. This season of calmness, this season of slowing down. And then we hit spring and everything just moves a little bit faster. I have a dear friend who is waiting for his house to sell. He has done everything right, including pricing it well and doing his homework; now he just has to trust that the right buyer will come at the right time. On the flip side, I am actively looking for a home, and I keep finding properties that are close but not quite right. As much as I want to just pull the trigger and move on, I keep coming back to this truth: when I have rushed things in the past, when I have been more impulsive, that is when I tend to make mistakes. That is when the unintended consequences show up. On today's Wise Walk, we're going to slow down, check our reality, and explore how to truly embrace the power of waiting and what it can open up for us when we do. As you move into this new season, are you feeling rushed or are you managing your expectations with patience?Are you planting seeds in your life and then wanting them to bloom immediately?Are you appreciating the power of waiting and what it can open up for you?Where in your life are you feeling impatient right now?Is there something you are excited about but find yourself wanting to rush?When a big decision is in front of you, are you giving yourself enough time to truly sleep on it?Are you spending energy trying to control things that are simply not yours to control?What areas of your life are calling for your attention while you wait?What strategies are you using to remind yourself to trust the process?How are you shifting away from the pull of instant gratification and giving yourself space to sleep on it?Are you able to release the outcome once you have done everything you can?How are you looking to nature for inspiration to stay grounded when the impulse to rush starts to creep in? I would love to hear what you took away from today's episode and how you are applying patience in your life. The self-awareness you bring to your own journey inspires me and helps us all move through the seasons, whatever season we are in, with a little more grace. Drop me a note and let me know what strategies are working for you, because I am always learning too. I look forward to joining you on next Thursday's Wise Walk, so be sure to tune in. Until then, prioritize fun as you read the signs, direct your path, and get your Stride On. In this episode: [02:47] A dear friend of mine listed his house on the market. The waiting is a painful process. He knows his best plan is to wait patiently. [04:57] I'm trying to find a home. I want at least two acres and no HOA (Home Owners Association). [06:06] I want the flexibility and freedom to change my situation if needed. [07:16] I found an amazing property, but there was an HOA. There's a three-day rule for big decisions. We often get impatient.[08:24] Strategies for waiting include acknowledging the feeling, sleeping on it, creating space, and seeing if the sense of urgency is still as strong. [09:30] It's okay, the right property will come up when it's meant to be.[10:07] FOMO can create mistakes and regrets. We live in abundance and can always find another deal.[12:49] Another strategy I'm using is shifting my focus to another part of my life.[13:13] I need to put my energy in areas of my life that I can control.[14:01] Last year, my word of the year was co-create. This year, I chose the word bloom. I'm looking for inspiration from nature, and nature will bloom in its own due time. [15:24] A cool thing about this strategy is that other areas of my life are getting the attention they need.[16:01] When we release the impatience that we're feeling, we create space to put our energy into other areas that matter.[16:32] My friend has put everything in place to attract the right buyer. Now he is releasing it and going to Paris while it sells.[17:04] I hope you're employing strategies to manage the impatience and waiting. Memorable Quotes: "The right opportunities will unfold at the perfect time, just as springtime arrives at the perfect time." - Mary Tess"When we release the impatience we are feeling, we create space to put our energy on the things that matter." - Mary Tess"We live in abundance. That will never be the last good deal, the last great view, the last right opportunity." - Mary Tess"Waiting is not wasted time. It is a skill, and when you master it, it gives you a gift you cannot always explain." - Mary Tess Links and Resources: Mary Tess RooneyEmailHeart Value Facebook | LinkedIn | Twitter | Instagram
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