Everything you thought you knew about intimacy? Michaela Boehm is here to challenge it.

Michaela Boehm is a renowned intimacy expert and celebrity relationship coach whose unconventional approach flips traditional relationship advice on its head.

In this episode, we reveal:

• Why date nights can backfire on your romantic connection.
• How casual touch may be dulling your sexual chemistry over time.
• Why fading attraction can actually be a sign of relationship growth.
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If you’re looking for practical intimacy tips and a fresh perspective on love, sex, and relationships, this is a must-listen.

Xxoo Darcy

REFERENCES

Mindful Care

The Wild Woman's Way: Reconnect to Your Body's Wisdom (A Woman's Guide to Spiritual Growth)

*We could not locate the study on oysters mentioned in the episode.

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Gaslighting is often framed as a one-way act or behavior—someone manipulates, and the other is manipulated. But in reality, gaslighting is a relational dynamic. Its "success" hinges not only on the manipulator’s actions but also on the recipient's openness to self-doubt and questioning their own perceptions.

Certain traits make people more vulnerable to gaslighting. These qualities often lead the person to trust the gaslighter's version of reality over their own. Gaslighters often choose partners who value harmony and trust over conflict, knowing their partner might be more willing to question themselves rather than the person they love.

The term gaslighting has been around for decades. But it’s only been used in the psychological sense since 2007, and it was coined by today’s guest.

Dr. Robin Stern, the author of The Gaslight Effect and co-founder of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence, has spent years studying this insidious phenomenon. She explores how it manifests in relationships and, more importantly, how we can break free from its grip.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why gaslighting is one of the most powerful tools of control.
• The surprising positive traits that make people more susceptible to gaslighting.
• How to spot the early, subtle signs of gaslighting.

AND… the most common ways people misuse the term—and why it matters.

Xxoo Darcy

REFERENCES

Mindful Care

The Gaslight Effect: How to Spot and Survive the Hidden Manipulation Others Use to Control Your Life

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It’s January, and everyone’s still buzzing about their New Year’s resolutions—promises to hit the gym, eat healthier, or finally start dating with intention. But the reality is, by mid-February, nearly 80% of those resolutions are abandoned. Why?

Because willpower alone can’t outmuscle unresolved emotional wounds. The patterns you can’t seem to break—the procrastination, the self-sabotage, the over-committing—they’re often rooted in emotional triggers tied to unhealed pain. And until you address those triggers, goal-setting can feel like pushing a boulder uphill.

Today, we’re diving into the emotional baggage that holds us back from creating meaningful change. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a cycle of failed resolutions or wondered why you can’t seem to follow through on your goals, this episode is for you.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why willpower and motivation don’t work when it comes to reaching a goal.
• How struggles like procrastination or self-sabotage reveal three types of unresolved emotional wounds.
• What to do if your tribe isn’t giving you the kind of support you need to achieve your goals.

Xxoo Darcy

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Normally, I ask the questions, but this time, it’s your turn.

To be honest, I’ve avoided doing an Ask Me Anything episode because I feel like I talk about myself too much. But my team voted and I was outnumbered.

So, here we are—your questions, unfiltered, and my honest answers. From relationship advice to podcast behind-the-scenes, no topic was off-limits.

And I’ve recruited someone very special to join me for this episode—my wife, couples therapist, Steph Sterling.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• The podcast guest who had the biggest impact on me (and why).
• What I do to keep my mental health in check.
• The relationship trend I hope to see more of in 2025.

If you’ve ever wondered what it’s like to be a therapist who's married to a therapist, tune in — you get 2 for the price of 1 today!

Xxoo Darcy

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Talking about sex is one of the hardest conversations to have. It’s clumsy, it’s awkward, and for some, it’s completely off-limits.

Research shows that only 2 out of 3 long-term partners know what their partner enjoys sexually, and just 1 in 4 knows what their partner dislikes.

Why is it so hard to talk about something so fundamental to intimacy? And how could our relationships transform if we learned to communicate about sex with honesty and confidence?

To answer these questions, I’ve invited Shannon Boodram—better known as Shan Boody. She’s a trailblazing author, certified sex educator, and one of the most insightful voices on intimacy and communication.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• The real reason many women fake orgasms—and how to stop faking it.
• Why sexual incompatibility can be a surprising turn-on.
• The importance of discussing your sexual appetite early on in the dating process.
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If you’re ready to transform your sex life with open, honest conversations, this episode is for you.

Xxoo

Darcy

REFERENCES

Mindful Care

https://europepmc.org/article/MED/34968095?utm_source=chatgpt.com

https://www.statista.com/topics/1209/sexuality/

“Want” Sexual Fantasies by Anonymous

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Anxiety is the most prevalent mental health condition in the United States, affecting 1 in 3 of us at some point in our life. For many, it’s an all-consuming cycle of worry and fear that can upend careers, relationships, and the ability to perform basic daily tasks.

But what if anxiety isn’t an inevitable part of modern life?

I sat down with Dr. Jud Brewer, a psychiatrist and neuroscientist whose groundbreaking work sheds light on how anxiety forms and how to break free. Drawing from his New York Times bestselling book, and his evidence-based tools, Dr. Jud explains how our brain’s habit loops fuel anxiety and how we can reclaim control.

If anxiety has ever held you back—or if you know someone who struggles with it—this should be mandatory listening.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• How our habits create and sustain anxiety cycles.
• Why trying to control anxiety can backfire—and what to do instead.
• What cutting-edge research reveals about psychedelics and anxiety treatment.

If you listen to 1 podcast this month, THIS IS IT.

Xxoo Darcy

REFERENCES

Mindful Care

Unwinding Anxiety: New Science Shows How to Break the Cycles of Worry and Fear to Heal Your Mind

Unwinding Anxiety App on App Store

DrJud.com

Prevalence of Anxiety Among Adults

Anxiety & Depression Association of America

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Choosing when to share your past—and deciding how much to share—is one of the trickiest balancing acts in relationships. Whether it’s with a romantic partner, a friend, or even a colleague, the decision to open up can feel overwhelming.

In today’s episode, we’re diving into the delicate art of disclosure—learning when and how to share your personal stories so they don’t become burdensome secrets.

We discuss:

• The right timing to share mental health diagnoses, physical illnesses, financial struggles, legal troubles, family secrets, or personal mistakes.
• How to balance family loyalty with honesty when revealing family secrets.
• Tips for discussing sensitive topics like politics, religious differences, or biases with new people.
• How to present your mistakes as opportunities for growth and accountability.

PLUS, I uncover the #1 mistake people make when they’re on the receiving end of someone else’s vulnerable story—and how to avoid it.

Tune in to learn how to navigate these tough conversations with confidence, compassion, and authenticity.

Xxoo Darcy

REFERENCES

Mindful Care

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