Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents
How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents
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Marguerite Gavin
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Lindsay C. Gibson PsyD
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In this breakthrough book, clinical psychologist Lindsay Gibson exposes the destructive nature of parents who are emotionally immature or unavailable. You will see how these parents create a sense of neglect and discover ways to heal from the pain and confusion caused by your childhood. By freeing yourself from your parents' emotional immaturity, you can recover your true nature, control how you react to them, and avoid disappointment. Finally, you'll learn how to create positive new relationships so you can build a better life.
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- Olga
- 2021-06-28
Highly reccomend
I would suggesr it to everyone, covers topic of emotional maturity wery well, not only parent-child relationships, bit any type of relationships .
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- Amazon Customer
- 2022-01-15
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I found this book helpful, the voice for it is soft and easy to listen too ass well.
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- Mikayla
- 2022-06-03
I finally feel heard
This was the most helpful book I’ve ever read. Thank you Lindsay Gibson, I needed this.
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- Anonymous User
- 2023-03-30
felt seen and heard
Having come from an immigrant family emotional wellbeing was never a priority. This book articulated the emotional landscape as well as provided tools to navigate healing.
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- Edith Kindrachuk
- 2023-04-24
Most helpful book I have read!
Thank you, you helped me finally understand the patterns in my family (including myself)! Clear and logical
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- HMH
- 2024-03-26
Honestly life-changing insight and advice
I wish this was required reading for every adult child of emotionally immature parents! Clear, insightful, and healing.
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- Justin Springer
- 2020-06-04
Life changing
This was wonderful and it was a necessity that came to me when I needed it the most.
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- Swanone
- 2021-11-07
excellent resource!
excellent resource on teaching one how to gain better awareness over our relationship choices. I feel enlightened and better prepared to move forward into a supportive and loving relationship
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- Kindle Customer
- 2022-05-08
validating!!!
I didn't realize how much I needed to hear this. It's so validating. I'm grateful for stumbling on this rec on TT.
Accessible language, and littered with helpful citations of additional supports. I'm healing, and this audiobook has reassured me that the steps I'm taking is movement in the right direction.
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- Alex
- 2022-06-16
Helped Me Process What I Knew Inside
this book really helped me process living with emotionally immature parents. it wasn't negative or judgmental towards the immature at all. it was realistic. I feel that those reviews saying it was such, are from people who feel guilty of their anger towards being raised in a neglectful or abusive household. this book was well worth the money.
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