Supercommunicators
How to Unlock the Secret Language of Connection
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Charles Duhigg
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Charles Duhigg
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NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • From the bestselling author of The Power of Habit, a fascinating exploration of what makes conversations work—and how we can all learn to be supercommunicators at work and in life
“A winning combination of stories, studies, and guidance that might well transform the worst communicators you know into some of the best.”—Adam Grant, author of Think Again and Hidden Potential
ONE OF NPR’S BEST BOOKS OF THE YEAR • FINALIST FOR THE SABEW BEST IN BUSINESS BOOK AWARD
Come inside a jury room as one juror leads a starkly divided room to consensus. Join a young CIA officer as he recruits a reluctant foreign agent. And sit with an accomplished surgeon as he tries, and fails, to convince yet another cancer patient to opt for the less risky course of treatment. In Supercommunicators, Charles Duhigg blends deep research and his trademark storytelling skills to show how we can all learn to identify and leverage the hidden layers that lurk beneath every conversation.
Communication is a superpower and the best communicators understand that whenever we speak, we’re actually participating in one of three conversations: practical (What’s this really about?), emotional (How do we feel?), and social (Who are we?). If you don’t know what kind of conversation you’re having, you’re unlikely to connect.
Supercommunicators know the importance of recognizing—and then matching—each kind of conversation, and how to hear the complex emotions, subtle negotiations, and deeply held beliefs that color so much of what we say and how we listen. Our experiences, our values, our emotional lives—and how we see ourselves, and others—shape every discussion, from who will pick up the kids to how we want to be treated at work. In this book, you will learn why some people are able to make themselves heard, and to hear others, so clearly.
With his storytelling that takes us from the writers’ room of The Big Bang Theory to the couches of leading marriage counselors, Duhigg shows listeners how to recognize these three conversations—and teaches us the tips and skills we need to navigate them more successfully.
In the end, he delivers a simple but powerful lesson: With the right tools, we can connect with anyone.
©2024 Charles Duhigg (P)2024 Random House AudioYou may also enjoy...
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What the critics say
“This is not just a riveting read about how to understand others better. It’s also a revealing look at how to be understood. Charles Duhigg delivers a winning combination of stories, studies, and guidance that might well transform the worst communicators you know into some of the best.”—Adam Grant, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Think Again and Hidden Potential, and host of the podcast Re:Thinking
“Our personal and professional success depend upon our ability to understand and be understood, and yet we typically leave this up to intuition. In Supercommunicators, Charles Duhigg goes through a mountain of research—and some riveting stories—and unearths practical tactics to show that anyone can become a more effective listener, speaker, and even social media poster.”—David Epstein, bestselling author of Range and The Sports Gene
“This book stayed with me. I found myself thinking about how many questions I ask and how often I laugh in conversation. Given how much talking we all do, it’s amazing how little we understand. A much-needed guide to connecting in disconnected times.”—Amanda Ripley, author of High Conflict
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- Amazon Customer
- 2024-04-03
Actionable advice!
Heard about this book from armchair expert and I was not disappointed. I honestly wish it was longer. I flew through it, I'll have to just re-listen to it because there's so much information in it but it's all extremely actionable and things I will definitely take into my personal life. really great read and just overall very interesting.
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- But First Jesus, Then Coffee
- 2024-04-21
Wisdom led me here. S
She never steers me wrong 👏. I enjoyed it so much I listened to each chapter at least twice. I was quite taken when I realised the end of book is here. Thank you. It was well written with just absolute perfect blend of logic and emotion. Each story and study will forever be applied on my journey. Thank you.
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- Amazon Customer
- 2024-04-13
Learning to listen
Next month I will moderate a panel discussion at a conference. I’ve never done it before so I read this to help prepare. The information in this book has helped me feel more prepared. The narration improved as it went. Early on, the narrator intentionally stutters a lot, and his voice changes volume a lot. Towards the end the stuttering nearly disappeared
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- Amazon Customer
- 2024-08-12
If you live with people, this book's for you!
The author gives relatable examples that make you want to be a better communicator for the good of everyone. He gives concrete strategies that can be used throughout all walks of life. I will have to read it again and again. I'd highly recommend this book.
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- Harlen
- 2024-04-01
Should be a requirement to read!
I read multitudes of communication book as they offer a lot of opportunities to build an immediatly usable skill, and this is no exception. This book helps you get to the root of meaningful communication and how you can become the kind of person who builds strong relationships and actually gets to know who people really are.
Highly recommended!
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- miles clyne
- 2024-10-05
High Quality Information
Few wasted words. Excellent coverage, education, thoughtful relevant real world examples and flow. One of the best books I've read or listened to regarding human connection and communication. I'll re listen to the book as there is so much practical real world lessons to help me be better.
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- Sam
- 2024-06-12
Good info, but the covid/vax section didn't age well.
Good communication tools to learn and understand, but the section on Vaccine hesitancy and Covid was a train wreck of ignorance... and already hasn't aged well. It's too bad that really bright people were conned into not doing their own due diligence.
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- VLafrance
- 2024-06-02
Really interesting and rich!
I first heard about Mr. Duhigg on Jim Kwik's podcast and chose to buy this book. On the whole, I found it instructive and useful. I devoured it and am sure I will keep several skills in mind in future conversations. As a therapist myself, this book put words on skills I use instinctually and went deeper in the theory, which I find fascinating. But lastly, I must mention that I was rather put out by a whole section on "antivaxers" and on what I felt was promotion of DEI. On those topics, the author was, in my opinion, not neutrally exploring the value of both sides of these socially charged debates but clearly on one side. Still, it is a sign of the book's quality that I kept reading despite this. A worthwhile read!
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- DD
- 2024-10-12
Overall quite disappointing
I feel like there is a good book here, but it’s ruined by all of the liberal dogma, catechisms and fairy tales. I don’t think it will age well.
Lots of stories about people but most of them feel thin and probably made up. Great topic but it needs a more sincere approach.
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- Amazon Customer
- 2024-11-27
Very repetitive!
It felt like this book could have been a 25 page paper instead. The facts were interesting but they were repeated over and over.
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