The Gaslighting Effect
A Revealing Look at Psychological Manipulation and Narcissistic Abuse
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Reva Steenbergen
About this listen
The Gaslighting Effect is a book that delivers a powerful, yet easy-to-understand, compact read covering the whole scope of narcissistic abuse, as told from a survivor's perspective.
Reva Steenbergen accomplishes this by combining her own personal experiences with thousands of other survivors, as well as psychiatrists, psychologists, scientists, professors, relationship experts, therapists, and so many more to validate a person's experience with any narcissist.
"Everything should be made as simple as possible, but not simpler." (Albert Einstein)
In short, narcissists are able to silence their victim and get away with the abuse by becoming the victim of those they victimize. The Gaslighting Effect reveals how they do it and why.
Knowledge is power and this book delivers.
The little book with big content.
@RevaSteenbergen
©2018 Reva Steenbergen (P)2020 Reva SteenbergenYou may also enjoy...
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- Graham
- 2023-01-28
Amazing
This book highlighted what I went through with my ex gf. It was a chilling account but an excellent way to see precisely what happened. It has allowed me not to see that they never loved me. I was just being used. I see everything clearlyrer but still love her. Though I will never go back. Thank you for helping me heal.
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