The Highly Sensitive Person’s Guide to Dealing with Toxic People
How to Reclaim Your Power from Narcissists and Other Manipulators
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Laural Merlington
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Shahida Arabi MA
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If you're a highly sensitive person, or identify as an "empath", you may feel easily overwhelmed by the world around you, suffer from "people-pleasing", experience extreme anxiety or stress in times of conflict, or even take on the emotions of others. Due to your naturally giving nature, you may also be a target for narcissists and self-centered individuals who seek to exploit others for their own gain. So, how can you protect yourself?
In The Highly Sensitive Person's Guide to Dealing with Toxic People, you'll learn evidence-based skills grounded in cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) and dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) to help you recognize and shut down the common manipulation tactics used by toxic people, such as gaslighting, stonewalling, projection, covert put-downs, and love bombing. You'll also discover targeted tips to protect yourself from the five main types of toxic people: garden-variety boundary-steppers; crazymakers and attention-seekers; emotional vampires; narcissists; and sociopaths and psychopaths.
Finally, you'll learn how to heal from toxic or narcissistic abuse, and find strategies for establishing healthy boundaries and a strong sense of self. If you're an HSP who is ready to take a stand against the toxic people in your life, this book has everything you need to survive and thrive.
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- Amazon Customer
- 2025-01-10
Ah ha moment for sure!
The content is great. Helped me to better understand why I am so sensitive and why I’ve had mental health struggles from dealing with narcissistic parents and why I likely attracted bullies and other narcissistic relationships throughout my life. The narration is awful though. Sounds like a screen reader and very robotic. Should have a softer, more empathetic voice. If the content wasn’t so good I would have turned this off right away.
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- Anonymous User
- 2021-10-25
A sanity check
This book helped me realize I wasn't crazy and that my intuition was on point. It helped explain life growing up. I will be listening to this more than once.
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- N. J. Groundwater
- 2024-04-26
Highly Informative and helpful.
Excellent book for anyone dealing with problematic relationships.
Narrator is not very good. Sounds like her jaw is wired shut and her dentures are loose. May just be the quality of the audio. If I hadn't found the content as interesting as I did, I wouldn't have listened for more than 2 minutes.
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- Makeda
- 2023-05-25
Amazing
This book has definitely helped me handle my divorce. I am so happy and satisfied. Lots of tools and tips. Please read!
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