If you’ve ever felt like no matter how much self-work you do, you still end up in the same patterns—this episode is for you.

Ellie and Aimee are back in the studio, fresh from their Sacred Union weekend, reflecting on one of the biggest revelations of their work: awareness alone is not enough. You can read all the books, listen to all the podcasts, and even go to therapy—but without the right community, deep transformation remains just out of reach.
In this conversation, they share their personal journeys of healing within sisterhood, why we were never meant to do this alone, and how community is the missing piece in feminine embodiment.

They also extend an invitation into Feminine Reclamation, their signature mentorship program, designed to take this work beyond awareness and into embodied transformation. If you’re feeling called into deeper support, real sisterhood, and a space where you don’t have to hold it all alone—this is your invitation.

Key Themes & Highlights:

• Why Awareness Isn’t Enough – The truth about why self-awareness alone won’t break your patterns or create lasting change.
• The Cost of Isolation – Why so many women struggle with intimacy, trust, and feminine embodiment when they try to “figure it out” alone.
• How Sisterhood Heals – The profound impact of being seen, witnessed, and held by women who won’t let you shrink.
• Ellie’s Personal Reckoning – A raw, behind-the-scenes look at how she confronted her own resistance to support and what finally shifted everything.
• Releasing the Teacher-Student Dynamic – The radical shift in their leadership model and why they refuse to be put on a pedestal.
• The Invitation Into Feminine Reclamation – What it looks like to walk this path in an intimate, high-level mentorship space where transformation isn’t just possible—it’s inevitable.

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This is your moment to say yes to deeper support, to being truly seen, and to reclaiming your feminine power within a sisterhood that won’t let you forget who you are.

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