If you’ve ever felt like no matter how much self-work you do, you still end up in the same patterns—this episode is for you.

Ellie and Aimee are back in the studio, fresh from their Sacred Union weekend, reflecting on one of the biggest revelations of their work: awareness alone is not enough. You can read all the books, listen to all the podcasts, and even go to therapy—but without the right community, deep transformation remains just out of reach.
In this conversation, they share their personal journeys of healing within sisterhood, why we were never meant to do this alone, and how community is the missing piece in feminine embodiment.

They also extend an invitation into Feminine Reclamation, their signature mentorship program, designed to take this work beyond awareness and into embodied transformation. If you’re feeling called into deeper support, real sisterhood, and a space where you don’t have to hold it all alone—this is your invitation.

Key Themes & Highlights:

• Why Awareness Isn’t Enough – The truth about why self-awareness alone won’t break your patterns or create lasting change.
• The Cost of Isolation – Why so many women struggle with intimacy, trust, and feminine embodiment when they try to “figure it out” alone.
• How Sisterhood Heals – The profound impact of being seen, witnessed, and held by women who won’t let you shrink.
• Ellie’s Personal Reckoning – A raw, behind-the-scenes look at how she confronted her own resistance to support and what finally shifted everything.
• Releasing the Teacher-Student Dynamic – The radical shift in their leadership model and why they refuse to be put on a pedestal.
• The Invitation Into Feminine Reclamation – What it looks like to walk this path in an intimate, high-level mentorship space where transformation isn’t just possible—it’s inevitable.

Listen now and step into the conversation.

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This is your moment to say yes to deeper support, to being truly seen, and to reclaiming your feminine power within a sisterhood that won’t let you forget who you are.

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What does it really mean to embody the Queen?

In this episode, we’re diving into the Queen archetype—not as a title you achieve, but as a way of being. We explore the shift from immature feminine psychology to mature feminine embodiment, and why so many women unknowingly stay stuck in patterns of control, resentment, and unmet desires.

If you’ve ever found yourself trying to fix, manage, or lead a man, or wondering why relationships feel exhausting rather than deeply nourishing—this conversation is for you.

In This Episode, We Explore:

• Why being the Queen isn’t about perfection—but about showing up fully in your power
• How to shift from control, chasing, and overgiving to trust, magnetism, and deep receiving
• The key patterns keeping women stuck in their immature feminine psychology
• The role of community and sisterhood in feminine transformation (why you can’t do this alone)
• What it means to be great with men—and how this changes everything in love & relationships

This episode is an invitation to step into your Queen energy and explore what it means to be a fully embodied, sovereign woman.

Join Us for Embodying the Queen (Free Virtual Workshop!)

If this conversation speaks to you, join us for our free, live workshop, Embodying the Queen.

📍 Tuesday, February 11th, 6:30-8PM CST on Zoom
💫 Can’t make it live? RSVP to receive the replay.

This is your space to step into the Queen energy you were made for.

Save your spot here: 👉 www.embodyingthequeen.com

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Join us in this intimate conversation with Audrey and Hunter as they share their transformative love story, sparked by the practices and community of Desire on Fire. From Hunter’s experience in “The Forge" men’s session to the life-changing blindfold exercise at our February, 2024 retreat, this episode explores the power of truth-telling, the challenges of authentic connection, and the profound growth that comes from sacred union.

Whether you're seeking love, deeper intimacy, or personal evolution, this episode will inspire you to embrace the courage it takes to transform for deeper love. Plus, discover the magic of the upcoming "Sacred Union" immersion (January 17-19, 2025) and how it can unlock new possibilities for your relationships.

Highlights:

• How transformational work fosters authentic relationships.
• The powerful exercise that brought Audrey and Hunter together.
• Navigating roles, triggers, and growth in a conscious partnership.
• A deep dive into the archetypes of the "King" and "Queen" in modern relationships.
• Gratitude for the Desire on Fire community and its impact.

Our Invitation:

Ready to dive into your own transformative journey? Join us at the "Sacred Union" immersion this January 17-19, 2025. Sign up today and explore the power of truth-telling, polarity, and connection.

Links Mentioned:

• Register for Sacred Union: https://www.sacredunion.live
• Follow us on Instagram for updates: Desire on Fire 🔥

Join us for our FIRST-EVER 3-day immersion for both women AND men: Sacred Union

January 17-19, 2025 in Austin, TX. First 40 tickets sold at super early bird price!

Claim yours here: www.SacredUnion.Live

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