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In this episode, we sit down with Vic LaGina, a former producer and director in the adult entertainment industry who has transitioned to becoming an author. Vic recounts his 20-year career, the challenges he faced, and the path that led him to write his novel, 'Filthy: The Rise and Pending Death of Vic LaGina.' We delve into his experiences, from the surreal beginning of his career in Los Angeles to the ethical dilemmas and dark realities of the porn industry. Vic shares candid insights on consent, the impact of COVID-19 on the industry, and his personal journey through addiction and recovery. Tune in for a raw and unfiltered conversation that explores the complexities and transformations of a life in porn.

00:00 Introduction to Vic LaGina

00:26 Vic's Journey into the Adult Entertainment Industry

02:21 The Move to LA and Personal Struggles

05:31 First Steps in the Porn Industry

07:04 Building a Career in Porn

10:17 Challenges and Realities of the Porn Industry

15:26 Personal Reflections and Relationships

29:46 Struggles with Addiction

30:26 Turbulent Relationships

31:54 Cleaning Up and Moving On

33:00 Drug Use in the Porn Industry

33:31 Consent and Compliance Challenges

47:31 The Future of Porn

54:44 Ethical Porn and Final Thoughts

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Heather’s Courses- https://heather-shannon.mykajabi.com/store

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Connect with Vic LaGina:

Vic’s website with book information: https://viclagina.com/

Vic’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/viclagina/

Vic’s X: https://x.com/viclagina

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In this episode of the 'Ask a Sex Therapist' podcast, Heather Shannon discusses why your partner's lack of interest in sex might not be about you. She delves into reasons such as stress, hormonal imbalances, and emotional challenges. Heather emphasizes the importance of empathy, avoiding pressure, and building inner security. She provides actionable advice for both high and low libido partners, helping them foster better understanding and intimacy in their relationships. Tune in to learn how to communicate effectively and create a more fulfilling sex life together.

00:00 Introduction: Understanding Your Partner's Low Libido

00:39 Welcome and Setting the Scene

01:12 The Challenge of Waiting for Your Partner's Libido

02:43 Understanding Pressure and Its Impact on Libido

05:47 Exploring the Lower Libido Partner's Perspective

20:32 Strategies for the Higher Libido Partner

29:17 Conclusion and Encouragement

31:10 Closing Remarks and How to Stay Connected

WORK WITH HEATHER:

Apply for a free Intimacy Breakthrough Call to learn about Heather’s Pathway to Passion coaching method. https://heathershannon.co/new-clients/

LET’S CONNECT! FIND HEATHER HERE ⤵️:

Heather’s Website - https://HeatherShannon.co

Heather’s Instagram - https://instagram.com/AskASexTherapist

Heather’s YouTube - Check out the video version of this podcast & more! - https://www.youtube.com/@AskASexCoach

Heather’s Pathway to Passion- https://heather-shannon.mykajabi.com/pathway

Heather’s Courses- https://heather-shannon.mykajabi.com/store

Heather’s Amazon Storefront- https://www.amazon.com/shop/heathershannonlcpc

Finding Your Fire Libido Course: https://heather-shannon.mykajabi.com/offers/RLM4tXqi/checkout

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In this episode of the Ask a Sex Therapist podcast, host Heather Shannon welcomes special guest Bev Mitelman, a certified attachment practitioner and founder of Securely Loved, to discuss the intriguing topic of sex and attachment styles. They delve into how different attachment styles—secure, anxious, avoidant, and fearful-avoidant—affect individuals' relationships and sexual experiences. Bev shares insights from her personal journey, explaining how attachment theory has profoundly impacted her own healing. Listeners will learn about the emotional patterns and core wounds associated with each attachment style, and how these influence behaviors in romantic and sexual contexts. The episode also highlights the benefits of moving toward a secure attachment and offers practical advice for those looking to improve their relational and sexual well-being.

00:00 Introduction to Healing in Relationships

00:18 Welcome to Ask a Sex Therapist

00:47 Special Guest: Bev Mitelman

01:04 Bev's Background and Journey

02:41 Understanding Attachment Styles

04:25 Personal Attachment Journey

06:00 Healing and Awareness

14:12 Defining Attachment Styles

15:09 Secure vs. Insecure Attachment

18:02 Anxious Attachment Explained

25:51 Avoidant Attachment Explained

32:30 Understanding the Shame Wound

33:12 Core Wound of Feeling Unsafe

34:13 Anxious and Avoidant Attachment Dynamics

37:56 Fearful Avoidant Attachment Explained

41:25 Attachment Styles and Sexual Behavior

49:38 Impact of Attachment on Orgasms

51:31 Avoidant Attachment and Sex

55:58 Fearful Avoidant Sexual Patterns

01:00:11 Resources and Final Thoughts

WORK WITH HEATHER:

Apply for a free Intimacy Breakthrough Call to learn about Heather’s Pathway to Passion coaching method. https://heathershannon.co/new-clients/

LET’S CONNECT! FIND HEATHER HERE ⤵️:

Heather’s Website - https://HeatherShannon.co

Heather’s Instagram - https://instagram.com/AskASexTherapist

Heather’s YouTube - Check out the video version of this podcast & more! - https://www.youtube.com/@AskASexCoach

Heather’s Pathway to Passion- https://heather-shannon.mykajabi.com/pathway

Heather’s Courses- https://heather-shannon.mykajabi.com/store

Heather’s Amazon Storefront- https://www.amazon.com/shop/heathershannonlcpc

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