• 153 | a new era of pediatric care with Dr. Mona Amin @pedsdoctalk
    Feb 5 2025

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    In this episode, Dr. Tay, a licensed child psychologist and parental coach, speaks with Dr. Mona Amin, a board-certified pediatrician known for her social media presence as PedsDocTalk. They discuss critical aspects of navigating the journey of raising an autistic child, including effective strategies for interacting with pediatricians, advocating for necessary accommodations, and understanding the nuances of autism diagnosis. Dr. Mona shares insights on the importance of continual learning for clinicians and collaboration between professionals and parents. The conversation also addresses handling common challenges such as anxiety, behavioral issues, and medical fears in autistic children. This episode is a valuable resource for parents and professionals alike, providing practical tips and underscoring the significance of empathy and communication in pediatric care.

    00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction

    00:31 Meet Dr. Mona Amin

    02:50 Dr. Mona's Online Education Journey

    05:32 Navigating Autism Diagnosis

    07:44 State Differences in Autism Diagnosis

    10:58 Screening Tools and Challenges

    15:11 Parental Advocacy and Pediatrician Collaboration

    19:27 Collaborations and Resources

    25:38 Accommodations for Autistic Patients

    26:28 Understanding Accommodations for Autistic Children

    26:57 Creating a Low-Stim Environment

    27:50 Effective Communication with Autistic Children

    28:28 Handling Medical Procedures with Care

    31:47 Addressing Anxiety and Medical Fears

    32:18 Role-Playing and Preparation at Home

    33:04 Strategies for Reducing Stress in Medical Settings

    34:31 Training Medical Staff for Better Care

    40:08 Procedures and Special Considerations

    41:26 Addressing Sleep, Feeding, and Behavior Issues

    47:10 Final Thoughts and Resources

    RESOURCES

    ⚡️ continue learning and connecting with Dr. Mona @pedsdoctalk on Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, podcast, and her website.

    ⚡️ watch Dr. Mona and Andi Putt @mrsspeechiep's YouTube video on autism characteristics and signs here.

    ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

    ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

    ⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

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    49 mins
  • 152 | how US policy updates impact the neurodiversity movement
    Jan 29 2025

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    Dr. Tay shares a real-time update on US policy changes and their impact for autistic individuals and neurodiversity affirming supports. This episode was recorded and published on Jan 29th, 2025 and addresses topics such as DEI, Medicaid, NIH, gender recognition, ICE, and Elon Musk. This episode is not intended to be a news source but instead encourages you to stay informed and presents the implications for the neurodiversity affirming movement. If you feel passionate about neurodiversity and autistic supports, this is a must-listen.

    RESOURCES

    ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

    ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

    ⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

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    43 mins
  • 151 | school vs. clinical: autism diagnosis and eligibility differences with Briana Drimmer
    Jan 22 2025

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    In this episode, Dr. Tay is joined by school psychologist Briana Drimmer to explore the complexities of school eligibility criteria for autism. They discuss the differences between medical diagnoses and educational eligibility, the role of an IEP team, and how to advocate for your autistic child within the school system. The episode also covers the educational impact, specially designed instruction, and other common eligibility categories such as OHI and ED. Tune in to learn how to effectively navigate the school system and ensure your child receives the support they need.

    00:00 Introduction to School and Autism Eligibility

    00:36 Meet Briana Drimmer: School Psychologist

    01:34 Navigating School Systems vs. Clinical Diagnoses

    04:21 Understanding the IEP Team

    05:31 The Process of School Evaluation for Autism

    08:13 Challenges and Denials in the Evaluation Process

    14:52 Eligibility Criteria for Autism in Schools

    21:58 Differences Between DSM and IDEA Criteria

    30:58 Understanding Educational Impact Beyond Grades

    31:05 Communication and Social Challenges

    31:35 Emotional and Adaptive Skills

    31:59 Mobility and Academic Examples

    32:27 Curiosity and Broader Definitions

    32:59 Specially Designed Instruction

    35:10 Accommodations vs. Special Education

    36:27 The Role of 504 Plans

    38:21 Specialized Academic Instruction

    39:24 Behavioral and Counseling Services

    42:33 Navigating School Systems and Advocacy

    51:10 Co-Occurring Diagnoses and Eligibility

    57:32 Final Thoughts and Resources

    RESOURCES

    ⚡️ Follow Briana on Instagram @educationallypsyched

    ⚡️ Check out her resources on Teachers Pay Teachers

    ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

    ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

    ⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

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    1 hr and 2 mins
  • 150 | unlocking the world of sign language with Marissa Ramos @riseandsigntherapies
    Jan 15 2025

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    In this episode, Dr. Tay hosts Marissa Ramos, a bilingual English/ASL speech therapist, to discuss the benefits of incorporating sign language into communication strategies for autistic and hard of hearing children. They dive into the overlapping needs of these children, the surprisingly low percentage of speech therapists who are fluent in ASL, and share insights on the importance of early language exposure. Marissa also discusses her personal journey with ASL and her advocacy for its broader use in therapy. The conversation highlights the significance of multimodal communication and introduces listeners to resources for learning and integrating ASL into everyday practice.

    00:00 Introduction and Guest Overview

    03:28 Marissa's Background and Journey into ASL

    05:36 Understanding Deaf Culture and Terminology

    09:26 The Power of ASL in Early Childhood

    13:13 Neurodiversity Affirming Approaches to ASL

    17:06 Sign Language as a Form of Communication

    20:20 Spoken Language vs AAC: Efficiency and Accessibility

    21:25 Understanding the Difference: ASL vs AAC

    22:34 The Benefits of Teaching Sign Language

    25:11 Statistics on Hearing Loss in Autistic Children

    28:15 The Importance of Multimodal Communication

    33:12 Language Deprivation Syndrome

    37:19 Resources for Learning ASL

    39:10 Conclusion and Next Steps

    RESOURCES

    ⚡️ connect with Marissa on Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook

    ⚡️ check out her resources, including the free 100 word checklist here

    ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

    ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

    ⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

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    40 mins
  • 149 | the EF toolkit: supporting autistic children with navigating life in a neuroaffirming way with Iris Wong
    Jan 8 2025

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    In this episode, Dr. Tay welcomes Iris Wong, a speech-language pathologist, executive functioning coach, and late diagnosed AuDHD mother with ND children to discuss the importance of executive functions. The conversation covers the definition of executive functions, how they manifest in daily life, and particularly how they impact autistic and ADHD children. They explore practical examples and strategies to support executive functioning skills, focusing on using special interests and leveraging AI tools. This episode emphasizes the importance of understanding individual brain patterns and provides resources for continued learning.

    00:00 Introduction to Executive Functions

    00:27 Meet Iris Wong: A Journey Through Neurodivergence

    01:11 Understanding Executive Functions in Daily Life

    01:29 Welcome to A Parenting Space Designed for You

    02:48 Iris Wong's Personal and Professional Background

    04:31 The Role of Executive Functions in Family Dynamics

    06:53 Challenges and Strategies for Parents

    08:45 Defining Executive Functions

    15:45 Executive Functions and PDA Profile

    18:33 Navigating Burnout and Executive Functions

    21:46 Real-Life Examples and Practical Advice

    23:25 Flexible Schooling and Self-Care Tasks

    25:26 Understanding Body Doubling in Schools

    25:51 Navigating Self-Care with EF Challenges

    26:43 Innovative Self-Care Strategies

    27:54 Supporting Neurodivergent Adults

    28:44 Accommodations for Executive Functioning

    29:43 Demand Avoidance and Overwhelm

    30:04 Personal Stories and EF Challenges

    31:55 Special Interests and EF Skills

    42:28 The Role of AI in Supporting EF

    45:14 Resources and Final Thoughts

    RESOURCES

    ⚡️ Follow Iris on Instagram

    ⚡️ Learn about her resources >> www.eftoolkit.com

    ⚡️ Check out her book all things EF >> https://akidsco.com/products/a-kids-book-about-executive-functioning

    ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

    ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

    ⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

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    *please note: PDA is referenced in this episode. it is a theorized profile of autism and not a clinical diagnosis. however, it has been a helpful conceptualization for many parents to learn about how their child's brain is wired. our knowledge of PDA is currently unfolding and I do my best to share up-to-date, balanced information. to learn more about PDA, please listen to episode 110

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    51 mins
  • 148 | Counting Down the Top 10 Episodes in Autism and Parenting for 2024
    Dec 31 2024

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    In this final episode of 2024, Dr. Tay recaps the top 10 most downloaded podcast episodes of the year, reflecting on the amazing growth and impact of the show. The podcast, focused on autism and parenting, has garnered significant attention with an average of 1,400 downloads per week recently, and a total of over 55,000 all-time downloads. Highlighted episodes include deep dives into PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance), autism in females, low demand parenting, sensory regulation at home, and various therapeutic approaches. Dr. Tay also discusses future plans for monetization to enhance the podcast's reach and quality, including potential ads and sponsorships that align with the listeners' interests. Listeners are encouraged to provide feedback and topic suggestions for future episodes. Happy New Year and looking forward to the exciting developments in 2025!

    00:00 Welcome and Episode Recap Introduction

    00:51 Podcast Analytics and Listener Engagement

    02:32 Future Plans and Monetization

    03:58 Top Episode #1: What is PDA?

    05:18 Top Episodes #2-5: PDA and Beyond

    10:48 Top Episodes #6-10: Autism Insights and Alternatives

    19:26 Honorable Mentions and Listener Appreciation

    20:37 Closing Remarks and Future Outlook

    ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

    ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

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    23 mins
  • 147 | my epic fail and where to go from here
    Dec 19 2024

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    Dr. Tay discusses the pressures of modern life, the need for human connection, and the importance of being present. She reflects on her experiences from the past year, including her professional milestones and personal growth, emphasizing the importance of celebrating accomplishments instead of always striving for more. Dr. Tay also talks about her upcoming plans, including the highly-anticipated membership launch. As she recaps the year, Dr. Tay invites listeners to focus on their own growth and wins, and to remember that epic fails do not define them, but how they recover and move forward does.

    00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

    00:22 Personal Reflections and Social Media Insights

    02:19 The Importance of Slowing Down

    03:27 Taylor Swift and Personal Growth

    07:13 Holiday Season Reflections

    10:41 Epic Fail and Business Update

    13:33 Neuro Affirming Care and Personal Growth

    14:10 Balancing Work and Personal Life

    15:00 The Membership Journey

    17:17 Reflecting on Achievements and Failures

    23:35 Parenting and Personal Development

    24:42 Wrapping Up and Looking Forward

    ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

    ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

    ⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

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    27 mins
  • 146 | a mindset shift to presume competence in her autistic adult son with Betsy Hicks
    Dec 11 2024

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    Dr. Tay hosts Betsy Hicks (@betsyonthego) who discusses her journey parenting her 31-year-old non-speaking autistic son, Joey. The conversation delves into Betsy's experiences with autism awareness over the years, the impact of nutrition on Joey's behavior, and the significant breakthrough they experienced with Spelling to Communicate. Betsy shares the process and emotional experience of Joey moving out and gaining independence, emphasizing the importance of following one's intuition as a parent. Dr. Tay and Betsy also address the challenges and nuances of parenting within the autism community and the role of social media in providing support and spreading awareness.

    00:00 Introduction and Guest Overview

    02:23 Betsy's Journey Begins

    03:40 Discovering the Impact of Diet

    04:27 A New Chapter with John

    05:55 The Shift in Understanding Autism

    07:34 Spelling to Communicate

    09:14 Reflections and Insights

    15:25 Navigating Social Media and Advocacy

    29:27 Joey's Progress and Moving Out

    31:54 Realizing Children's Independence

    33:44 Joey's New Caregiver: Nick's Story

    35:29 The Apartment Community's Support

    42:03 Navigating Section 8 Housing

    45:39 Balancing Caregiving and Independence

    49:25 The Importance of Nutrition

    54:30 Wrapping Up and Final Thoughts

    RESOURCES

    ⚡️ Follow Betsy @betsyonthego on TikTok and Instagram and learn about her resources betsyonthego.com

    ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

    ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

    ⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

    Instagram @the.dr.tay

    TikTok @the.dr.tay

    LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

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    55 mins