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Today, I'm ditching the kid gloves to share eight brutal truths about changing your drinking habits in midlife that you need to hear.

From romanticising your wild nights out to waiting for rock bottom before taking action, I’m tackling the stories we tell ourselves that keep us stuck.

I’ll explore why your social circle might need to shift, why moderation isn't the right path for everyone, and how most online sobriety content completely misses the mark for midlife drinkers.

This episode also addresses all the elephants in the room. If you're ready for some tough love without the sugar-coating, this one's for you.

0:00 Why the Tough Love Today

2:06 Stop Romanticising Your Drinking Past

3:33 Don’t Wait For Rock Bottom

4:41 It's Not the Booze, it's Your Social Identity

7:06 Your Friend Group Will Need to Change

10:30 Moderation Might Not Be Your Path

13:28 Impatiently Patient

15:59 Sober Instagram Isn't For You

19:22 Some Alcohol-Free Drinks Suck

21:12 No More Excuses, Start Today

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What actually is a functional drink – and why are they suddenly everywhere in low, no and light?

I'm kicking off the Drinks 101 mini-sodes with a four-part mini-series exploring functional beverages – drinks designed to do more than just quench your thirst.

From coffee (the original functional drink) to the adaptogens, nootropics, and CBD-infused options flooding the low/no market, functional drinks have been around for centuries but are now experiencing a serious glow-up.

I explain how some brands are investing thousands in creating alcohol-free drinks that target your brain's GABA receptors – the same ones that light up when you drink alcohol – to replicate that one or two drink feeling without the booze.

But do they work for everyone? Does anything?

If you’re curious but cautious about functional drinks, this episode gives you the grounding you need before we dive deeper into specific ingredients in the episodes to come.

Dive deeper with: ep#45. 5 New Functional Spirits from Smiling Wolf

On Apple - https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/45-5-new-functional-spirits-from-smiling-wolf/id1701338793?i=1000676998877

On Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/episode/17IVpcbwpPUYuQtDMU6WuC?si=70bb4a1587414f61

On Overcast - https://overcast.fm/+BDZGsjXgI4

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🧮 Drinking Impact Calculator: Find your personal tipping point
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When you're changing your drinking habits in midlife, the challenge isn't just about the alcohol itself—it's about the identity you've built around it.

In today’s episode, I explore the deep-rooted connection between alcohol and how we see ourselves, from the drinks we choose to project confidence to the role booze plays in our closest relationships.

This tackles the fear that reducing alcohol intake means reducing who you are, and why that's simply not true. I discuss how to reframe identity shifts from loss to growth, recognising that different doesn't mean worse.

Whether it's the Old Fashioned that made me feel powerful and confident, or the prosecco that signalled your arrival at every party, understanding why we use alcohol to express ourselves is the first step to reclaiming choice without losing who we are.

1:20 Fear Of Losing Your Self

3:15 Alcohol & Your Persona

7:50 Change, Growth, And Evolving Identity

11:00 Reframing From Loss To Learning

14:00 4-Week Mindful Drinking Reset And Substack

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🧮 Drinking Impact Calculator: Find your personal tipping point
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Choosing low, no and light drinks to support your mindful drinking lifestyle shouldn’t feel like an exam.

And yet here we are — staring at menus, shelves and online shops trying to work out what *any* of it actually means.

So this is a quick heads-up episode to introduce *Drinks 101*

A new short-form mini-series coming to the Mindful Drinking & Moderation in Midlife podcast.

Rather than replacing our regular Wednesday mindset time together, Drinks 101 will be an extra mini-sode each week where we get practical.

Each episode will be less than 5 minutes and will focus on one specific thing you keep bumping into when you’re trying to drink differently, such as:

* What does “de-alcoholised” actually mean?

* What are functional drinks, adaptogens, and nootropics?

* Are 0.5 drinks still alcohol-free

And, of course,

* Why do alcohol-free drinks cost so much?

No judgment about when, how or why you drink. Just clear explanations so you can:

* Order without feeling awkward

* Buy without second-guessing yourself

* Choose drinks because they *taste good* — not because you feel you “should”

Think of Drinks 101 as a reference library you can dip into whenever you need it — especially if you’re new to low, no or light drinking and everything still feels unnecessarily complicated.

You’ll see these episodes clearly marked in the feed as ‘Drinks 101’.

Hit follow or subscribe so you don’t miss them.

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🧮 Drinking Impact Calculator: Find your personal tipping point
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Midlife drinking habits can feel set in stone after decades of established routines, but that doesn't mean change is impossible.

In this episode, I explore whether you're ever too old to start moderating your drinking, tackling the unique challenges we face in our 40s, 50s, and beyond.

From breaking ingrained habits to navigating peer pressure with long-established friend groups.

I share the inspiring story of Eamon, a 77-year-old Irishman who removed alcohol from his life after six decades of drinking, proving that neuroplasticity and the ability to make positive change don't disappear with age.

We look at what mindful drinking actually means (spoiler: it's not meditation before every sip), how to communicate your choices to partners and friends without needing their permission, and why the challenges we face around alcohol are fundamentally different from those of the so-called “mindful-drinking generation”.

Gen Z ain’t got nothing on us Gen Xers!

0:00 Going Live Gone Wrong
3:48 We're Not 20 Anymore
5:03 Back To Basics: What Mindful Drinking Means
8:54 Drink & Let Drink
11:42 Old Dog; New Tricks
15:10 Midlife Peer Pressure Looks Different
17:33 Telling Friends & Family
19:35 You Don't Need Permission, But You Do Need To Share Your Why
23:47 The 5pm Fix

Download the 5pm Fix - https://mindfuldrinkinginmidlife.com

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🧮 Drinking Impact Calculator: Find your personal tipping point
https://mindfuldrinkinginmidlife.com/products/drinking-impact-calculator

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Everyone bangs on about the first two Rs of mindful drinking – reduce and replace. But what about the third?

This week, I'm tackling the missing piece of the moderation puzzle that nobody talks about: remove. I'm not talking about removing alcohol entirely (unless that's your goal).

I'm talking about removing all the negative rubbish that comes with choosing to drink differently – the shame, the embarrassment, the social pressure, and that perfectionist trap that tells you one slip-up means total failure.

Because without all three Rs working together, you're trying to balance on a two-legged stool, and we all know how that ends.

0:01 The Problem With A Two-Legged Stool

1:36 The First R: Reduce

2:47 The Second R: Replace

5:18 The Third R: Remove

6:56 Ditching Shame And Embarrassment

7:57 Can't Drink Like A 20 Year Old

9:54 Social Pressure And Changing Friendships

11:48 Escaping Perfectionism And Binary Thinking

14:00 Flexible Choices On A Night Out

16:21 The Three Rs & Meaningful Change

17:05 Get More From Me On Substack

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🧮 Drinking Impact Calculator: Find your personal tipping point
https://mindfuldrinkinginmidlife.com/products/drinking-impact-calculator

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We're smack bang between Quitter's Day and Blue Monday - that dreaded mid-January slump when Dry January motivation nosedives and everything feels a bit meh.

You’re not alone. In this episode, I’m diving into the top Dry January myths that make the challenge feel harder than it needs to be—like thinking you have to be completely sober, believing one drink means you’ve failed, or assuming your social life is over.

Discover how these all-or-nothing beliefs can sabotage your motivation, and learn practical tips for bouncing back and resetting Dry January without guilt or going back to day one.

If you’re ready to challenge these Dry January myths and reclaim your motivation, this episode is for you!

0:01 Quitter’s Day And Blue Monday

2:52 Why All Or Nothing Backfires

4:29 Damp January

7:14 Reframing Slip Ups As Data

9:11 What Success Looks Like After January

10:22 Keeping Your Social Life Alive

13:23 When You Do Drink More - Reset Now, Not Next Monday

16:22 Reconnect to Your Why

18:49 Listener Milestones

Also mentioned:
ep#63: What Are Zebra Striping and Bookending (& Do They Work)?
ep#150: Dry January: The Pros, The Cons & The Sunnyside Perspective

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🧮 Drinking Impact Calculator: Find your personal tipping point
https://mindfuldrinkinginmidlife.com/products/drinking-impact-calculator

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Nick Allen, co-founder and CEO of Sunnyside, joins me to explore why traditional Dry January might be setting us up to fail—and what we can do about it.

We discuss Sunnyside's "dry-ish January" approach that prioritises sustainable habit change over perfectionism, examining why February often sees people drinking more than ever after a month of white-knuckling through abstinence.

Nick shares insights on breaking decades-long drinking patterns, the limitations of willpower, and why having a system matters more than having goals.

We also touch on emerging medical options like Naltrexone for those struggling with biochemical cravings, and how bringing awareness to your drinking triggers during January can create lasting change throughout the year.

0:00 New Year, New Listeners
4:05 Nick and the Sunnyside story
6:46 Dry January Pros
10:19 Dry January Cons
12:00 The Willpower, Habits & Perfection Challenge
19:00 You Don't Have to Start on the 1st
21:24 Taking it forward
27:47 Breaking Decades Of Habit
29:53 Medication As Another Tool
35:22 The BBQ-Q

WE CHAT ABOUT Sunnyside https://get.sunnyside.co/new3/

WE ALSO TALK ABOUT: Best Days Brewing https://bestdaybrewing.com/

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🧮 Drinking Impact Calculator: Find your personal tipping point
https://mindfuldrinkinginmidlife.com/products/drinking-impact-calculator

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🧐 Take the quiz and find out what's REALLY driving your midlife drinking habits
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