In this episode I posit that Targeting Happiness in life … is a mistake.

We need to find our way to a Calm Baseline first … in order to get to happiness.

I propose that a more useful target is to Seek Calm.

This podcast is about getting you to a Calm Baseline.

And now you know why I selected Men Seeking Calm as the title of the podcast.

Seeking Happiness has many traps which are discussed.

Calm Baseline features include ...

• Peace of mind.
• A sense of balance.
• I feel that in my life there isn’t an overwhelming threat that I can’t handle.
• I have enough mutually supportive relationships that keeps my mind in good shape and
• I feel that I am living a life of purpose.

Change and deep learning happens from Experiential Learning by interacting with me or a group of other like-minded men which is the motivation to have a membership.

I hope to see you in the membership.

You can convert this podcast as a passive listening experience, to a guy-talking-to-another-guy about men’s business.

Domestic violence for men is also described as intimate partner violence and family violence.

In this episode I discuss our first relationship skill for this podcast.

I discuss empathy to our partners, active listening and our conditioning to fix things and how this can get in the way of our relationship.

Supporting men to move from their domestic violence, otherwise known as intimate partner violence and family violence.

We identify what is going on, and provide knowledge and skills to learn how to do beautiful realtionships.

Today we discuss a coercive tactic over an intimate partner which is called the Money Tactic.