Episodes

  • " It only takes one adult to make a difference."

    " It only takes one adult to make a difference."
    Feb 1 2025
    Episode Title: "It Only Takes One Adult to Make a Difference."

    Season 3, Episode 41

    In this powerful episode of Resilient Voices & Beyond Podcast, host Michael D. Davis-Thomas welcomes Jacob Holley, a Certified Trauma-Informed Trainer, Lived Experience Leader, and passionate foster care advocate. With firsthand experience navigating 27 different placements within Arizona’s foster care system, Jacob shares his deeply personal journey of resilience, advocacy, and the impact of trauma-informed care.

    Jacob opens up about his challenging upbringing in foster care, including his struggles in group homes, being written up for crying, and the lack of support from caseworkers—until one case manager, Rebecca, changed his life. Her guidance helped Jacob excel academically and in extracurricular activities, proving that just one caring adult can make all the difference.

    Now a youth board member at Fostering Advocates Arizona and certified trauma trainer with the Arizona ACEs Consortium, Jacob works tirelessly to promote trauma-informed policies, extended foster care programs, and better resources for older foster youth. He discusses his role in shaping policy, training nonprofits, and collaborating with organizations like Free Arts of Arizona to bring systemic change.

    In this deeply insightful conversation, Michael and Jacob discuss:
    • The impact of cycling through 27 foster care placements
    • Why trauma-informed care is essential in child welfare
    • How one caseworker changed Jacob’s life and led him to advocacy
    • Misconceptions about foster care and the stigma youth face
    • Balancing personal healing while advocating for others
    • The power of community, mentorship, and giving foster youth a voice
    Jacob’s story is a testament to resilience, hope, and the power of just one caring adult to change the trajectory of a young person’s life. Whether you’re a foster care professional, advocate, or someone seeking to better understand the foster care system, this episode provides invaluable insights into the realities of foster youth and the changes needed to support them.

    Ways to Connect with Jacob Holley:
    • Instagram: @cajuncowboy99
    • Facebook: Jacob Holley
    • LinkedIn: Jacob Holley
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    1 hr and 6 mins
  • "Hurt People Hurt People”

    "Hurt People Hurt People”
    Jan 25 2025
    Episode Title: "Hurt People Hurt People"

    Season 3, Episode 40

    In this moving episode of Resilient Voices & Beyond Podcast, host Michael D. Davis-Thomas is joined by the inspiring Victoria “V” DeHart, a 24-year-old adoptee, advocate, motivational speaker, and social work student, to discuss her incredible story of resilience and healing. Born in a prison in Kaliningrad, Russia, and adopted as a baby, Victoria’s life has been marked by immense challenges, but her journey serves as a testament to the power of faith, self-love, and perseverance.

    Victoria shares her deeply personal experiences growing up in an abusive environment, including the physical, emotional, and sexual trauma she endured as a child. Feeling like a black sheep in her adoptive family, she faced self-harm, suicidal thoughts, and cycles of hurt. Despite her struggles, Victoria refused to let her past define her. Instead, she chose to reshape her life, finding hope and purpose through faith and personal growth.

    A turning point came in 2022 when Victoria attended a Jesus Night event, felt the Holy Spirit, and got baptized. This moment solidified her commitment to healing and advocacy. Today, she is an active member of the Traverse Place/REACH Board, a college student pursuing social work, and a motivational content creator on TikTok. Through her advocacy, public speaking, and mentoring, Victoria empowers others to find joy, embrace their stories, and discover that healing is possible.

    In this episode, Michael and Victoria discuss:
    • The impact of adoption and childhood trauma
    • Overcoming cycles of hurt and embracing healing
    • The role of faith and self-care in personal growth
    • The power of sharing lived experiences to inspire others
    • Finding joy and purpose in small, meaningful moments
    Victoria’s story is a powerful reminder that although hurt people may hurt others, healing is within reach for everyone. Her raw honesty, strength, and dedication to changing the world will leave you inspired and motivated to take steps toward your own healing journey.
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    1 hr and 1 min
  • "Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you respond to it"

    "Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you respond to it"
    Jan 18 2025
    >Episode Title: "Life Is 10% What Happens to You and 90% How You Respond to It"
    Season 3, Episode 39

    In this powerful episode of Resilient Voices & Beyond Podcast, host Michael D. Davis-Thomas sits down with Tristian W. Smith, MSEM, a retired Army officer, published author, and advocate for foster youth. Tristian shares his extraordinary journey of resilience, from overcoming the challenges of a tumultuous childhood in the foster care system to achieving success as a military professional, emergency management specialist, and author of the memoir Against All Odds.

    Tristian opens up about his childhood in Columbus, Georgia, where he faced the devastating loss of his mother, abuse from family members, and the instability of multiple foster homes. Despite these hardships, Tristian’s determination to succeed never wavered. His story reflects the importance of resilience, education, and mentorship in navigating life’s challenges.

    Listeners will gain insight into Tristian’s remarkable military career as a Chemical, Biological, Radiological, and Nuclear (CBRN) Defense Officer, where he served with distinction in South Korea, Germany, and Fort Hood. Tristian also discusses the transition to civilian life after a medical retirement and how he turned his focus toward advocacy and writing. His book, Against All Odds, chronicles his inspiring journey and offers hope to those facing adversity.

    Throughout the episode, Michael and Tristian explore the importance of creating support systems for foster youth, the mental health toll of overcoming trauma, and the power of sharing lived experiences. Tristian shares his strategies for building resilience, the significance of surrounding oneself with the right people, and his commitment to improving the foster care system through advocacy.

    This episode serves as a testament to the strength of the human spirit and the impact of resilience in shaping one’s future. Whether you are a foster youth, advocate, or someone seeking inspiration, Tristian’s story will empower you to take ownership of your life and face challenges with courage and determination.

    Ways to Connect with Tristian W. Smith:
    • LinkedIn
    • Instagram > undeterred_anomaly
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    52 mins
  • "Don't Let Your Past Struggles Define Your Future"

    "Don't Let Your Past Struggles Define Your Future"
    Dec 28 2024
    Episode Title: "Don't Let Your Past Struggles Define Your Future"

    Season 3, Episode 38

    In this emotionally moving episode of Resilient Voices & Beyond Podcast, host Michael D. Davis-Thomas sits down with the resilient and inspiring Tashala Webster, a foster care alumna, adoptee, advocate, and nursing student, to discuss her journey of overcoming adversity, trauma, and obstacles to create a brighter future.

    Tashala shares her powerful life story, beginning with being removed from her biological mother’s care at the age of five due to mental health challenges and navigating through 12 foster homes in Flint, Michigan, where she experienced instability and abuse. Her path to resilience included facing the challenges of being an older foster youth, enduring a chaotic adoption at 16, and eventually running away and becoming homeless at 19.

    Despite these struggles, Tashala’s story is one of triumph. With the support of Traverse Place, a youth shelter that taught her life skills and self-sufficiency, she gained independence, earning three degrees and certifications as a CNA, EKG Technician, and Phlebotomist. She is now pursuing her nursing degree at the University of Michigan and dedicating her life to mentorship and advocacy for foster youth and young people facing similar challenges.

    In this episode, Michael and Tashala dive into the importance of mentorship, community support, and finding tools to cope with trauma. Tashala shares her passion for helping others overcome obstacles through mentorship, the role of writing poetry in her healing journey, and her aspirations to make a difference in the lives of others.

    This episode is a testament to the power of resilience, self-determination, and the importance of building a supportive community. Whether you’re a foster care alum, advocate, or someone seeking inspiration to rise above your circumstances, Tashala’s story will leave you empowered and motivated to keep moving forward.


    Ways to Connect with Tashala Webster:
    • Instagram
    • Facebook
    • LinkedIn
    • Email: Tashalaw16@gmail.com
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    55 mins
  • "You Only Live Once, But If You Do It Right, Once Is Enough"

    "You Only Live Once, But If You Do It Right, Once Is Enough"
    Dec 21 2024





    Episode Title: "You Only Live Once, But If You Do It Right, Once Is Enough"

    Season 3, Episode 37

    In this inspiring episode of Resilient Voices & Beyond Podcast, host Michael D. Davis-Thomas sits down with the multifaceted Chianté Lymon-Hamilton, a trailblazer and advocate for justice and equity. As the Executive Director of the Society for History and Racial Equity (SHARE), Chianté shares her life’s journey of resilience, passion, and leadership.

    Born and raised in Detroit, Michigan, Chianté reflects on her upbringing in a single-parent household in a low-income community and how her educational experiences at Cass Tech and Western Michigan University shaped her commitment to justice. From her early days interning at the Wayne County Prosecutor’s Office to becoming a change agent and business owner, Chianté takes us through her transformative journey.

    Chianté opens up about the challenges of being a young leader, navigating imposter syndrome, and the mental toll of advocating for racial equity in today’s climate. Together, Michael and Chianté explore the importance of mentorship, fostering inclusivity, addressing systemic inequities, and prioritizing self-care as leaders.

    Listeners will gain valuable insights from Chianté’s expertise in addressing historical injustices and promoting racial equity through her work at SHARE. Learn about her innovative initiatives, like collecting oral histories, setting law enforcement standards, and building wellness programs for her team.

    This conversation is a powerful reminder that resilience, intentionality, and connection can create lasting change. Whether you’re an aspiring advocate, leader, or someone looking for inspiration, this episode offers a wealth of wisdom on living a life of purpose and impact.

    Ways to Connect with Chianté Lymon-Hamilton:
    • LinkedIn
    • Instagram
    • Facebook
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    1 hr and 8 mins
  • "Practice Makes Progress, Not Perfect"

    "Practice Makes Progress, Not Perfect"
    Dec 14 2024
    🎙️ Episode 36: Practice Makes Progress, Not Perfect
    🌟 Featuring Guest: Stephanie M.V. Popper
    🔗 Guest Professional Titles: Farm Social Worker | MSW Student | Foster Youth Advocate

    In this inspiring episode of the Resilient Voices & Beyond Podcast, Michael D. Davis-Thomas sits down with the dynamic and compassionate Stephanie M.V. Popper to explore the profound resilience required to turn life’s adversities into opportunities for growth. Stephanie shares her deeply personal journey, transitioning from a challenging childhood into becoming a powerful advocate and a future clinical social worker. Her work as the Community Program Coordinator at Allaire Community Farm highlights how unique, therapeutic environments—like those involving rescued animals—can foster healing and hope for at-risk youth, veterans with PTSD, and families battling cancer.

    Throughout their heartfelt conversation, Stephanie and Michael discuss pivotal themes, including:

    ✅ Overcoming imposter syndrome and embracing your true value
    ✅ The role of self-care and mental health in building resilience
    ✅ Breaking cycles of adversity through faith, community, and advocacy
    ✅ The therapeutic power of individualized support and positive reinforcement

    Stephanie also sheds light on her advocacy work shaping child welfare policies at both the state and federal levels, emphasizing the importance of incorporating lived experience into systemic reform. Michael reflects on his own journey, from homelessness to authoring the inspiring book "Resilient Faith", as well as his ongoing mission to uplift underserved communities. Together, they explore how progress—not perfection—fuels the path to resilience and empowerment.

    🔑 Key Highlights:

    • Stephanie’s experiences with EMDR therapy and the significance of allowing the body to process trauma
    • Michael’s practical tips on self-publishing and writing as a form of healing
    • The transformative impact of supportive communities in advocacy and personal growth
    • Actionable insights for finding small moments of peace and self-care in daily life

    🌟 Quote from the Episode: "Resilience isn’t about perfection—it’s about showing up for yourself every day and trusting the process."

    📚 Ways to Connect with Stephanie:

    👉 LinkedIn
    👉 Social Media: Facebook, Instagram @stephaniepopper

    Listen Now: Be inspired by Stephanie and Michael as they share their hard-won wisdom and actionable advice for embracing progress over perfection.
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    52 mins
  • “More stories = more connection and more connection = more healing.- Dr. Liz”

    “More stories = more connection and more connection = more healing.- Dr. Liz”
    Dec 7 2024
    🎙️ Resilient Voices & Beyond Podcast: Season 3, Episode 35

    Title: "More Stories = More Connection, and More Connection = More Healing"

    In this profound and heartfelt episode, host Michael D. Davis-Thomas dives into the transformative power of storytelling and resilience with the remarkable Dr. Liz DeBetta. Together, they explore the pivotal moments that have shaped their journeys of healing and advocacy.

    Dr. DeBetta, an adoptee and renowned author of Adult Adoptees & Writing to Heal: Migrating Toward Wholeness, shares her inspiring story of uncovering and confronting the trauma of maternal separation. Her breakthrough moment in 2015, when she began to write about her adoption experience, opened the door to profound healing and personal growth.

    The conversation delves into Dr. DeBetta's groundbreaking approach, Migrating Toward Wholeness©, a trauma-informed expressive writing process designed to help adoptees and others reconnect with their stories and find healing. She discusses the impact of her award-winning solo show, Un-M-Othered: A Story of Adoption & Patriarchy, and how it fosters connection and validation for adoptees and their loved ones.

    Michael and Dr. DeBetta emphasize the importance of community and connection in overcoming isolation and healing from trauma. Through writing, storytelling, and shared experiences, they explore how telling our stories can lead to deeper connections and lasting transformation.

    Key Topics Discussed:
    • The healing power of writing and storytelling
    • The seven parts of trauma healing within Migrating Toward Wholeness©
    • Overcoming isolation through community and connection
    • The universal application of expressive writing for healing
    • Balancing personal storytelling with helping others
    Guest Bio:

    Dr. Liz DeBetta is a writer, performer, and trauma-informed coach who has dedicated her life to helping others heal through expressive writing. She is the creator of Migrating Toward Wholeness© and the author of Adult Adoptees & Writing to Heal. Dr. DeBetta is a member of Actor's Equity, SAG-AFTRA, and serves as an Affiliate Faculty member at the University of Michigan's Institute for Research on Women and Gender.

    Connect with Dr. Liz DeBetta:

    🌐 Website: lizdebetta.com
    📘 Book: Adult Adoptees & Writing to Heal: Migrating Toward Wholeness
    📱 Facebook: @Dr.LizDeBetta
    📸 Instagram: @dr.liz.debetta
    💼 LinkedIn: Dr. Liz DeBetta

    Takeaways for Listeners:
    • The power of storytelling in fostering connection and healing
    • Practical writing prompts to explore your own story
    • Resources and community for those feeling isolated or struggling with their journey
    Join us for this empowering episode as we celebrate resilience, connection, and the journey toward wholeness.
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    1 hr and 11 mins
  • " The most dangerous phrase in the language is, 'We've always done it this way "

    " The most dangerous phrase in the language is, 'We've always done it this way "
    Nov 22 2024
    In this enlightening episode of the "Resilient Voices & Beyond" podcast, host Michael D. Davis-Thomas engages with Commissioner Rebecca Jones Gaston, the visionary leader of the Administration for Children, Youth, and Families (ACYF). Commissioner Gaston shares her compelling journey from her brief experience in foster care to spearheading significant reforms in the U.S. child welfare system. Throughout the discussion, she underscores the pivotal policies she's championed, such as the final kinship role, independent legal representation, and designated placement rules for LGBTQIA+ youth. Rebecca's strategic focus on community engagement, addressing workforce challenges, and prioritizing preventive over reactive measures illuminates her approach to systemic change. The episode delves into her advocacy for multi-system collaboration, the critical role of foster parents, and the necessity of listening to and respecting the voices of those impacted by the system. Join us for a deep dive into how Rebecca Jones Gaston is reshaping child welfare for a more inclusive and supportive future.

    Guest Bio: Rebecca Jones Gaston, Commissioner of the Administration on Children, Youth, and Families, has dedicated over 25 years to human services, focusing on child welfare reforms that encompass kinship care, legal protections for families, and rights for LGBTQIA2S+ youth in foster care. Her leadership is marked by a commitment to trauma-informed, culturally responsive practices that have positioned her as a key figure in national child welfare policy.Key Takeaways:
    • Insights into the transformative policies impacting child welfare nationally.
    • The importance of community involvement and the integration of lived experiences in policy-making.
    • Challenges and strategies in navigating federal and state policies to advocate for systemic change.
    • The role of foster parents and community organizations in creating supportive environments for children and families.
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    1 hr and 1 min