Welcome to the highly anticipated season 1 finale of Finding Love in the Chaos of Life. This episode marks the culmination of our #DaretoBeLove Journey, delving into the final topic: LIFES' PURPOSE.

LIFE'S PURPOSE is the final topic within STEP 4: HOW TO CONNECT WITH ALL OTHERS. This is the final step to healing and letting go.

In this episode, we discuss the importance of connecting to and with our SPIRIT/SELF, the part of us that only knows Love, allowing us to organically connect with Universal Wisdom/God/Source and live a life of present-moment Joy.

Jacqui and Tanagh open up about their personal journeys, sharing their recent struggles and moments of disconnection from their Spirits. They delve into the process of reconnecting, leading them back to present-moment joy.

Life's Purpose is to continuously return to LOVE, our born to nature. With practice, it becomes easier to surrender to this space of joy, peace, and Love.

However, falling off the band waggon is a natural process of life, and it can remind us of the power of this work and the gratitude we feel for being able to experience the highs and lows of life.

Thank you for joining us on the #DaretoBeLove journey. If you are interested and want to find out more about integrating this journey into your everyday life, book a coaching session with Jacqui or start your process with the Meet Your Spirit workshop at www.jacquiburnett.com.

We invite you to share your experience of this journey with us, so feel free to reach out and get in contact. We love hearing your success stories of Finding Love in the Chaos of Life!

Thank you for joining us on this journey towards finding inner peace and joy.

Wishing you a life of Love, Light and present-moment Joy.
Jacqui and Tanagh

In this episode of Finding Love in the Chaos of Life, Jacqui and Tanagh unpack the 9th topic of the #DaretoBeLove Journey: SELF-LOVE.

SELF-LOVE, a topic that’s gaining increasing popularity, is not just a vanity project. It is a profound process of accessing full connection with our individual Spirit to connect with the Spiritual essence that resides in all others, allowing us to see and feel that we are united as Universal Spirit.

SELF-LOVE is the first topic within STEP 4, the final step of the #DaretoBeLove Journey – HOW TO CONNECT WITH ALL OTHERS.

In this episode, we discuss the importance of connecting to and with our SPIRIT, our born-to nature that only knows Love, by creating a connection with our Higher Power to live a life of present-moment Joy.

When we are connected with Universal Spirit, self-love flows naturally.

This journey is about discovering and nurturing our individual Spiritual essence, a process that is unique to each of us. That is why self-awareness and self-care are so critical; with these practices firmly in place, we can connect with our individual Spiritual essence. Self-care and self-awareness practices can take many forms, from meditation to journaling, yoga, quality sleep, psychotherapy, coaching, prayer, gratitude, connecting with nature, healthy eating etc. Sometimes, that shows up in declining plans with friends, and sometimes, that shows up as prioritising making plans to see friends. Perhaps for you, that shows up as committing to going on a solo walk through the forest however many times a week, and it may mean taking as many rest days on your couch at home as you need. That's the thing about self-care and self-awareness – it varies intensely depending on your personal needs, which we can only truly access from a space of joy, despite life's chaos, when connected to our individual Spirit.

These actions and inactions help us fill up our own cup continuously, allowing us to step into the world connected to Love for Self, all others, and all things.

Here, we work with and observe our SPOKEN WORDS as our way of BEING in the world.

Jacqui and Tanagh dissect the 8th topic of the #DaretoBeLove Journey: INTRINSIC VALUE.

INTRINSIC VALUE is the second topic within STEP 3 of the #DaretoBeLove Journey – HOW TO LOVE YOURSELF. This topic is the final element of self, namely, your Soul. Here, we work on stepping out from the fear of our Shadow as we examine our behaviours and habitual reactions.

What is your intrinsic value, what does intrinsic value mean, and how is intrinsic value related to True Will?

Jacqui and Tanagh shed light on these questions while sharing their personal stories of finding LOVE in the chaos of their own lives. Intrinsic value boils down to knowing ourselves and having self-awareness and LOVE for where we are in the present moment and how we perceive the situation. Often, our perspective of a situation will differ from that of another, but this should never diminish our intrinsic value. The work is to develop the ability to see that both truths are valid and that each stem from our human limiting beliefs. When we can access unity, kindness, non-judgement, and inclusion, we are opening to LOVE, thereby accessing the courage to honour our intrinsic value and that of another.

Guest: Monika Polefka-Proulx

Jacqui interviews Author, Publisher, and Coach Monika Polefka-Proulx in this episode of Finding Love in the Chaos of Life.

Monika shares her family's personal experiences of helping their daughter, who was struggling with addictive behaviours, depression, self-harm, etc and their valuable lessons about resilience, growth, and the power of unconditional Love.

They have discovered not only how to overcome these challenges but also how to build stronger bonds. The family hopes to inspire and uplift others facing similar circumstances by sharing their story.

Jacqui and Monika unpack the process of healing that Monika and her family faced following their daughter’s return home. To reunite, all parties faced the journey of accepting what had happened, why, their individual roles, and how to build resilience and persevere through the hardships, ultimately learning to grow individually and together, reuniting them as a family.

The Polefka-Proulx family are evidence of the power of unconditional Love.

About Monika:
Monika is an author, publisher, and coach. She has experienced the pain of loss, heartbreak, and grief in her own life and is committed to providing hope and solace through her writing, coaching and publishing company. With her unique 5-Step Reach process and a blend of compassion, expertise, and unwavering determination, she has become a guiding light for those navigating the often-tumultuous journey of parenting troubled teens. Her company, Reachout Publishing, was created out of a belief that books have the power to heal, educate, entertain, and inspire. Her unique ability to connect with readers and guide authors in their writing journeys comes from a genuine belief that everyone has a story to tell. Monika is happily married to her childhood sweetheart. She is a proud mother and grandmother. Her greatest joy is her family!

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TRUE WILL is the 7th topic of the #DaretoBeLove Journey and the 1st topic of STEP 3: HOW TO LOVE YOURSELF. We will be working on stepping beyond the fear of our Shadows.

True Will is a crucial step when trying to foster and open to Being Love, especially when attempting to do this in the face or presence of another. True Will comes from the heart; it is a vulnerable yet courageous space where our individual perspective and truth can be present alongside that of another.

For example: When in an altercation with another, at what point during the discussion or sharing process do you feel the calmest? Odds are, it’s in the space after you have shared your most raw, vulnerable and authentic truth of the situation and felt seen and heard, and not when your unhealthy ego (shadow element) has tried to manipulate your truth or that of another in such a way that you feel you have won the argument. You can also achieve this by affording another this space to share, merely holding the moment in silence, and letting go of all desired responses.

This art of sharing and listening is how we open to True Will, allowing us also to be present for the situation, our perspective and that of another with Love and non-resistance.

In this episode, Jacqui and Tanagh explore the differences between True Will and Truth while sharing their own experiences with opening up to True Will. They unpack ways you move into a space of True Will, discussing tools so that you too can communicate and act in this way with others, whether they be your loved ones, family, friends or foes.

Jacqui and Tanagh dive into the 6th topic of the #DaretoBeLove Journey: TRUTH.

Truth is the 3rd and final topic of Step 2: How to ACCEPT Yourself, where we work on silencing the unhealthy ego by looking at our mind’s thoughts.

Accepting and making peace with our individual truth while acknowledging that another’s truth may be different to ours is a practice and patience that requires us to look at our thoughts, words, and behaviours objectively. We all experience life differently from any other person, thus shaping our reality and view of the world through our own unique lens. Therefore, every person’s truth differs from the next, even when we have been through the same experience. Subsequently, this can create some room for conflict.

Jacqui and Tanagh unpack the meaning of truth in terms of the #DaretoBeLove Journey and how we can cultivate truth in our lives to better accept ourselves by becoming aware of where our ego is hooking into our stories. Jacqui and Tanagh unpack how to work with our individual truth, allowing others their truth to create a more peace-filled life.

Join Jacqui and Tanagh as they unpack the 5th topic of the #DaretoBeLove Journey: ACCEPTANCE.

Acceptance is the 2nd topic in Step 2: How to ACCEPT Yourself, where we work on silencing the unhealthy ego by looking at our mind’s thoughts.

Acceptance can be hard, as being willing to accept ‘what is’ while figuring out how much control we have and surrendering to what we can’t control can be challenging. The unhealthy ego does not like the lack of control, while the healthy ego embraces surrender. By fully accepting present moment reality, despite any internal or external chaos, emotionally or physically, we have the opportunity to stop and watch the thought driving the emotion and/or the behaviour, allowing us the moment of conscious choice to bring joy to our ways of being. Hence, complete acceptance. Therefore, being truthful and real with ‘where we are at’ holds so much power for our individual peace.

Guest: Kenny Archer

We’ve all heard the saying ‘the only thing holding you back is yourself.’

Jacqui and Tanagh unpack the limiting belief behind this saying with Kenny Archer, founder of Archer Inspirations.

Kenny shares his Dare to Be Love story of unpacking and rewriting a limiting belief. From an early age, Kenny was battling to prove his worth in a traditional schooling system and with his family. When nothing seemed good enough for the people around him, Kenny formed the limiting belief that he was ‘not good enough’. This limiting belief silently followed Kenny through his career and adulting years, often holding him back from reaching his true purpose.

Kenny dives into his path of challenging and changing his limiting belief by accepting his journey, finding compassion and Love for his life experiences, and how infusing this limiting belief with Love has transformed his life, his business, and his true purpose to serve others.

About Kenny Archer:

After almost 30 years in the Corporate World, Kenny Archer founded Archer Inspirations, a Coaching Company for business owners. Whether you’re wanting to upscale your existing business or simply get your idea off the ground, Kenny and his coaching team provide guidance, feedback, accountability and inspiration at the level you need to keep you and your business on track.

By following practical steps, employing business best practices and leveraging their vast first-hand experience you can achieve what you’ve always dreamed of: a profitable, sustainable business - while still enjoying an optimal work/life balance.

Very much a lateral thinker, Kenny describes his coaching business as very different from the rest, always looking to find new ways, by rebelling.

Kenny is a loving husband and father of 3, with 2 of the most amazing grandkids.

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