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Rest, Play, Grow
- Making Sense of Preschoolers (Or Anyone Who Acts Like One)
- Narrated by: Dr. Deborah MacNamara
- Length: 8 hrs and 3 mins
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Publisher's Summary
Based on the work of one of the world’s foremost child development experts, Rest, Play, Grow offers a road map to making sense of young children, and is what every toddler, preschooler, and kindergartner wishes we understood about them.
Foreword by Gordon Neufeld, PhD
Baffling and beloved, with the capacity to go from joy to frustration in seconds, young children are some of the most misunderstood people on the planet. Parents and caregivers struggle with these little ones, who are known for their extreme behaviour, from tantrums, resistance, and aggression to separation anxiety, bedtime protests, and not listening. The key to understanding youngsters lies in realizing that their challenging behaviour is not personal, nor is it a disorder or deficit.
Based on science and the relational developmental approach of renowned psychologist and bestselling author Gordon Neufeld, Rest, Play, Grow reveals how critical it is for adults to create the relational conditions to grow young children through a unique period in their lives. This is the story of how young children develop, from their intense need for attachment and the vital importance of play to discipline that preserves growth. Engagingly written, with compassion for its subjects and rich with stories from them and their parents, Rest, Play, Grow will forever change the way you think of the preschoolers in your life.
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- Amanda B.
- 2023-01-07
Rest, Play, Grow
This book has overall improved my professional practice and parenthood. Amazing information that can be applied in everyday life
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- Jamie
- 2023-03-01
A Worthwhile Listen
If you’re familiar with the work of Dr Gordon Neufeld, you will find lots of nice reminders framed with some new insights. If you aren’t familiar with Dr. Neufeld, welcome to the work of Dr. Gordon Neufeld!
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- Kate
- 2022-04-10
a must read for all parents
by far one of the most helpful and important parenting books written. should be read by all parents
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- Anna Mosolov
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Informative, non judgmental and touches real pin points
Absolutely enjoyed this audiobook! Highly recommended to any parent of a pre schooler that is trying to navigate daily frustrations. Covers to many important topics and re enforces connections
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- jane
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So helpful!!!
Having long been a fan of Dr. Neufeld's work, I was so happy to come across this book. Dr. MacNamara shares so much practical wisdom here that I'm sure to listen to it again and again. I wish everyone with preschool children would have the opportunity to hear the thoughtful approach to raising children. I have a clearer understanding of why my child behaves the way she does and have useful strategies to support us both while we go through life's up and downs together.
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- Tabitha B
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The book every parent needs!!
This book transformed my parenting style and relationship with my child and even myself. It made me evaluate myself as a person not just a parent. It is such a gift.
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- Kindle Customer
- 2019-06-26
Relational parenting
Loved the concept of collecting. Wowed by the significance of tears. Such a gentle and informative approach to parenting. I'm sorry it's a bit late for my parenting journey but in time for Grand parenting!
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- Tasha
- 2019-02-15
Love
Every parent should listen to this book. I wish I had years ago, so much wisdom. Easy to understand and presented in an interesting manner. Made me laugh and cry!
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- Tabitha Stevens
- 2021-10-21
Must read for parents and caregivers!
Absolutely incredible book filled with so much information. If you are going to read just one book on parenting make it this one!
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- Vika
- 2022-04-12
Just what I needed
Information was just what I needed! It helped me learn grow as a parent and understand my little human so much better. So grateful for the information is shared. So glad I got to listen to this book!
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