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Start with No
- The Negotiating Tools that the Pros Don't Want You to Know
- Narrated by: Robert Jordan
- Length: 7 hrs and 58 mins
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Publisher's Summary
Start with No offers a contrarian, counterintuitive system for negotiating any kind of deal in any kind of situation - the purchase of a new house, a multimillion-dollar business deal, or where to take the kids for dinner.
Think a win-win solution is the best way to make the deal? Think again.
For years now, win-win has been the paradigm for business negotiation. But today, win-win is just the seductive mantra used by the toughest negotiators to get the other side to compromise unnecessarily, early, and often. Win-win negotiations play to your emotions and take advantage of your instinct and desire to make the deal.
Start with No introduces a system of decision-based negotiation that teaches you how to understand and control these emotions. It teaches you how to ignore the siren call of the final result, which you can’t really control, and how to focus instead on the activities and behavior that you can and must control in order to successfully negotiate with the pros.
The best negotiators:
- Aren’t interested in "yes" - they prefer "no"
- Never, ever rush to close, but always let the other side feel comfortable and secure
- Are never needy; they take advantage of the other party’s neediness
- Create a "blank slate" to ensure they ask questions and listen to the answers, to make sure they have no assumptions and expectations
- Always have a mission and purpose that guides their decisions
- Don’t send so much as an email without an agenda for what they want to accomplish
- Know the four "budgets" for themselves and for the other side: time, energy, money, and emotion
- Never waste time with people who don’t really make the decision
Start with No is full of dozens of business as well as personal stories illustrating each point of the system. It will change your life as a negotiator. If you put to good use the principles and practices revealed here, you will become an immeasurably better negotiator.
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"Jim Camp offers easy-to-apply strategies to help make you a more effective negotiator. You’ll learn techniques that you can use immediately to improve your negotiating skills by reading this book." (Joe Mansueto, chairman, Morningstar Mutual Funds)
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"Jim Camp’s negotiating system is a powerful set of disciplines and tools that helped our salespeople function in our customers’ world - which ultimately led to a better negotiating process with our customers. Start with No describes his approach in detail and is recommended reading for our entire staff." (Scott Sturm, vice president of sales, Entegris Corporation)
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- Anonymous User
- 2021-02-22
Strat with No - third read BackToBaxk
If there is one book i will buy should i lose the one copy i have - this is the one. Could not put it down. I am reading for the third time. I expect to read it at least three times more before i move on.
Very well written, woven, logical development, absolutely compelling content. I cannot believe that i used the word “absolutely”!
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- mittehboyenj
- 2024-08-27
Timeless must listen
Real direction on having better conversations and negotiations. The lessons from this title are truly timeless
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- Axel
- 2023-09-29
Not captivating enough
I tried multiple times to listen from the beginning and yet I kept losing interest.
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