Talk to Me Like I'm Someone You Love, Revised Edition
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Narrated by:
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Gabra Zackman
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Written by:
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Nancy Dreyfus PsyD
About this listen
Talk to Me Like I'm Someone You Love is a brilliant interactive relationship tool that can help couples stop arguing and begin healing. Couples therapist Nancy Dreyfus hit upon this revolutionary practice during a particularly angry couples-therapy session in which a wife's unrelenting criticism of her husband was making him more and more emotionally withdrawn. Suddenly, Dreyfus found herself scribbling on a scrap of paper, "Talk to me like I'm someone you love," and gesturing to the husband that he should hold it up. He did, and within seconds, the familiar power differential between the two shifted, and a gentler, more genuine connection emerged.
This revised edition features two new sections—one on making love and another on deepening trust—containing over twenty-five statements that hold the power to express what we wish we could say to the person we love but for which we can't find either the right words or the right tone in which to say them. Each of the statements in this book is accompanied by "field notes" from the author that explain when, why, and how to use the statement, as well as real-life stories from the author's practice.
©1993, 2009, 2013 Nancy Dreyfus (P)2021 HighBridge, a division of Recorded BooksYou may also enjoy...
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- Brian kohorst
- 2024-01-26
Instantly Revolutionary.
I found this book to be a truly unique gem in this genre.
By giving precise and powerful phrases to instantly defuse conflict scenarios, the book provides a fully compassionate defense against your partner's emotional immaturity.
It has had a profound impact on my relationship and I would love to see more from the author.
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- Sir Nicholas
- 2023-08-12
good tips
lots of good information and tips on relationships. a bit hard to visualize some of the tips as it is red. I would probably pick up the book with no cards if you were really interested. some of the tips have already helped me in my relationship
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