DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCAST

Written by: David M. Webb
  • Summary

  • MEN OVER 40 + DIVORCE = dumpster fire in a stressful situation. The word DIVORCE can shake men to their core and can be a very hard pill to swallow. Divorce can be an emotionally devastating experience, especially for men over 40. My new podcast, "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast", provides an open platform for divorced men to share their stories, find support, and gain tools for recovery. Going through divorce in midlife or later presents unique challenges. Long-term marriages ending often means having to start over in major ways - financially, socially, and in terms of identity. Men over 40 face the difficulty of rebuilding and establishing a new normal at an age where change may be harder. Processing the emotional trauma of divorce is a major hurdle as well. Feelings of failure, regret, bitterness, grief, and anger are common. Working through these emotions in a healthy, constructive way is critical. Don't Pick the Scab Podcast gives divorced men over 40 a chance to share their vulnerabilities, get insights from experts, and know they are not alone in this transition. My goal is to foster understanding, encourage growth, and equip men to embrace life after divorce. Divorce recovery takes time, effort, and support. Through personal stories and practical guidance, this podcast aims to help men over 40 find hope, meaning, and purpose on the other side of marital split. By tackling these struggles together, we can overcome obstacles and successfully navigate our new realities. Join me as we walk the path of divorce recovery one step at a time. Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.
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Episodes
  • Neuroscience, trauma recovery, and mental health - Dr. Robb Kelly drops some knowledge involving all three || DPTSP #077 || David
    Jan 30 2025

    In this lively and transformative episode of Don't Pick the Scab Podcast, I sit down with the one and only Dr. Robb Kelly, an expert in neuroscience, trauma recovery, addiction, and mental health. Dr. Robb brings his larger-than-life personality and incredible life story to the mic, sharing his journey from the depths of addiction, trauma, and homelessness to becoming a celebrated healer with a 98% success rate. With humor, vulnerability, and actionable advice, this episode is packed with wisdom for men over 40 navigating life after divorce.


    Dr. Robb’s story is one of redemption, resilience, and the power of letting go of what others think. From his spiritual awakening on the rainy streets of Manchester to reconnecting with his daughter decades later, his experiences offer hope for listeners who feel like they’ve hit rock bottom. This conversation is raw, real, and filled with tools for healing.

    Wait for it - Dr. Robb has a great free offer at the end of this podcast. Take him up on it. I did!


    Here are 10 key topics covered in this episode:

    1. Trauma as the Root Cause: Why unresolved childhood trauma impacts divorce recovery.

    2. Letting Go of Resentment: How to release anger and move forward.

    3. The Power of Self-Care: Why taking care of yourself first is crucial.

    4. Neuroscience in Healing: Techniques like brain spotting to rewire the mind.

    5. The Importance of Identity: Rediscovering who you are after divorce.

    6. Co-Parenting Done Right: Putting the kids first and working with your ex.

    7. The Role of Spirituality: How Dr. Robb’s awakening changed his life.

    8. Self-Compassion: How to speak kindly to yourself and build confidence.

    9. Surrounding Yourself with Positivity: The influence of your social circle.

    10. Practical Tools for Recovery: Oxygen breathwork and mirror exercises to reprogram your mind.


    Dr. Robb Kelly’s insights will leave you inspired and ready to tackle your recovery journey. Listen now and discover how to turn your crossroads into a new beginning!


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    37 mins
  • Wisdom and compassion in your divorce recovery - Michael Mendribil, N.D. || DPTSP #076 || David M. Webb
    Jan 24 2025

    Welcome to today’s episode of the Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast, where we focus on helping men rebuild their lives after divorce. In this episode, we’re joined by Michael Mendribil, a naturopathic doctor, functional medicine practitioner, and transformative coach. Michael’s journey is one of resilience, self-discovery, and healing, and he brings a wealth of knowledge and personal experience to the table. From navigating divorce himself to overcoming life’s toughest challenges, Michael has dedicated his career to helping others heal and thrive.

    Michael shares his deeply personal story, including his experiences with divorce, financial struggles, and the emotional toll of caregiving for a spouse with Alzheimer’s. Through these challenges, he discovered the importance of prioritizing self-care, building resilience, and reframing life’s difficulties as opportunities for growth. His insights are particularly valuable for men over 40 who may feel stuck, emotionally depleted, or unsure of how to move forward after divorce.

    In this episode, Michael emphasizes the importance of addressing both the emotional and physical aspects of recovery. He discusses how chronic stress, poor sleep, and unhealthy habits can take a toll on men’s health during and after divorce. Michael offers practical advice on how to rebuild physical health through better nutrition, exercise, and stress management techniques. He also highlights the role of naturopathic and functional medicine in helping men regain their energy, focus, and overall well-being.


    Top 10 Takeaways from the Podcast:

    1. Prioritize self-care – You can’t take care of others if you don’t take care of yourself first.

    2. Acknowledge your emotions – Recognize that it’s okay to not be fine and seek support when needed.

    3. Reframe divorce as an opportunity – Use this time to rediscover yourself and create a new vision for your life.

    4. Focus on physical health – Improve your sleep, nutrition, and exercise habits to rebuild your energy and resilience.

    5. Break the stigma around seeking help – Therapy, coaching, and support groups are valuable tools for healing.

    6. Build resilience through routine – Establish daily habits like journaling, mindfulness, and self-reflection.

    7. Connect with others – Share your struggles with trusted friends or groups to build a supportive community.

    8. Address chronic stress – Manage stress through mindfulness, time in nature, and other relaxation techniques.

    9. Rediscover your passions – Reconnect with hobbies or interests you may have set aside during your marriage.

    Healing is a process – Be patient with yourself and embrace the journey of growth and self-discovery.


    Michael Mendribil, ND

    Tel: +1 203-861-7810

    Email: michael@mendribil.com

    Visit: MichaelMendribilND.com

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    22 mins
  • Combating the emotional and mental toll of Divorce Recovery - Michelle Davies / Healer || DPTSP #075 || David M. Webb
    Jan 17 2025

    In this episode of the Don't Pick the Scab Podcast, host David dives into the challenges of divorce recovery for men over 40 with special guest Michelle Davies, an internationally acclaimed healer and author of Mental Clarity: Daily Habits to Clear Brain Fog and Improve Focus. Michelle shares her expertise in natural osteopathy and energy-based techniques, offering practical advice to help men regain mental clarity, reduce stress, and rebuild their lives after divorce. From understanding the gut-brain connection to adopting daily habits like proper hydration, sleep, and mindfulness, Michelle provides actionable strategies to combat brain fog and improve overall well-being. The conversation also explores the emotional toll of divorce, the importance of forgiveness, and the role of co-parenting in fostering healthier relationships. Tune in for an insightful discussion packed with tools to help men navigate the complexities of divorce recovery and emerge stronger.

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    -the free PDF of Mental Clarity


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    -free video on how to set up your workstation

    Michelle: Davies BSc (Hons) Ost

    Healer and Health & Wellbeing Consultant

    Author of Miracle Worker www.themichelledavies.com

    Author of Mental Clarity www.findmentalclarity.com

    Clinic details and updates: www.worcester-osteo.com

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    29 mins

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