Ever said yes to a party you didn’t feel up for—then drove home glowing because it was totally worth it?

In this episode, we've invited fellow Get Your Marriage On Program coach, Tammy Camp, to use this metaphor to talk all about creating an intimate relationship both spouses want to show up for!

In this episode you'll learn about . . .

• Spontaneous and responsive desire
• How to send irresistible invitations (without pressure)
• How to RSVP with freedom instead of obligation
• When a thoughtful “no” is actually wise
• And how to become co-planners so the bedroom feels like a party you both want to attend

We cover warm-up rituals, initiation scripts, de-pressurizing the “main event,” and Tammy’s black-belt party-planning tips.

If you’re tired of duty sex or mixed signals, this is your invite to craft a party worth wanting—together.

And speaking of parties, we're inviting you to one you won't want to miss!

Our Anatomy of Arousal Virtual Getaway is coming up in one week--September 26-27. Take sexual intimacy in your marriage to the next level by mastering the three keys to high arousal in your marriage!

Join us virtually for a refreshing, sexy, and inspiring 2-day getaway, where we do a deep dive into the anatomy of arousal in your marriage.

(And if you can't make it that weekend, you will get the recordings to use on another weekendof your choosing.)

Do you know what arouses you?

Knowing that could completely change the way you show up in the bedroom.

In this episode, we dive into the difference between desire and arousal, and why understanding your own arousal triggers is the missing link to greater confidence, deeper intimacy, and more passionate sex in marriage.

We cover the history of our scientific understanding of arousal and the sexual experience, including our most recent insights on how context, trust, and emotional closeness play a huge role in arousal—especially for women. We’ll also explore how positive sexual experiences build on each other, creating momentum for more intimacy and joy in your relationship.

By the end, you’ll not only understand the science of arousal better, but you’ll also walk away with ideas you can use to strengthen your connection, boost your sexual confidence, and build a marriage that feels more alive and passionate than ever!

Don't miss . . .

• Our Virtual Getaway – The Anatomy of Arousal (Sept 26–27): a spicy, nourishing, live, at-home retreat for couples, plus so many bonuses!

• Our Private Facebook Group: Christian Couples Improving Sex & Intimacy

What if the biggest blocker to a thriving sex life isn’t desire, kids, or schedules—but your mindset? In this episode, master coach Jody Moore joins me to show how small shifts in thinking can create big changes in intimacy.

We cover:

• Why “keeping your spouse happy” quietly destroys connection

• The surprising reason lower-desire partners stay stuck

• Common mindsets that sabotage sexual arousal

• Clean pain vs. dirty pain in marriage

• And don't miss Jody’s black-belt sex tip!

Sextember is on!
Make September your 30-day intimacy reset inside the Intimately Us app. Plus:

• Virtual Getaway – The Anatomy of Arousal (Sept 26–27): a spicy, nourishing, live, at-home retreat for couples

• Coming next week: Sex Seminar with 25 experts—join our email list for details

Ready to think differently and feel closer? Hit play—and let’s get your marriage on.

Masturbation is one of the most controversial topics in marriage—especially in conservative or religious circles. In this episode, we're not going to tell you what to believe, but we will offer a new perspective and framework for thinking about it.

Here’s what you’ll discover:

• The surprising cultural history that shaped Christian attitudes toward masturbation

• Why shame and secrecy often do more harm than the act itself

• How sexuality and spirituality can be integrated instead of at odds

• A simple framework for evaluating any sexual behavior

• Real stories from couples who moved past guilt and found deeper intimacy

Whether you ultimately say yes or no to masturbation in your marriage, this episode will help you replace shame with honest conversation and build safety for true intimacy.

👉 Want to go further? Download the Intimately Us app to reset your intimacy in September with our "Sextember" challenge, and join our upcoming events and coaching programs to take your intimacy to the next level:

• Men’s & Women’s Intimacy Coaching Cohorts – starting Sept 2

• Virtual Intimacy Getaway – Sept 26–27

• Free Masterclass

• Get Your Marriage On Program

What if you and your spouse chose one area of your relationship to focus on—and committed to it for 30 days straight? That’s the heart behind our tradition at Get Your Marriage On called Sextember—a month dedicated to intimacy, playfulness, and connection in marriage.

In this episode, I share the surprising backstory that inspired Sextember, including a 30-day experiment that transformed not only one woman’s marriage but also her happiness and even her appearance. You’ll hear how this idea grew into a challenge for couples everywhere, why September is the perfect time to reset patterns, and how you and your spouse can join in this year.

Plus, I’ll tell you about our upcoming Virtual Getaway: The Anatomy of Arousal—a spicy, nourishing, two-day experience you can enjoy together from home or a hotel.

If you’re ready to have fun, grow closer, and see the before-and-after difference in your marriage, this episode will show you how to make Sextember your best month yet!

What happens when the spouse who usually initiates sex suddenly stops—and weeks turn into months of silence? This painful “sexual standoff” can leave both partners feeling stuck, rejected, and disconnected.

In this episode, I’ll explain exactly why this pattern happens, share a real couple’s story, and give you four practical steps to break out of the cycle. You’ll learn how to shift focus off of blame, calm the reactivity that kills intimacy, and start rebuilding connection layer by layer.

If you’ve been caught in this cycle—or fear you might end up there—this episode will show you how to untangle the knot and spark intimacy again in your marriage.

👉 Want to go further? Download the Intimately Us app to reset your intimacy in Sextember, and join our upcoming events and coaching programs to take your intimacy to the next level:

• Men’s & Women’s Intimacy Coaching Cohorts – starting Sept 2

• Virtual Intimacy Getaway – Sept 26–27

• Free Masterclass

• Get Your Marriage On Program

In this episode, I’ll walk you through a complete how-to guide for female ejaculation:

• What it is and how it works

• Why it can be such an incredible and bonding experience

• A step-by-step process to help you and your spouse experience it together

• Common challenges and how to troubleshoot them

We'll also dive into the relationship side—why novelty can be so powerful in marriage, how to avoid performance pressure, and how deeper intimacy is always the foundation of great sexual experiences.

Along the way, you’ll hear real stories from couples who discovered squirting later in marriage and how it transformed their intimacy.

Whether you’re curious, skeptical, or eager to try, you’ll leave this episode with practical tools, encouragement, and a fresh vision for playfulness in your marriage.

👉 Want to go deeper? Check out the Intimately Us app for illustrated, step-by-step guides and join our upcoming events and coaching programs to take your intimacy to the next level:

• Men’s & Women’s Intimacy Coaching Cohorts – starting Sept 2

• Virtual Intimacy Getaway – Sept 26–27

• Free Masterclass

• Get Your Marriage On Program

Want to make intercourse in your marriage more exciting, connected, and deeply satisfying? In this episode, we share 10 game-changing tips—from building anticipation with the 9 to 1 pattern, to eye contact magic, to positions and angles that hit just right.

These aren’t beginner basics—they’re for couples who already enjoy intimacy but want fresh inspiration to make it even better. You’ll also learn the 4 biggest mistakes to avoid and why “good enough” sex might be the secret to long-term happiness.

Resources & Events:

• Men’s & Women’s Intimacy Coaching Cohorts – starting Sept 2

• Virtual Intimacy Getaway – Sept 26–27

• Free Masterclass

• Join the Private Facebook Group

• Get Your Marriage On Program