Episode: The ONE thing that absolutely prevents you from loving yourself

Transaction, earned love teaches us that we must - MUST - seek, chase, and perform for love.

This means we have to be "just right" in the eyes of the other or we won't get love.

This means that when there are challenges, problems, hiccups, mistakes, love is in jeopardy.

This means we start LIVING like we're always just on the edge of losing love.

And that results in:

- Anxiety about what others feel and think about us
- anxious attachment orientation in our relationships
- Control, perfectionism, and people-pleasing
- Shame when we fail
- Pressure to succeed and appear a certain way
- Loss of real love opportunities, not being known, friendship failures
- Depression, panic, exhaustion

And all of this is caused by one thing: SIGNIFICANCE

Learn how to work with this in today's episode!


*** START YOUR WORK

Looking for more guidance, tools, support, in your healing, alignment, and satisfaction?

Start your work here: https://join.freetheself.com

** CURRENT ENROLLMENTS:

WORKSHOP: Actually Love Yourself Workshop. Learn what is preventing you from really loving yourself, learn what to do that quickly gets you the *experience* and feeling of loving yourself, and practice this live with Marshall. This happens May 25, 2024 at 10am-2pm Mountain Time. Unlimited access to the replay is included. Investment: $49.00. Join here: https://aly.freetheself.com

The EVERYTHING FOREVER PROGRAM is OPEN! 30 seats are available this year! Get every course I've created, am creating, and will create for a one-time investment. This is ideal for those of you that want to work with me long term. Learn more here: https://forever.freetheself.com