
Attached
The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find—and Keep—Love
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Amir Levine
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Rachel Heller
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"A groundbreaking book that redefines what it means to be in a relationship." (John Gray, PhD., best-selling author of Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus)
We already rely on science to tell us what to eat, when to exercise, and how long to sleep. Why not use science to help us improve our relationships? In this revolutionary book, psychiatrist and neuroscientist Dr. Amir Levine and Rachel Heller scientifically explain why some people seem to navigate relationships effortlessly, while others struggle.
Discover how an understanding of adult attachment—the most advanced relationship science in existence today—can help us find and sustain love. Pioneered by psychologist John Bowlby in the 1950s, the field of attachment posits that each of us behaves in relationships in one of three distinct ways:
- Anxious people are often preoccupied with their relationships and tend to worry about their partner's ability to love them back
- Avoidant people equate intimacy with a loss of independence and constantly try to minimize closeness.
- Secure people feel comfortable with intimacy and are usually warm and loving.
Attached guides listeners in determining what attachment style they and their mate (or potential mate) follow, offering a road map for building stronger, more fulfilling connections with the people they love.
*Includes a PDF of the attachment style questionnaire
PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.
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"A groundbreaking book that redefines what it means to be in a relationship." (John Gray, PhD., best-selling author of Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus)
"Amir Levine and Rachel Heller have written a very smart book: It is clear, easy to read, and insightful. It's a valuable tool whether you are just entering a relationship with a new partner or—as in my case—even after you've been married 21 years, and had thought you knew everything about your spouse." (Mariette DiChristina, editor in chief, Scientific American)
"Attached is a fascinating and enormously useful guide to one of life's most important ventures—finding and sustaining a secure, satisfying love relationship. Based on 25 years of research, laced with vivid and instructive examples, and enriched with interesting and well-designed exercises, the book provides deep insights and invaluable skills that will benefit every reader." (Phillip R. Shaver, PhD, Distinguished Professor of Psychology, University of California, Davis and Past President, International Association for Relationship Research)
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- 2020-07-21
Interesting material that’s easy to follow
I didn’t have many expectations from this book and was pleasantly impressed! First of all, the content is very interesting, the narrator does a great job at explaining the material, it’s based on many research studies and I find it very useful in understanding myself and my previous partners.
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- 2021-08-27
Great information
Definitely better to listen than read, but regardless it is worth getting the information. All very accurate and easy to understand
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- 2021-10-07
solid read and learn
a quick guide the psychology to why we are the way that we are I'm relationships. effective ook and learned a lot
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- Sabrina V
- 2021-06-17
Amazing! Such an eye opener!
Now I had stumbled across the attachment theory a few months back but this book does an amazing job at fully explaining it and breaking down various situations and why we behave that way. It’s a must for anyone looking for love or wanting to improve their relationship
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- Heather
- 2020-01-06
Highly recommended.
Listened to the whole thing in one sitting. Comprehensive and engaging. Something everyone should take the time to read or listen to.
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- Iryna Lytvynka
- 2022-05-25
great book would read again!!
Narrated very well, easy to understand, very eye opening would recommend to anyone! Author put a lot of work into it, loved all the real life examples!
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- Keithso S.
- 2022-04-27
Resonates on several levels
This was missing the ONE attachment style that I am currently involved with. Had to research outside of this book for more.
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- 2022-11-18
Must read!!!
Very eye opening and catching book with real life stories which help w better understanding <3
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- Krista
- 2022-12-14
I might only date people who read this book from here on out
Such a concise book for laying out what relationship attachment theory looks like. Great examples, demonstrates effective communication and red flags to watch for. I learned a lot about myself as well as my past relationships.
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- Nick
- 2023-01-16
Amazing book!
I wish I had read this years ago. It would have drastically helped my relationship
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