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  • [Athlete Tip] How to Separate Yourself as an Athlete
    Jan 28 2025

    Have you ever felt like no matter how hard you work, everyone else is just as good… or even better? At some point, hard work doesn’t feel like it’s cutting it anymore. You’re showing up to practice, putting in the hours, but so is everyone else. What’s the secret to actually standing out? Spoiler: it’s not just about your physical skills.

    In this episode, we get into what truly separates good athletes from great ones – and it’s probably not what you think.

    🏆 Why showing up to practice and working hard isn’t enough anymore.

    📹 How film study can help you learn faster and smarter.

    💡 Tips for making your practice time more intentional and impactful.

    🧠 The mental skills that help athletes handle pressure and recover from mistakes.

    🔥 An inspiring story of how mental training helped an underdog team win big.

    🎧 If you’re ready to rise above the competition, hit play now. This episode is your guide to leveling up!

    Episode Highlights:

    [00:00:00] Welcome to the Episode. I kick things off by addressing the big question: how do you stand out as an athlete? If you’re here, it’s because you’re looking for that extra edge – and this episode is all about helping you find it.

    [00:01:12] Pressure Moments Define You. It’s not just about your skills; it’s about how you perform under pressure, bounce back from mistakes, and show up mentally. These are the real game-changers.

    [00:01:51] Shoutout to Skyler’s Success. Skyler, one of our Elite Mental Game athletes, shares her journey. After just a short time in the program, she’s already seeing results, including her best swim meet of the year.

    [00:04:22] The Power of Watching Film. If you’re not already studying film, start now. Watching yourself and others play is one of the easiest ways to learn and improve.

    [00:06:00] Be a Loud and Encouraging Leader. Stand out by being a supportive and vocal teammate. Whether or not you’re the team captain, you can lead by example and uplift those around you.

    [00:08:00] Visualization. Train Your Mind. I introduce visualization as a tool to build confidence and mentally prepare for success. It’s a skill that’s accessible to athletes at any level.

    [00:13:06] Your Takeaway. Mental Skills Matter. It’s not just about physical reps. Developing skills like visualization, reset routines, and positive self-talk can give you the competitive edge you’re looking for.

    [00:14:03] Final Encouragement and Resources. I wrap up by reminding you that the tools I talked about today – like the ones we teach in the Elite Mental Game program – are here to help you succeed. Let’s keep working on your mental game together!

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    14 min
  • Inside Look at The Elite Mental Game: What Moms Really Think + Their Honest Reviews
    Jan 21 2025

    Feeling stuck between wanting the best for your athlete and navigating their eye rolls and closed-off responses? You’re not alone. This episode is for every mom who’s been in the trenches, wondering if what they’re doing is even working. Get ready to hear from three real moms who’ve walked that road and are sharing their unfiltered experiences with The Elite Mental Game. From the early struggles of getting their daughters to buy in to the game-changing moments that made it all worth it – you’re about to get the real talk you’ve been craving.

    What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

    • Early Wins: The first shifts moms noticed in their daughters’ confidence and resilience.
    • Snapback Success: How one simple routine helped athletes bounce back from mistakes in seconds.
    • Parent Perspectives: The biggest mindset shifts moms made to support their athletes.
    • Team Dynamics: Strategies for helping athletes navigate new teams and relationships.
    • Navigating Feedback: How EMG tools help athletes handle constructive criticism and grow from it.
    • Live Coaching Benefits: Why athletes love connecting with coaches during live calls and text support.
    • Flexible Training: How EMG fits seamlessly into even the busiest schedules.
    • Why It’s Worth It: Hear firsthand why these moms believe the program has been life-changing – not just for their athletes but for their entire families.

    Ready to hear the raw, unfiltered truth about what it’s like inside The Elite Mental Game? Grab your headphones and listen now. Your perspective as a sports mom might just shift forever.

    Episode Highlights:

    [00:00:00] Introducing today’s focus: hearing directly from three moms with daughters in the Elite Mental Game (EMG). These moms are at different stages of the program, giving you an inside look at how EMG supports athletes and their families.

    [00:02:00] Shoutout to Jamie: One of our moms shares how her daughter, an equestrian athlete, used EMG tools to maintain her poise during a challenging horse show, earning praise from her coach for staying calm under pressure.

    [00:05:00] When to Start: I share why starting mental training between ages 11 and 12 is ideal but emphasize that it’s never too late for athletes to build confidence and mental strength.

    [00:09:30] Answering Common Questions: I address questions I frequently get, like how to help athletes stay consistent with mental training and ways to encourage buy-in.

    [00:25:00] Why They Joined EMG: Each mom shares what brought them to EMG – whether it was to help their daughters overcome self-doubt, navigate team dynamics, or strengthen their own communication as sports parents.

    [00:38:00] Long-Term Growth: Kim shares how her daughter, now a senior and team captain, revisits EMG tools to manage feedback, lead her team, and maintain confidence as she transitions to college basketball.

    [00:45:00] Favorite Parts of EMG: The moms highlight their favorite features, including the flexibility to work at their own pace, the supportive community, and practical tools that empower both athletes and parents.

    [00:55:00] Watching Game Film: I share how to review post-game recordings constructively, focusing on identifying strengths and actionable goals to

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  • Q&A: Signs Your Athlete Is Ready for Mental Training, Best Age to Start, & Getting Her 'Bought In'
    Jan 14 2025

    What if your daughter’s biggest breakthrough isn’t about more practice or better coaching – but mastering her mindset?

    In this episode, I’m answering the questions I get all the time from sports moms just like you: How do I know if my daughter is ready for mental training? What’s the right age to start? And how do I get her to buy in? If you’ve ever felt unsure about how to help your athlete grow her confidence and mental toughness, this episode is for you.

    Here’s What We’ll Cover:

    • The surprising signs your daughter might need mental training (and it’s not just for athletes who are struggling).
    • Why 11-12 is the sweet spot to start mental training and what to do if your athlete is older (or younger).
    • How to get your daughter excited about mental training without making her feel like something’s “wrong.”
    • The power of quick wins like the Snapback Routine to build confidence fast.
    • Real stories from athletes and moms who’ve seen life-changing results.
    • Why mental training goes far beyond sports – it’s a lifelong skill every girl needs.

    This episode is packed with stories, tips, and strategies to help your daughter build unshakable confidence and tackle challenges on and off the field.

    🎧 Click play now to hear it all. Let’s raise athletes who are confident, resilient, and ready to take on anything life throws their way!

    Episode Highlights:

    [00:16] Listener Q&A begins with a breakdown of the most frequently asked questions about mental training and actionable advice for parents.

    [00:35] An invitation to join free live trainings for sports moms at trainhergame.com. Learn how to support your athlete’s mental game with these exclusive sessions.

    [02:28] Addressing the common concern: “Will my daughter actually engage with mental training?” and sharing examples of how athletes respond to the program.

    [04:00] Question 1: “What is the best age to start mental training?” An exploration of why ages 11-12 are ideal, and how younger or older athletes can also benefit.

    [06:00] Why mental training becomes critical for older athletes (16+), helping them handle the increasing pressure of competitive sports.

    [09:00] The broader impact of mental training: how it helps athletes develop confidence and resilience that extends beyond sports.

    [12:28] Question 3: “How quickly can results be seen?” The Snapback Routine in Phase 1 of the program provides immediate wins and boosts athlete engagement.

    [17:53] The importance of small changes in parenting approaches and how they can positively impact an athlete’s confidence and mindset.

    [18:53] Recap of the key questions addressed: when to start mental training, how to recognize readiness, and strategies for gaining athlete buy-in.

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    23 min
  • Simple Go-To Phrases to Use to Boost Your Athlete's Confidence Today
    Jan 7 2025

    Have you ever wondered if the words you say to your daughter could help boost her confidence as an athlete? In this episode, I share practical, go-to phrases you can use to support your daughter in her sport and life. Whether she’s preparing for a big game, processing a tough loss, or just navigating day-to-day challenges, these tips will help you build her confidence and strengthen her mental game.

    What’s Covered in This Episode:

    • How your words can shape your daughter’s confidence on and off the field.
    • Simple phrases to boost confidence during:
      • Day-to-Day: Highlighting her positive qualities beyond her sport.
      • Pre-Game: Encouraging focus with short, impactful phrases.
      • Post-Game: Supporting her through wins and losses with the LOVE framework.
    • How to validate your daughter’s feelings without reinforcing negativity.
    • The importance of combining parental support with your athlete’s mental skills training.
    • Practical examples like the “snapback routine” to help her bounce back from mistakes.

    Ready to Learn More? Listen to this episode for actionable strategies that will make a real difference in your athlete’s confidence and resilience. Plus, find out how you can get access to a free training and a cheat sheet with 25 confidence-boosting phrases!

    Episode Highlights:

    [0:00] Introduction to boosting athletes' confidence through simple phrases

    [01:00] Shoutout to Renata and her success using mental training tools.

    [02:00] Importance of combining verbal communication with athlete mental skills.

    [03:00] Overview of the key focus: day-to-day, pre-game, and post-game confidence strategies.

    [04:00] Encouraging athletes to develop self-trust and skills for overcoming setbacks.

    [05:00] Highlighting positive qualities outside of sports to build confidence.

    [06:00] Simple strategies like sticky notes and verbal affirmations for day-to-day encouragement.

    [07:00] Using the phrase "I believe you" to validate athletes’ feelings.

    [08:00] Adjusting responses to support athletes without reinforcing negative self-talk.

    [09:00] Playful ways to engage teens and tweens in positive conversations.

    [10:00] Pre-game strategies: keeping phrases short and focused on what's in their control.

    [11:00] Examples of pre-game taglines and humor to ease nerves.

    [12:00] Post-game reflections: emphasizing effort and controllable factors over outcomes.

    [13:00] Supporting athletes' emotional processing after wins or losses.

    [14:00] LOVE framework for post-game confidence building: Let her lead, Open the space, Validate feelings, Encourage inward.

    [15:00] Examples of post-game questions to foster self-reflection and learning.

    [16:00] Athletes' post-competition routines to build confidence objectively.

    [17:00] Recap of day-to-day, pre-game, and post-game strategies with key takeaways.

    [18:00] Reminder to download the free PDF with 25 key phrases at trainhergame.com.

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    21 min
  • Athlete Tip: When You Don't Feel "Ready" to Compete
    Dec 31 2024

    Did you know it’s completely normal to not feel ready before a big competition? But what do you do when those feelings creep in? In this episode, “When You Don’t Feel ‘Ready’ to Compete,” we’ll get into how to overcome doubt and perform your best no matter what.

    Here’s what we cover:

    • Why “feeling ready” doesn’t determine your success.
    • A mindset trick to move from self-doubt to confidence.
    • How to focus on what you can control before game day.
    • Practical tips to compete like a pro, even on tough days.
    • Key strategies from the Elite Mental Game program to sharpen your routine.

    Tune in now to learn how to step up, stay focused, and thrive – even when readiness feels out of reach! 🎧

    Episode Highlights:

    [00:00] Introduction to the episode: Addressing the common feeling of not being ready to compete and shares strategies to overcome it.

    [01:00] Shoutout to Ava, a hockey player from Arlington, MA, who’s thriving on her new team, showing leadership, confidence, and effort on and off the ice!

    [02:00] Exploring reasons athletes feel unready, such as nerves before big competitions, expectations, or just feeling off.

    [03:00] The difference between feeling ready and being ready, and why readiness is a choice, not a feeling.

    [04:00] Mindset shift. How champions think differently by choosing readiness instead of waiting for the right feelings.

    [05:00] Practical steps to choose readiness. working hard, focusing on what you can control, being a good teammate, and taking coaching.

    [06:00] Emphasis on consistency. Showing up every day in practice prepares you to choose readiness in competition.

    [07:00] Benefits of feeling ready. Aligning a feeling of readiness with intentional choices for peak performance.

    [08:00] Strategies from the Elite Mental Game program. Using personalized pre-game routines and finding your ideal "hype number" for optimal competition performance.

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    9 min
  • Breaking Barriers: How Sports Set Women Up For Success w/ Stef & Amy of Section Z
    Dec 23 2024

    Too many girls never get the chance to experience the life-changing benefits of sports because of barriers like cost, lack of access, and representation. What if there was a way to break those barriers and set them up for lifelong success? In this episode, Steph and Amy of Section Z share how they’re using sports to empower young women, build confidence, and open doors to opportunities they never imagined.

    This is the conversation you need to hear to see how a simple game can break barriers, build confidence, and change girls’ lives.

    In this episode:

    • Steph’s personal story and the accident that inspired her to create Section Z.
    • The biggest barriers holding girls back and how Section Z is addressing them.
    • Eye-opening research on the connection between sports, mental health, and leadership.
    • How attending live sports events can inspire confidence and a sense of belonging.
    • Powerful success stories from girls who found their spark through Section Z.
    • Why brands are investing in women’s sports and the measurable ROI they’re seeing.
    • Ways you can support Section Z and make a difference for young girls.

    Don’t miss this episode! This isn’t just a conversation about sports – it’s about changing lives. Tune in to hear how Steph and Amy are redefining opportunities for girls everywhere.

    Come hang out with Stef on social @‌thesectionZ and learn more about Section Z!

    Episode Highlights:

    [04:19] What is Section Z? Steph explains Section Z’s mission: leveraging live sports to empower girls with exposure, workshops, and representation.

    [08:00] Steph’s Personal Story. Steph shares how a life-changing accident inspired her to create something meaningful and impactful for young girls.

    [11:30] Why Sports Matter. Amy highlights the benefits of sports participation, including improved mental health, confidence, and sense of belonging.

    [17:00] Addressing Barriers. Amy and Steph discuss socioeconomic challenges that prevent many girls from accessing sports opportunities.

    [19:00] The ROI of Women’s Sports. Steph outlines how investing in women’s sports provides long-term benefits for brands and communities.

    [28:00] Success Stories. Steph shares impactful moments, including a girl taping a Section Z poster above her bed and another inspired by diverse athletes on the field.

    [34:00] Sports as a Unifier. Steph discusses how sports foster community and build connections, transcending differences like race or socioeconomic status.

    [38:00] How to Get Involved. Steph and Amy share how listeners can support Section Z through donations, partnerships, or sharing their mission.

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    39 min
  • Encouraging Self-Love Through Puberty w/ Kimberly Grustas, Founder of Good For You Girls
    Dec 17 2024

    Is your daughter’s skincare routine harming her more than helping? We all know puberty is tough. But what if some of the products marketed to our daughters are actually making it even harder for them? In this eye-opening episode, I sit down with Kimberly Grustas, founder of Good For You Girls, to talk about the hidden dangers lurking in everyday skincare products and how they can affect your daughter’s health – especially during the crucial years of puberty.

    “Puberty is a superpower.” Kimberly reminds us that our daughters’ bodies are amazing and deserve care that empowers them, not tears them down. But how can we ensure that the products they’re using support their growth without introducing harmful chemicals? Get the lowdown on what to avoid and how to help your daughter embrace self-love from the inside out.

    Here’s what we talk about:

    • The shocking truth about estrogenic chemicals in products marketed to girls.
    • Why the average age of puberty is dropping – and what you can do about it.
    • How to guide your daughter through puberty with empathy, confidence, and non-toxic products.
    • Practical tips on creating a simple, effective skincare routine for your tween.

    Whether you’ve got a daughter just starting to navigate puberty or you’re in the thick of it, this episode is packed with tips to help you guide her through with love, care, and confidence.

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    Guest Interview Email: Kim@goodforyougirls.com

    Episode Highlights:

    [00:00] Introduction to the Podcast and Guest. A discussion on encouraging self-love during puberty and introduces Kimberly Grustas, founder of Good For You Girls, highlighting the significance of non-toxic skincare for young girls.

    [06:39] The Turning Point: A Shocking Discovery, Kimberly recounts a pivotal moment when her daughter asked for a Hannah Montana bath set, and she realized the harmful ingredients inside – sparking her commitment to creating non-toxic skincare for tweens.

    [11:00] Puberty’s Shifting Timeline.
    Kimberly discusses the significant drop in the average age of puberty – from 14 to 11 – and the importance of recognizing these shifts while protecting girls from harmful chemicals.

    [15:02] How Hormones Affect the Body During Puberty. Kimberly delves into how puberty hormones help growth, and how harmful chemicals mimic estrogen, affecting development in both boys and girls.

    [36:55] A Call to Moms: Reclaiming Self-Care. Kimberly encourages moms to prioritize their own self-care, setting an example for their daughters and creating bonding opportunities around health and wellness.

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    42 min
  • Four-Peat: The Story Behind the Championship Season w/ Coach Bre
    Nov 26 2024

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    What does it take to win four consecutive state championships? In this episode, I share the story behind an unforgettable season, from overcoming challenges with a new team lineup to the mental strategies that made all the difference. Perfect for parents, coaches, and athletes looking to elevate their game.

    What’s covered in this episode:

    • Building a Championship Mindset. How a young, inexperienced team thrived under the pressure of defending a title.
    • Mental Training Essentials. Visualization, reset routines, and other strategies that helped athletes perform in the most critical moments.
    • Practice Like a Champion. The importance of game-like scenarios, competitive drills, and structured planning in daily practice.
    • Thriving Under Pressure. Stories from the state championship match where mental tools turned nerves into confidence.
    • Lessons in Leadership and Teamwork. The role of culture, support, and communication in overcoming adversity.

    This episode is packed with practical tips, inspiring stories, and actionable insights for anyone who wants to learn what it takes to succeed at the highest level. Whether you’re a parent supporting your athlete, a coach shaping a team, or an athlete aiming for greatness, this episode will leave you inspired and prepared.

    🎧 Tune in now to discover the strategies behind a championship-winning program!

    Episode Highlights:

    [00:00] Introduction. A reflection on achieving a historic fourth consecutive state championship, setting the stage for a behind-the-scenes look at the season.

    [01:02] Answering Listener Questions. The episode focuses on mental training, practice strategies, and building a cohesive and successful team culture.

    [01:52] Player of the Week: Brindley. A standout athlete credited highlight reel visualization as a key tool in helping her team remain undefeated and win their conference championship. championship title with a mostly new lineup and only one returning starter.

    [05:36] Mental Training as a Foundation. Mental training has been a consistent part of the program for six years, becoming an ingrained habit for athletes.


    [09:33] Snapback Routine. A practical mental reset routine, combining breathwork, a reset word, and a physical signal, helped athletes recover quickly from mistakes and stay in the moment.

    [13:17] Turning the Season Around. Despite early-season challenges and inconsistencies, the team improved steadily, peaking at just the right time for postseason success.

    [18:15] Locker Room Preparation for the Championship. The pre-championship routine emphasized gratitude, visualization, and the grounding "Turkey Dinner" analogy to reduce nerves and enhance focus.

    [21:00] Championship Match Highlights. The team displayed resilience, battling through a fourth-set deficit to force a decisive fifth set, ultimately securing the championship.


    [28:03] Practi

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    48 min