043: My guest Suzanne Jeanine is an incredible woman who I've had the pleasure of working with 1:1 and in my group experience Vaginal Alchemy in 2024. Suzanne's journey with her sexual awakening and healing has been a long road of reclamation after years of conditioning and unmet desires, as she shares in great detail in this episode. I believe her experiences are so common, and she is a beacon of light (a role model leading the way, really) for women who are ready to shed the shame, stop faking their pleasure, and really OWN their orgasm and desires in relationship.

Suzanne is a Nutritional Therapy Practitioner who is just kicking off this new practitioner path after a 7+ year long journey of learning how to balance her own health concerns. She is a Cancer Sun, Virgo Moon, and Aquarius Rising, and she is ready to harness her healer energy to support women struggling with similar metabolic, adrenal, & hormone imbalances. When she's not being an absolute nerd about health related topics, she's probably talking about therapy, pleasure, intuition, or astrology. She also has a deep affinity for nature, music, dancing, herbalism, sunshine, her friends, her dogs, and finding meaning in everything.

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• How Suzanne and Brittney know each other, working together 1:1 and in Vaginal Alchemy
• Having C-PTSD (complex post-traumatic stress disorder) and the messaging Suzanne received from her parents about her sexuality and more
• Taking her own “virginity” and her sexual encounters from 13- late 20s that impacted her perceptions on her sexuality and relationships
• Having PCOS (polycystic ovarian syndrome) while her mom was diagnosed with stage 4 ovarian cancer
• After her mom’s passing, experiencing the emotions and overlapping of her overall health journey and sexual healing journey
• When you’re doing all the work to figure out what you want/like, being able to talk about it, but it not being received
• What it was like coming to see a pelvic PT like Brittney after experiencing pain with sex, no pleasure, going weeks without orgasms in a newer relationship
• Using masturbation and other mechanisms to cope with anger and frustration
• What drew Suzanne into Vaginal Alchemy and what transpired for her
• Honing her creative energy into poetry and a new heart-led business as a nutritional therapy practitioner
• Reflecting on Suzanne’s journey and being a 6/2 in Human Design terms
• Being a part of Vaginal Alchemy, her words of encouragement, and normalizing a new way of Being in relationship with your body and sex

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042: We've got a man on the pod! Welcome Ean Wood, who learned about men's work at 13 years old. Ean’s father introduced him to the mankind project organization and the world of personal development. For the last 12 years Ean has supported and listened to men as they share their sexual secrets, and is now working with men in a multitude of ways - a primary one being a sexual reset. He has produced documentaries, published articles in 5 countries / 3 different languages, delivered a TEDx speech, and is the host of a podcast titled Men and Sex.

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• Ean’s background and how we met
• Being introduced to men’s work at a young age
• Men’s sexuality and sexual shadow
• The most common phrase men say to Ean and the fear of homosexuality when conversing with men about sex
• How do men think a masculine man “should” express his sexuality
• Mother wounds that impact future romantic relationships
• Speaking to women: “Your orgasm becomes mommy’s love” and what to do about it
• Why the relationship to sexuality is so rich and what men can begin to look at to address and deepen it
• How and why sexuality gets distorted in its expression
• The one thing men can look at to connect to your sexuality
• Shame and arousal, living a life that turns you on, disconnecting “arousal” from just “yanking on your body part”
• Current men’s coaching and what is actually helpful to work on
• Redefining what sex is for men and women
• SO WHAT?: Why does men’s sexuality even matter

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• Website www.eanwood/sexualreset
• Instagram: instagram.com/seedingmasculinity

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041: euni's back on the show for an open conversation with Brittney about intimacy, sexuality, connecting with others in many capacities, and how it relates to the pelvic floor and overall pelvic health. A little background on her: euni is a multi-disciplinary artist, facilitator, educator + somatic practitioner who guides integrative practices for healing, intimacy + pleasure. She curates trauma informed spaces through private sessions, educational resources, experiences, workshops, and retreats. The work of Self Study is founded on a blend of evidence based principles, spiritual + cultural wisdom, and eastern + holistic wellness modalities to ignite agency, power, openness, expression + deeper, more intimate connections for individuals and people in relationships. euni is studied, trained and expanding methods to increase understanding and integration of how we exist in our bodies and to increase the ways we feel pleasure, play, and liberated to be more authentic + expressive in all the parts of ourselves.

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• Brittney and euni's backstory for this episode recording on intimacy
• Being in your body when you have a history of dissociation
• What does it mean to be intimate with someone else, in romance and friendship
• Why intimacy matters and how it relates to pelvic health
• euni's relationship with her pelvic floor and how it speaks to her
• Committing to oneself and what that looks like in a nonlinear way, connecting intimacy to art and expression
• The cycle of feeling a physical sensation/intuition, ignoring it, and her pelvic floor speaking louder until she listens
• Developing a language with your body and TRUST with yourself in relationships
• Becoming bigger and living more vibrantly
• Dick pics, DMs, and graciousness when you have the capacity
• Creating a new space that merges art, traditional practices (yoga, breathwork), and sexual wellness

Connect with our guest, euni

• Website Selfstudylab.com
• Social: sensoryplayspace.substack.com
• Instagram: instagram.com/selfstudylab
• The Sensory Playspace Podcast: selfstudylab.com/sensoryplayspace

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040: Join Brittney in this dynamic conversation with Dr. Jennifer Sandoval about a variety of relationships and sexual issues that come up for many people. As a licensed clinical psychologist and certified sex therapist with 25 years of experience, Dr. Jen works with individuals and couples helping them to improve themselves their relationships and their sex lives - as well as helping them cultivate the VERY IMPORTANT sense of self. From interesting examples and tangible practices, this is an episode you don't want to miss and can apply to your life right now to improve your own relationships.

Feeling the Pulse on

• Dr. Jen and Brittney's connection
• How sex therapy couples well with pelvic physical therapy and how Dr. Jen got started
• The big issues people are experiencing in their sex lives like desire discrepancies, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, or pain
• Differences between desire discrepancies, hypo-active sexual desire disorder, responsive and spontaneous desire
• The relationship is the focus in therapy, not just one person
• Dr. Jen’s Pie Graph exercise to help couples
• Sense of self and co-dependency
• Difference between co-dependency and enmeshment, with examples
• How to break the cycle and cultivate a stronger sense of self
• Coping skills and toolbox for taking ownership of their emotions and wellbeing
• Pursuer/avoidant dynamics and how to navigate when there’s been a rupture and ongoing repair
• The role of self compassion and self love in your inner dialogue
• Family of origin interview as a couple’s exercise, parts work, inner child work
• Sex and spirituality within a religious or purity upbringing
• Being a Christian and a sexual being
• Being addicted to pornography and trying to find congruent sexual expression
• Who’s responsible for pleasure within the relationship and more on sense of self

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• Instagram @Drjensandov2
• Website http://drjensandov.com/index.html#/

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039: As a brand new naturopathic doctor AND mother, Dr. Kate Purvis walked through the transformational fire of her first postpartum experience after a beautiful birth. Through her personal trials and by working with babies and mothers separately over the years, she's come to realize this *isn't* how postpartum care is best served. Her vision of support for reimagined postpartum care and the ripple effect it has on families and society is amazing AND possible. Listen in to ignite your own imagination to make postpartum the beautifully transformative experience it can be.

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• How Dr. Kate's first postpartum experience led her to her life’s work
• What was different about her second postpartum experience
• Practicing embodiment beginning with basic body needs
• How we’ve normalized postpartum feeling crummy
• What we need to unlearn and how we can reframe what postpartum can be like
• What support can actually look like for a mother baby dyad
• Mother wounds and what Dr. Kate experienced working with hers
• Dr. Brittney’s experience with her mother wound and womb healing
• Healing other aspects of your pelvic health in postpartum, including sexuality, and thinking of it as WHATEVER you want it to be
• Grieving AND celebrating the maiden phase
• Collaborating with other providers for the most holistic support
• Tips for pregnant women: gather your providers before birth!
• How important looking at both mother and baby is, AND how to involve the partner in postpartum
• Having the conversation, making the implicit explicit

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• Instagram @drkatepurivs
• Website https://www.drkatepurvis.com/

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038: New to Human Design, or wondering how to apply it to raising children (according to YOUR design and THEIRS)? This week's guest Alexandra Cole is going to blow your mind with a powerful peek inside this nuanced system while utilizing some examples from Brittney's experience as well as her own. Listen in and learn something new about yourself, your partner, your parents, or your child and reflect on YOUR body, pelvic floor, and wellness and how Human Design can support you in feeling more embodied in life and in parenting.

Feeling the Pulse on

• Alexandra’s background, her interest in spiritual modalities and embodiment practices, and how Human Design entered her life
• What is Human Design in its simplest definition and why it will matter when you have kids for yourself
• Uncovering pieces of Brittney’s HD, Alexandra’s an her son’s, parent/child dynamics
• What about sleep for adults, kids, or babies? How might sleep training change?
• The 5 Energy Types in HD, how it shows up in children, and how to support them in sleep based on their Design
• Generators + Manifesting Generators (70% of the population)
• Projectors (20% of the population)
• A reflection on Brittney’s design as a Projector and tying into pelvic floor/Root Center in Human Design
• Manifestors (9% of the population)
• Reflectors (1% of the population)
• More ways to apply Human Design to your life: the “partner-proof” Human Design report for your child, 1:1 sessions, and the Well by Design report for YOUR wellness

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• Instagram @alexandrafcole
• Website www.thrivingbydesign.com

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037: This week we have a beautiful and fascinating personal history to unwind with my dear friend Kate. She is one of many women I know who has experienced an abortion in this lifetime. She is also someone who registered this experience very differently than most - including the women in her maternal lineage. To her, this wasn't traumatic and was well integrated over time. In this episode, we dive SO deeply into this vulnerable topic in the hopes to liberate others and to share what is possible when women make their bodies' wellbeing a priority.

Feeling the Pulse on

• The similar "hiding" of tampons, abortions, and many other pelvic health related topics
• Kate's cosmic history with the womb - beginning with fainting learning about her period
• The belief system Kate had around fertility and the surprising realization about her mom's personal history with HER womb
• MAPS conference, sitting with Aya, and memories of assault
• Confronting assault and abortion timelines of healing trauma to the pelvis
• What happened when Kate found out she was pregnant with her partner in Mexico
• How Kate’s abortion was actually HEALING for her and how she processed it over the past year
• Powerful inner knowing as the seasons change and honoring her one year anniversary
• More thoughts on her choice

Connect with our guest, Kate

• Instagram @kate.space__
• Website https://bio.site/katespace
• euni's Sensory Playspace Aftercare article: https://sensoryplayspace.substack.com/p/aftercare-for-all-types-of-intimacy

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036: My sweet client-turned- soul friend Jessica Grody joins us to share about her pregnancy, birth and (almost) one year postpartum experience. Jess felt the desire to seek pelvic PT at 8 months pregnant and has a LOT to say about it, especially as an extremely active and avid runner, swimmer, yogi and now, mama. She hopes that with sharing her postpartum struggles and triumphs, people feel less alone and are better understood.

Feeling the Pulse on

• How an old tailbone injury from gymnastics set Jess on a path to seeking pelvic PT
• Her fears around giving birth and moving through those in pelvic PT prenatal sessions
• Pelvic floor checks, proper breathing mechanics and cues we hear in certain circles
• Jess's personal experience with birth
• Reframing recovery in postpartum into more of a rediscovery, mirroring her child's progression
• Spreading awareness and sharing about pelvic care for more women AND providers to understand this process and postpartum period
• Why supporting women + mothers is so important
• A holistic approach for pelvic care + Dr. Brittney's work

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• Instagram @pinkninjayogi

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