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Getting Past Your Breakup
How to Turn a Devastating Loss into the Best Thing That Ever Happened to You
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Laural Merlington
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Susan J. Elliott
About this listen
It’s over - and it really hurts. But as unbelievable as it may seem when you are in the throes of heartache, you can move past your breakup. Forget about trying to win your ex back. Forget about losing yourself and trying to make this person love you. Forget it! Starting today, this breakup is the best time to change your life for the better, inside and out.
Getting Past Your Breakup is a proven road map for overcoming the painful end of any romantic relationship, even divorce. Through her workshops and popular blog, Susan Elliott has helped thousands of clients and readers transform their love lives. Now she’ll help you put your energy back where it belongs - on you. Her plan includes:
- The rules of disengagement: how and why to go “no contact” with your ex,
- How to work through grief, move past fear, and take back your life,
- The secret to breaking the pattern of failed relationships, and
- What to do when you can’t stop thinking about your ex, texting, calling, checking social networking sites, or driving by the house.
Complete with inspiring stories from real people and strategies to jump-start the moving-on process, Getting Past Your Breakup is the most effective plan for getting permanently past a breakup, getting your confidence back, and opening yourself to true love.
©2012 Susan J Elliott (P)2012 Brilliance Audio, Inc.You may also enjoy...
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- Client d'Amazon
- 2022-12-11
A must read
Very helpful and a great therapy.
Listen this good audiobook is essential for everyone who wants to improve life and relationships.
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- Sabrina
- 2023-01-16
On Point!
This one nailed every step of my breakup / divorce that I had been beating myself up about. It made me find a way to move past the struggle and back to taking my power back as originally planned when choosing to separate. Highly recommend ... especially to those who were determined to move on but got slapped with shock of guilt and of how right you were to make your decision.
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- Danielle
- 2018-10-11
Game changer for the broken hearted
This book is a total game changer for the broken-hearted. Whether you were together months, a few years or decades, this book teaches you not only how to process the grief, but to use it to propel you into your absolute best self. Do yourself a favor and buy it! ASAP.
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- Zen D
- 2022-05-23
Thank you
This book was a balance, enjoyed some and disregarded some. I can't say I hate it. It was truly a good one. She narrates super well and you can tell she's preaching what she practiced and vice versa. Maybe for men, who are super masculine... it's not good enough. To be honest I don't care about feelings and I never want to. Life is proactive, move forward. Also take responsabilities and accountability for your mistake. Again, it's not a one size fits all approach either... The author cannot know that I was in a long distance marriage so a lot of those things don't apply to me. Overall, It's a sweet book.
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- Amazon Customer
- 2021-09-18
I Really Needed This Boost :)
I haven't been feeling like myself since my own recent breakup and I figured why not give Elliot’s book a chance. I’m so glad I read her book. I found her stories relatable and she talks about how to put yourself first and change the negative outlooks in life to positive affirmations. Susan also talks about the importance of not contacting your ex in any other circumstance because of the negative effects it will have on your future. I truly saw myself in this book and one of the things that stuck with me when I finished was that if there's self doubt in your feelings for someone and you are sacrificing without reward its not worth staying if you haven’t been happy. I really needed this boost! Put yourself first ALWAYS!!
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- Amazon Customer
- 2023-03-22
Godsend
I listened to this book because I felt desperately lost and stuck after the toughest breakup I’ve ever experienced. I don’t want to sound overly dramatic, but my mindset truly did a complete 180 after listening. The book flipped a switch I wasn’t able to on my own by addressing and validating all of the debilitating emotions I was feeling, and further, gave clear guidelines on how to push ahead to a better life.
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