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A Life-Changing Tool That Millions of People Can’t Stop Talking About
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#1 New York Times Bestseller
#1 Sunday Times Bestseller
#1 Amazon Bestseller
#1 Audible Bestseller
A Life-Changing Tool Millions of People Can’t Stop Talking About
What if the key to happiness, success, and love was as simple as two words?
If you've ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, or frustrated with where you are, the problem isn't you. The problem is the power you give to other people. Two simple words—Let Them—will set you free. Free from the opinions, drama, and judgments of others. Free from the exhausting cycle of trying to manage everything and everyone around you. The Let Them Theory puts the power to create a life you love back in your hands—and this book will show you exactly how to do it.
In her latest groundbreaking book, The Let Them Theory, Mel Robbins—New York Times bestselling author and one of the world's most respected experts on motivation, confidence, and mindset—teaches you how to stop wasting energy on what you can't control and start focusing on what truly matters: YOU. Your happiness. Your goals. Your life.
Using the same no-nonsense, science-backed approach that's made The Mel Robbins Podcast a global sensation, Robbins explains why The Let Them Theory is already loved by millions and how you can apply it in eight key areas of your life to make the biggest impact. As you listen, you'll realize how much energy and time you've been wasting trying to control the wrong things—at work, in relationships, and in pursuing your goals—and how this is keeping you from the happiness and success you deserve.
Written as an easy-to-understand guide, Robbins shares relatable stories from her own life, highlights key takeaways, relevant research and introduces you to world-renowned experts in psychology, neuroscience, relationships, happiness, and ancient wisdom who champion The Let Them Theory every step of the way.
Learn how to:
- Stop wasting energy on things you can't control
- Stop comparing yourself to other people
- Break free from fear and self-doubt
- Release the grip of people's expectations
- Build the best friendships of your life
- Create the love you deserve
- Pursue what truly matters to you with confidence
- Build resilience against everyday stressors and distractions
- Define your own path to success, joy, and fulfillment
...and so much more.
The Let Them Theory will forever change the way you think about relationships, control, and personal power. Whether you want to advance your career, motivate others to change, take creative risks, find deeper connections, build better habits, start a new chapter, or simply create more happiness in your life and relationships, this book gives you the mindset and tools to unlock your full potential.
Order your copy of The Let Them Theory now and discover how much power you truly have. It all begins with two simple words.
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- Tara ra
- 2024-12-30
book changed me
made me see I can't fix everyone, and the best kind of love is letting people be who they are. Really a hard pill to shallow . she made me realize how I made myself miserable . Great way to start a new year with fresh perceptive. everyone should read this book .
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- Stephanie
- 2025-01-02
Let me, hell ya.
I loved it all. Thank you, Mel. I'm so glad I listened to your Ted Talk all those years ago. I've been following you ever since. Thank you!!!
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- Colleen
- 2025-01-22
Every day protocol for your best life
Mel does what she does best. Give us the tools to change our lives. It’s our decision to be better each day and this is a manual for how to take your power back and do it for yourself. No one is going to save you. Read this book and do it for yourself.
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- Nichola Royle
- 2025-01-23
urging me to take back my power. question and listen to my inner self.
no dislikes. she is very convincing. Up beat and credible. honest. made me think of possibilities and fresh new amazing goals for myself.
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- Jamey
- 2025-02-06
Highly Recommend
I’ve read and listened to a lot of books in the Self Improvement genre and this has to be my favourite. The concept seems so simple at the start, but I quickly realized although simple, it’s incredibly groundbreaking. As a chronic people pleaser that has been trying for years “not to care”, this book has already changed my thought patterns for the better. It’s improved my relationship with myself & with my husband & I can’t wait to see the other positive outcomes practicing this theory will bring! Thanks Mel & all who worked to bring this book to life!
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- Carli Bethke
- 2025-02-13
Amazing!!
What a great listen! Listening to Mel read this, really helped the book make an impact!! 10/10
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- Amazon User
- 2025-02-28
awesome!!!
this was so inspiring thanks Mel!!
this has helped me so much!Thanks again Mel!!
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- Mom
- 2025-02-18
Not perfect. Nothing is.
Love listening to Mel read her own book. It was excellent. I don’t agree with everything in it but LET ME take away all the very valuable parts that will make my life better. I could see listening to this one again some time when I’m struggling. I also toyed with getting my first ever tattoo while listening to this… Let Me.
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- That Girl There
- 2025-02-10
Let ME!
I liked learning that it's not only "Let them", but also "let me". I stumbled upon Mel Robbins through a friend. She sent me a podcast and then I was hooked. I preordered this book and I am sooo happy I got to listen to it. It was just what I needed to hear. I hope others get joy out of this as well!
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- Anonymous User
- 2025-01-22
Not enough information to warrant a book
Too much repetition, message could be delivered in an essay or magazine article.
No new concepts or information.
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