This week, Dr. Carlton talks about his Exxxcapades in Palm Springs—let’s just say there was a whole lot of "hand-holding" happening, and not in the PG-rated sense. Meanwhile, Dangilo found himself in the smoky, theatrical embrace of Benihana for a birthday celebration

The guys dive into some listener reviews and tackle some feedback. Dr C and Dangilo do a round of "Hit It or Quit It." Is anal numbing cream a friend or foe? Disco dosing before, during or after a sex trip? And when it comes to fisting, what are the actual dangers? Oh, and hemorrhoids

The questions don’t stop there. One listener asks for advice on life after a colon resection, while another has a burning query about the proper use of a penis pump. The guys dish out thoughtful, practical advice with their some humor because who says educational can’t be entertaining?

And there’s a Trampage update, because what would an episode be without checking in on our favorite long-distance love drama? The gays wrap it all up with this week’s “What’s Your Love Language?” segment,

Grab your headphones and prepare to laugh, learn, and maybe squirm a little—it’s another unforgettable episode of Butt Honestly!

This week, Dr. Carlton and Dangilo bring the heat—literally and figuratively. They dive into the LA wildfires, sharing thoughtful ways to donate and support those affected.

Dr. Carlton gives us a steamy rundown of his trip to Maui’s Little Beach, where—spoiler alert—things are far from "little." Meanwhile, Dangilo wrestles with the details of his Orlando event, and let’s just say this wrestling fetish conversation puts a whole new spin on body slams.

In the midst of the heat, Dr. Carlton drops a surprise announcement that’ll leave you curious, and the guys wade into the drama of the International Mr. Leather situation.

Listener questions this week bring it all: post-bottoming aftercare tips, navigating life after a prostate cancer diagnosis, and a heartfelt inquiry from someone in a seven-year marriage grappling with their partner’s HIV status. The guys tackle each one with a mix of empathy, insight, and just the right amount of cheek.

They wrap it all up with their “What’s Your Love Language?” segment, leaving you with warm fuzzies (and maybe a raised eyebrow or two). Tune in for laughs, wisdom, and the perfect balance of naughty and nice.

LA disaster recovery Handbook.

https://ladisasterrecoveryhandbook.org/

LAist Article:

https://laist.com/news/climate-environment/how-to-help-la-fire-victims

TIME Mag article, What to say:

https://time.com/7206518/los-angeles-california-wildfires-what-to-say/

Dr. Carlton and Dangilo are back to kick off the year with a bang—pun intended. This week, the guys dive into their recent travels, some hot takes on Squid Game Season 2 (yes, they’re already obsessed), and the buzzworthy new app Dick Explorer. Who’s swiping? Who’s diving deep? You’ll have to listen to find out!

But it’s not all TV and tech—things heat up as they tackle your burning questions. One listener is allergic to doxy—so now what? Another is curious (and maybe a little concerned) about a mysterious clear jelly post-anal session. And if you’ve ever wondered whether some guys are just “not built” to bottom, the guys don’t hold back.

As always, the episode wraps with the warm fuzzies as Dr. Carlton and Dangilo share their Love Languages of the Week. Start your year off right with laughs, wisdom, and a little cheeky inspiration!

It’s 2025, baby, and Dr. Carlton and Dangilo are here to pop some champagne and kick off the new year right! This week, the guys dive into a juicy listener question about navigating feelings for another man while in a monogamous relationship. Is it just a passing crush, or is it time for “the talk”? Get ready for some real talk with zero judgment—just like you’d expect.

But wait, there’s more! The guys unwrap Grindr’s 2024 Wrapped, spilling all the dirt on the country with the most bottoms (yep, we’re naming names), the kink capitals of the world, and who snatched the title of Pop Star of the Year. It’s like Spotify Wrapped but way gayer and infinitely more entertaining.

As the confetti settles, Dr. Carlton and Dangilo wrap up the year with a heartfelt (and slightly chaotic) holiday edition of their Love Language of the Week. Because nothing says “new year, new me” like love, laughter, and a little butt talk, right?

Whether you’re recovering from the New Year’s Eve hangover or plotting your resolutions, this episode will have you laughing, blushing, and maybe even rethinking your Grindr bio. Cheers to a fabulous year ahead! 🥂🍑

Happy Holidays, y’all! Dr. Carlton and Dangilo are serving festive cheer with a side of scandal in this very merry holiday episode. Producer Tony is playing Santa, pulling random questions from his sack (of surprises, naturally) to uncover some juicy details about your favorite hosts. Ever wondered about Dr. Carlton’s first crush? Or D’Angelo’s thoughts on pup play and OnlyFans? Well, buckle up, buttercup, because these revelations are spicier than grandma’s eggnog!

The holiday confessions don’t stop there—listeners have sent in their own tales, and let’s just say, some of you are definitely on the naughty list this year. 🎄🔥

Amidst the holiday hijinks, the guys tackle a listener’s question about Provincetown Bear Weekend—whether it’s worth the hype and what to expect if you’re thinking of going. (Spoiler: Bears, booze, and a whole lot of fun.)

To wrap things up, Dr. C and Dangilo share their Holiday Love Language of the Week, leaving you with plenty of warm fuzzies and a little inspiration to end your year on a high note.

So, whether you’re decorating the tree, baking cookies, or just dodging awkward family conversations, this episode is the perfect mix of holiday hilarity, heartfelt moments, and unfiltered fun. Pour yourself a drink (or three) and let’s get festive! 🎁✨

This week, it’s just Dr. Carlton and Danglio, bringing you all the festive vibes with a side of sass and science! As the holiday season kicks into high gear, the guys spill on their favorite seasonal activities—office parties, awkward Secret Santas, and navigating the holiday chaos without losing your sparkle.

The “Hit It or Quit It” segment sleighs this week with some spicy and cheeky questions: Can your emotions mess with your bottoming game? (Spoiler: Yes, but we’ve got thoughts.) How do you actually use a butt plug? And just what is the right “douche” for the job? The guys serve up laughs and practical advice in equal measure.

Listener questions bring even more holiday magic to the mix. One straight cis woman who’s an anal aficionado writes in with a worry that something might be amiss “back there.” Dr. Carlton tackles her concerns with his signature mix of empathy and expertise. Another listener needs advice on how to have that conversation about not-so-great hygiene with a romantic partner—because love stinks, but it shouldn’t stink-stink.

Finally, the guys wrap it all up with a holiday edition of “What’s Your Love Language?” Expect warm fuzzies, festive feels, and maybe a laugh or two that’ll make your eggnog come out of your nose.

So, grab your favorite holiday drink, cozy up by the fire, and tune in for an episode that’s equal parts naughty, nice, and oh-so-entertaining. 🎅🍑

This week, Dr. Carlton and Dangilo welcome the fabulous Courtney Johnson, better known as Miss Gay Black San Diego 2024—the stunning entertainer, drag performer, trans activist, and all-around queen who goes by the name Strawberry Corncakes. Get ready for an episode packed with glitz, grit, and glam!

Courtney sdishes the dish on her life as a drag performer and shares her inspiring journey as a trans woman. The trio dives into some big topics, including the biggest misconceptions about trans people, trans inclusion in sports, starting hormone therapy, discrimination in healthcare, and how drag became a life-changing outlet for her self-expression. Courtney keeps it real, heartfelt, and hilarious throughout.

The sass doesn’t stop there. Courtney sticks around to help the guys tackle some “Hit It or Quit It” questions. From the logistics of shower douching to Doxy Prep wisdom, tips for delivering mind-blowing head, and surviving those “ouchy” bottoming positions, the crew delivers advice and commentary with a side of wit.

And, of course, no episode is complete without an update on the one and only Trampaige. Has their long-distance saga reached a climax, or is the distance too much to bear? Tune in to hear the gang’s hot takes.

They wrap up this festive affair with a holiday edition of “What’s Your Love Language?”—guaranteed to leave you with all the warm, fuzzy (and maybe slightly naughty) feelings of the season.

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Get ready to stretch your mind and your body! This week, Dr. Carlton and Dangilo welcome the incredible Will Tantra to the show. Will is a naked yoga instructor and sex and intimacy coach who blends the physical, mental, and spiritual sides of sex like a pro. Whether you’re exploring intimacy with a partner or solo, Will’s got the moves (and wisdom) to level up your connection. He shares his journey into tantra and how he became a renowned teacher, proving there’s a lot more to yoga than downward dog.

Dr. Carlton doesn’t miss a beat as he dives into some sizzling “Hit It or Quit It” topics, including the etiquette of rimming, whether size really matters (when it comes to your load, of course), how to ease into fisting, and the curious art of gooning. Let’s just say this episode takes some deep dives in all the best ways.

The listener mailbag brings even more juicy questions, with topics ranging from circumcision to managing hemorrhoids while keeping your bedroom (or dungeon) adventures on point. Whether you’re a seasoned pro or just curious, the guys provide candid, practical advice—with plenty of laughs along the way.

To wrap it all up, the holiday spirit makes its way into this week’s “What’s Your Love Language?” Get ready for a festive, feel-good ending that’ll warm your heart—or at least your butt.

Unroll your yoga mat, pour a holiday cocktail, and get cozy for an episode that’s as enlightening as it is delightfully cheeky

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