Mistakes happen—it's a part of life. But how you respond to them can make all the difference. Do you beat yourself up and spiral into negativity, or do you seize the chance to grow?

In this episode, I explore the transformative power of meeting mistakes with a tranformative practice that shifts negative thinking into courage, curiosity, and a commitment to growth. Learn how to shift your mindset from self-criticism to self-improvement with a simple tool you can take with you and use for the rest of your life.

Discover how this mindset shift not only reduces stress and self-doubt but also unlocks rapid personal growth, wisdom, and well-being. By embracing mistakes as stepping stones, you’ll begin to realize your full potential. 🎧 Ready to let go of self-judgment and start thriving? Tune in now! 🌟

Key Links:

Melli O’Brien: https://melliobrien.com

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In this episode, I share a powerful mindset shift to help you handle lifes problems and challenges with less stress and overwhelm and more clarity, calm and flexibility. One simple perspective shift can make a big difference in how effectively we work through challenges, what outcomes we create and how we feel along the way.

Want to see how a small mindset tweak can change everything? Tune in and let’s piece it together. 🎧🧩 as we shift out problems into puzzles.✨Let’s get started.

Key Links:

Melli O’Brien: https://melliobrien.com

Get your free Deep Resilience Care Package: https://melliobrien.com/#deep-resilience-care-package

Do you ever feel like self-doubt is running the show, holding you back from your true potential? You're not alone. What if self-doubt didn’t have to stop you?

In this episode, I share a simple, playful hack to flip the script: Instead of letting self-doubt stay in the drivers seat, respond with to it with a powerful defusion technique (a way of unhooking from thoughts) that helps you adopt a mindset of flexibility, curiosity and empowerment.

When you retrain your mind to meet self-doubt with curiosity, humor, and determination, it transforms from a roadblock into a powerful stepping stone to personal growth. Ready to shift your mindset and unlock inner strength? Let’s go!

🎧 Tune in now – and emerge stronger, wiser and happier.

Key Links:

Melli O’Brien: https://melliobrien.com

Get your free Deep Resilience Care Package: https://melliobrien.com/#deep-resilience-care-package

Anger is an important, healthy and valuable emotion. It's something we all experience.

However, if anger is suppressed or not expressed in a healthy way, it can lead to all kinds of regrettable situations. In this podcast episode I explain the difference between toxic anger and healthy anger and how you can bring the wisdom of healthy anger into your life.

Key Links and notes:

Melli O’Brien: https://melliobrien.com

When we are struggling or feeling 'emotionally messy', instinctively, many of us try to hide that vulnerability from others because of a fear we’ll be seen as weak, unworthy, flawed, and we will lose love, connection and approval in our lives. But research shows that when we share our vulnerability and struggles with others it actually makes us stronger, improves our connection and deepens their love and approval of us.

In this episode I share the science around what researchers have dibbed 'the beautiful mess effect' and give you some tips to embrace the beautiful mess effect and get the support, connection and resilience you need when navigating messy times.

Key Links and notes:

Melli O’Brien: https://melliobrien.com

Waitlist for the deep resilience experience course release (currently the waitlist is on our old course page called headstrong https://melliobrien.com/headstrong-program/ here )

Get your free Deep Resilience Care Package: https://melliobrien.com/#deep-resilience-care-package

We all encounter difficult dilemmas in life at one point or another where we don't know what to do yet. What can happen in these times is we can easily tip into spending our days endlessly ruminating and worrying about it, often making ourselves really stressed in the process.

In this episode I share a three step method to navigate our dilemas in a more empowering way and maintain greater freedom and peace of mind on the way to finding our answers.

Key Links and notes:

Melli O’Brien: https://melliobrien.com

Waitlist for the Deep Resilience Experience course release (currently the waitlist is on our old course page called Headstrong https://melliobrien.com/headstrong-program/ here)

Get your free Deep Resilience Care Package: https://melliobrien.com/#deep-resilience-care-package

We all have those moments where the voice in the head starts to whisper things like: This isn’t going to work. You're not good enough, you're not talented enough, or you're not smart enough or experienced enough to do that. Who do you think you are? You're too short, too tall, too hairy, too geeky. It will never work!

And when we get hooked by self-doubt narratives it can crush our confidence, lower our self-worth, hold us back from the things we really care about and make us feel anxious and depressed.

So how can we overcome it? In this episode, I share a three-step method to overcome self-doubt so that you can follow your dreams, achieve your goals, perform at your best and enjoy life more fully.

Key Links and notes:

Melli O’Brien: https://melliobrien.com

Waitlist for the Deep Resilience Experience course release (currently the waitlist is on our old course page called Headstrong https://melliobrien.com/headstrong-program/ here)

Get your free Deep Resilience Care Package: https://melliobrien.com/#deep-resilience-care-package

Overthinking comes in many forms but by far the main two types are rumination (which can lead to feelings of unworthiness, depression and self-doubt) and worry (which gives rise to stress, anxiety and overwhelm).

Research shows that overthinking is linked to mental illnesses such as clinical depression and anxiety. Simply put, overthinking is not a useful mental habit. It hurts and hinders us.

So how can we overcome it? In this episode, I share a simple practice you can use to shift overthinking into a more empowering, helpful and skillful way of thinking.

Key Links and notes:

Melli O’Brien: https://melliobrien.com

Waitlist for the Deep Resilience Experience course release (currently the waitlist is on our old course page called Headstrong https://melliobrien.com/headstrong-program/ here)

Get your free Deep Resilience Care Package: https://melliobrien.com/#deep-resilience-care-package