Rewiring our systems and rewriting our patterns takes conscious, compassionate attention, and this is one easy tool you can use. Whatever pattern you find yourself wanting to shift — painful rumination, being hard on yourself, unhealthy habits, etc. — try matching that time and energy with one simple countermeasure to grow more balance: one for one. In today's episode we walk you through some examples from our own lives, and how to do this for yourself.

"Like finding gold." - Alma W.

"The best therapy I've ever done for myself." - Sanjeev B.

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Every episode begins and ends with a body-based self-connection practice, so you can grow your capacity to be with all that life brings. We also include self-reflection and journaling prompts each week, posted on our Instagram @wholeheartedloving. New episodes every Sunday at 10am PT.

Learn more about us and how you can practice with us LIVE at wholeheartedloving.com.

Life inventories can be overwhelming and tend to focus on the negatives: things that aren’t feeling good, with the pressure of needing to change them. Instead of asking what’s going wrong, we explore what is and isn’t working for us, and where we’re seeing positive change already — this compassionate reframe moves us away from the shame of shoulds, and toward loving inspiration.

In today's episode we go through three easy prompts with a series of examples from our own lives, past and present, and walk you through how you can lovingly inspire yourself with these simple self-reflections.

"Like finding gold." - Alma W.

"The best therapy I've ever done for myself." - Sanjeev B.

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Get our Self-Compassionate Body-Based Toolkit:

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Every episode begins and ends with a body-based self-connection practice, so you can grow your capacity to be with all that life brings. We also include self-reflection and journaling prompts each week, posted on our Instagram @wholeheartedloving. New episodes every Sunday at 10am PT.

Learn more about us and how you can practice with us LIVE at wholeheartedloving.com.

Coming off of autopilot and stepping into deeper agency in your life & relationships presents many amazing opportunities. Among our favs is the opportunity to enjoy pleasant sensations you might have whizzed by in the past. Taking the time to be with the sensations of what you already know feels good to you, and discovering new and different things that also feel good, is a sure and easy way to make life feel better.

In today's episode, we talk about things we used to think were stupid, but were willing to try, that now feel most excellent, and we discuss ways to figure out what you like — because there are so many unknown unknowns when it comes to feeling good, and so many ways to find them for yourself.

"Like finding gold." - Alma W.

"The best therapy I've ever done for myself." - Sanjeev B.

Join our monthly membership for LIVE calls & practice:

http://bit.ly/4eF86re

Get our Self-Compassionate Body-Based Toolkit:

https://bit.ly/40Vnz3b

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Every episode begins and ends with a body-based self-connection practice, so you can grow your capacity to be with all that life brings. We also include self-reflection and journaling prompts each week, posted on our Instagram @wholeheartedloving. New episodes every Sunday at 10am PT.

Learn more about us and how you can practice with us LIVE at wholeheartedloving.com.